Kim's Thoughts
Just a few thoughts I feel worthy of jotting down!
Happy Everything To You!
I don’t necessarily get offended when I hear someone say “Happy Holidays” – it depends on the reason and context the greeting is used. “Happy Holidays” is an expression that has been around for a long, long time – it isn’t new. I remember seeing Christmas cards with that greeting, as well as “Tis the Season”, when I was a child (we won’t talk about how long ago that was, but it was definitely before the world started all this “politically correct” crap).
The phrase is intended to be a broad greeting to wish happiness for someone over the course of the holiday season stretching from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day. When you use it in that context, I see nothing wrong with it – especially now that we’ve come to be more sensitive to those from other cultures and beliefs.
What I don’t agree with is that it has turned into a mandate in some ways – store clerks not allowed to give a specific greeting or people being vocally offended when someone else doesn’t realize they may not celebrate a particular holiday. Since when is a friendly greeting of any kind offensive – the specific or more general kind? And I don’t see those same stores that mandate no “Merry Christmas” greeting allowed stopping the sale of Christmas trees or other Christmas specific items that boost their sales – can’t have it both ways, guys!
No one can take “Christ” out of “Christmas” for YOU, if that is what is in your heart and your belief! What takes “Christ” out of “Christmas” in general are those who focus solely on the Santa and gifts part of the holiday – not the use of a friendly greeting of “Happy Holidays”.
I feel using “Happy Holidays” is appropriate when you are truly wishing someone a happy holiday “season” and encompassing all the holidays. Bringing joy and well wishes over the season is a good thing and should result in smiles and returned well wishes. It is also appropriate when you are greeting a stranger that you don’t know what their beliefs are – you can’t always tell by looking at someone what religion or culture they celebrate, so to be sensitive of that is being courteous to our fellow human beings, not ignoring any one holiday or forgetting the “reason for the season” – each holiday has it’s own “reason”!
However, if you are talking about a specific holiday or if you know the individual’s beliefs, you really should be more specific and honor those beliefs. If you are talking about Christmas, say Merry Christmas. If you are talking about Thanksgiving, say Happy Thanksgiving. If you are talking about Hanukkah, say Happy Hanukkah. If you are talking about Kwanzaa, say Happy Kwanzaa. And on with any other holidays I may not be aware of or forgetting at this moment! Honor each and every holiday as appropriate to the occasion and the person you are greeting. Afterall – a greeting is more for the person you are offering it to and should be catered to them, not you.
BUT — I still say that a friendly greeting of any kind can’t possibly be offensive if it is genuine, from the heart, and not offered out of sarcasm. If someone greets me with “Happy Hanukkah” or “Happy Holidays” or whatever friendly greeting I receive, I smile and respond with “Thank you, same to you.” and depending on whether or not I know the person, I may also add “and Merry Christmas to you.”! And I certainly don’t mean it sarcastically in the sense that I want them to know I think they are taking the “Christ” out of “Christmas” or that I am offended that they chose to honor their holiday instead of mine! That is their right, same as it is mine to honor my holiday! I am touched and happy to receive a friendly greeting of any kind and am saddened when my return friendly greeting results in someone taking offense by it. But, if a person wants me to join them in their joy or is just unaware that I may honor a different holiday than they do, why would I be offended by that?
So, come on, people — let’s just be happy about the wonders of the entire season — honor and hold dear the specific holidays we each celebrate in our own way — and stop being offended if someone chooses to greet us differently than we greet others. Life’s too short and precious to spend it being offended by someone wanting to offer a friendly invitation to celebrate something – whatever that may be!
May everyone reading this find true joy in your lives!
For those honoring the same holiday that I do – the glorious birth of Christ:
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
For those honoring a different holiday:
I wish you much happiness on whatever holiday you honor!
Movie Review – Did You Hear About The Morgans?
Sunday was a lazy day, but I did take time to go to Cafe 121 for brunch and take in a movie. I decided on “Did You Hear About The Morgans?”, the new Sarah Jessica Parker and Hugh Grant film. The critics have been slamming it and the Yahoo users were mixed – they either loved it or hated it for an average rating of C+. From the previews I figured I’d probably be somewhere in between – it looked like a cute story, but probably wasn’t one I’d end up raving about. I was right…..it was OK – enjoyable, funny at times, cute story, but overall not great!
The story is about the Paul and Meryl Morgan (Grant and Parker) who are having marital problems (Paul cheated on Meryl). After going to dinner to try to talk things out, they witness a murder and the killer sees them. This results in them becoming the key witnesses in a major crime ring, so the feds put them in the witness protection program. The Morgans – life long NYC residents who, to quote Meryl, “I don’t even like Connecticut!” – are thrust into seclusion in Ray, Wyoming – the ultimate definition of “the middle of nowhere”! It is funny to watch them try to cope with life in the ruralest of rural places, the people who live there, and the relationships they form – including their own.
The story is cute and caused me and a couple others in the audience to chuckle out loud a few times. What I enjoyed most was seeing Sam Elliott, who played the Federal Marshall they are sent to stay with in Wyoming. I love Sam Elliott – his voice totally melts me through – and I miss seeing him in films! Other notable characters are played by Mary Steenburgen (Sam Elliott’s wife) and Wilford Brimley (who played the crusty owner of a local diner).
Overall, I did enjoy the movie, but it won’t be memorable. I rate it a B- (the Sam Elliott factor kept it out of the high Cs) and recommend it for a quiet evening when it comes out on DVD.
Pet Peeve of the day
I am renewing a pet peeve I posted about in January that still tends to irritate me whenever I encounter it….what gives with this? Am I missing something here? This baffles me to no end!!! Come on people – unless you have a Mommie that follows you around and does it for you, take care of your own business!!!
The source of my irritation involves those sanitary paper liners for public restrooms. The intended use of these is a good thing and many people use them to help maintain some level of sanitation in public restrooms. What bothers me are the people who use them and then just get up and leave the stall without disposing of the liner – they just leave it on the seat for the next person to deal with. Come on — are they THAT paranoid of germs that they can’t carefully touch the outer edges of a paper liner that they didn’t mind touching when they put it in place and just push it into the toilet? It’s not like they have to crumple it up in their hands to toss it in a trash receptacle. They use the same hands to use toilet paper before they get up – if you get my drift (at least I would hope they do). They are even going to go right out and wash their hands (again, at least I would hope they do). AND – it was THEIR butt that was on the liner!! DUH!!! It is totally selfish and disrespectful to leave it for the next person or someone responsible for cleaning the restroom to take care of — we certainly don’t want to touch something they had their butt on – especially if they aren’t willing to do so!!!
Dreams
I had two very strange dreams last night close to morning and time to be getting up. They both woke me and made it hard to get back to sleep. I was thinking about what might have caused them and couldn’t come up with anything! Guess there is something bazaar going on in my subconscious, but not sure what would have triggered these particular dreams!
The first one was short…..I dreamed that I was riding in my Mom’s car coming from Albion towards Eagle Harbor. As we got close to the canal bridge on Eagle Harbor Road, I noticed a new sign on the other side of the bridge where the old post office and store used to be. It was the famous golden arches of McDonald’s! I burst out laughing and said, “They are putting a McDonald’s in Eagle Harbor? Seriously? Is there enough traffic that goes through here to indicate they might do a good business here? In Eagle Harbor?” and continued to laugh about it. Just as Mom got ready to turn onto the bridge, we noticed it was lifting. I said, “Careful, the bridge is going up.” She pulled up really close to it to maneuver the car into a position straight on to the bridge, instead of at an angle from the stop sign. In doing that, I thought she was a little too close, so I said again, “Watch out, the bridge is going up.” Just then, her front tires slipped over the edge of the road and when the bridge finished lifting, the car did a nose dive into the canal. When I realized we were going to end up in the canal, I rolled my window down and told Mom to do the same so that we could get out easily. We got out and stood on some rocks waiting for the bridge to come back down. I looked up and saw my brother and his wife standing on the bridge and I yelled at them “hey, Mom’s car is in the canal” and we all burst out laughing again! Then I told Mom that we need to swim to the bridge so we could climb up the canal bank. That was when I woke up!
The next one was longer, but just as odd! I dreamed that I was eating lunch in La Dolce Vita with some friends from work. We were sitting there talking when a couple of young girls started arguing as they stood by our table. The argument turned really aggressive and they started shoving each other and then started throwing fists at each other! They were fighting and bumping into our table, so I poured a glass of ice water on one of them to get them to stop. When that didn’t work, I poured another glass on the other one. That didn’t work, either, so I and some others tried pushing at them to break them up. Just then a SWAT team came busting through the door with shields and guns and ordered everyone to get down on the floor and put our hands behind our heads and don’t look up. They broke up the fight and took the two girls out of the restaurant in hand cuffs. They told us all to remain on the floor with our hands behind our heads. They kept yelling out orders that we couldn’t understand under their face shields. Finally, they started grabbing us one by one by the arm and taking us to the counter to pay for our meals and leave our name, phone number, and addresses for the lawyers to contact us for statements. They told me that I may be hearing from the lawyers about my assault on the girls – I said I didn’t understand because all I was doing was trying to break it up. He said it was illegal to throw water on someone and that I may face charges. He was being very mean about it and seemed extremely angry that I stepped in and did what I did! We left the restaurant and got in a big school bus. I was sitting in the front seat in the row closest to the door (not the row behind the driver). The driver was taking us back to our respective places of work and drove down one road that looked like it was near the court house somewhere. As he came up a little incline to a stop light, it turned green and he proceeded through the intersection. The road on the other side of the stop light was a sharp down hill and once he got the bus over the hump where we could see the road ahead, we saw that it was all fresh dirt and a HUGE hole. There was nothing the driver could do but yell for everyone to HANG ON TIGHT! We did a full speed nose dive into the big hole and the bus crashed and was flipping in slow motion onto the roof. That is when I jolted awake with such a jerk that I heard a big snap in my neck and upper back!!! It caused a really sharp pain and is still really painful!!! I’m in for a day of pain with this!!!
So — a couple more strange dreams to go down in my dream history books!
Movie Review – Everybody’s Fine
How often to we keep the truth from people to avoid talking about the “bad” things or to avoid causing stress or worry to the people in our lives? How often do we do that to the very people we probably should be sharing the “bad” with because they should know and are likely to be in a position and willing to help or, at the very least, provide much-needed support? That’s what this movie is all about! The things we hold back from the ones we love the most and how it impacts our lives!
Robert De Nero heads up a stellar cast as the widowed father of four – two boys and two girls. The characters are: Father, Frank Goode (De Nero); daughters Rosie (Drew Barrymore), Amy (Kate Beckinsale), and son Robert (Sam Rockwell). Frank’s other son, David, is only referred to throughout the movie and appears in a couple brief scenes in Frank’s flashbacks of his children when they were small. Frank labored hard all his life to provide for his family and is immensely proud of the dreams his children were able to accomplish because of his hard work and sacrifice – David, the well-known artist in NYC; Amy, the successful advertising executive who owns her own business and has a loving family in Chicago; Robert, the orchestra conductor and composer in Denver; and Rosie, the accomplished dancer in Las Vegas. His wife was the mainstay of the family. After her death, Frank decides he must take over the duty of holding the family together and watching over his grown children. He plans a family barbeque weekend and excitedly prepares for his children to visit so they can all be around the same table again. Then, one-by-one they cancel on him due to the busy lives they lead hundreds of miles from home.
So, Frank decides, against the advice of his doctor, to go to them! He heads out on a journey across the country on trains and buses – first to NYC to surprise David, then on to Amy in Chicago, then Robert in Denver, and finally Rosie in Las Vegas. Through it all, he discovers that the level of happiness and success that his wife and children conveyed to him over the years is not necessarily the reality of their lives. He finds that the term “Everybody’s fine” has been a comforting tale they all chose to use to avoid worrying and, yes, disappointing him. And the cover-up continues as each one manufactures excuses to not spend time with him so that he doesn’t discover the most recent tragedy plaguing the family in an attempt to not worry him until they have the whole story – at which time, it ends up being too late.
This all too common story of an American family spread across the country, all too busy with their own lives to take time to cherish each other, is told very poignantly. The characters are believable and the acting is exceptional. You very easily get caught up in their lives, their emotions, and their anguish as they uncomfortably lie to their father in an effort to protect him from the truth, as their mother always had.
Robert De Nero is superb as Frank Goode – did you expect any less from this amazing veteran actor? Barrymore and Beckinsale are perfect in their respective roles. The only thing that kept bothering me was Sam Rockwell as Robert – he did a very good job in his role, but I couldn’t help but picture him as the sadistic “Wild Bill” The Green Mile. I had to shake off those thoughts several times to avoid the distraction from his current performance. But, it wasn’t a role spoiler!
The only down side is that the story is a little bit of a “downer” – it is sad to see that the family has grown apart and feels they can’t be honest and confide in the father who did the best he could to provide a good future for them. My heart went out to him and I found myself wanting to just reach out and hug him and keep him from feeling like he is an outsider in his own family. But, as the story unfolds, it proves to be really heartwarming and a testament of the importance of family and the relationships within it!
Don’t worry – I went into a lot of detail, but there were no spoilers — all can be gathered from the trailers (click to watch a really good one) and the build up scenes in the movie. It is what is in between and the eventual outcome that will grab you!
Again, the critics are hating this movie – they think it is too sappy, old-fashioned, and sentimental. They find Frank to be nauseatingly naive about the world around him. I found all this to be the endearing qualities of the movie.
Because of the down side mentioned, I feel I need to take some points off. But, overall, I found the movie to be very touching and real – it grabbed my emotions and made sure I was engaged and involved. I rate it a solid B++. I do recommend you see it, even if only to use it as a reminder to reach out to those you love and trust them with the truth – even if it is painful – they just might be the rock you need to provide an anchor in your life!
Movie Review – The Blind Side
I love Sandra Bullock movies, so I had to see this one well before I saw any of the promos! Then, the promos came and I started reading about the story and was hooked! The critics hate it, but I never listen to the critics – they rarely like what I like (or what most average Americans like, for that matter)! Once in a while I am sorry I didn’t listen to them – this was NOT one of those times! I am so glad I went to see this movie on Sunday afternoon!!! I was just getting back from a week-long vacation (holiday visit to my Mom’s) and I was tired and had a TON of things I needed to be doing! BUT – the movie had already been out for a week and I hadn’t seen it yet and I REALLY wanted to see it! So — the outside Christmas decorations had to wait cause I chose spending the afternoon at the movies instead of putting them up and it was too dark by the time I got out and back home! Them’s the breaks!!! It was worth it!!!
This is the true story about All-American football player, Michael Oher – but, it is not a movie about football. Yes, there is football and lots of sports related scenes, but it really isn’t about that! It is about a well-to-do southern white family who takes in a poor, homeless black teen, makes him part of their family, and gives them every advantage they gave their own children. It is about that poor, homeless black teenager’s struggles to overcome his past and work hard to have a successful future. It is about a very large, but very shy, quiet, and appreciative young man who realizes what an amazing gift a family who truly cares about him and his potential is. Sound like a work of fiction? A story someone created in a novel? Well, it isn’t — it is a true story and an amazing one, at that!
But, beyond the story, itself…..the movie, as a whole, is well put together, well acted, and told gracefully. Sandra Bullock does an incredible job portraying Leigh Anne Tuohy – an ex-cheerleader who married her college sweetheart and became a very rich lady who dabbles in charitable causes. Tim McGraw portrays Sean Tuohy, who was a college basketball star and earned his fortune starting several fast food chains, like Taco Bell. I like Tim McGraw in films – he did a good job in this role – no, not Oscar worthy, but all performances don’t have to be Oscar candidates to be good! Quinton Aaron is exceptional as Michael Oher – an amazing performance by someone who barely speaks throughout most of the movie, but you know exactly what he is thinking, feeling, and what he is like inside! Incredible! Kathy Bates also has a noteworthy performance as Miss Sue – the tutor the Tuohy’s hire to help Michael bring his grades up so he can have a chance at a college scholarship to play football. The other standout performance was by young Jae Head, who portrayed SJ (Sean Junior) Tuohy. We’re gonna see a lot of this kid! He was a lot of fun to watch as the precocious, enterprising 8-year-old son of the Tuohy’s.
I found this movie to be thought-provoking, heartwarming, interesting, and encouraging. I laughed and cried and left feeling good – everything I expect out of a movie of this type! I don’t like or understand the game of football, but found myself engaged and interested in the football scenes – probably because it really wasn’t about that, at all, but, at the same time, it was more than just a back drop. I highly recommend this movie and hope that the critics don’t ruin the chances of this movie being recognized on some level during the awards season – at least by receiving some nominations!
I rate this one a solid A+! DON’T listen to the critics – go judge for yourself! Take some tissue or napkins in with you, sit back, and enjoy – it’s a good one!
Lots to be thankful for…
It is always easier to dwell on what you would like to have more of or what you don’t have that you wish you did have! But, it is so much more satisfying to focus on what you DO have and be thankful for those things that make your life comfortable and happy. This time of year – the holiday season – usually brings out these types of thoughts and reflection. I try to find things to be thankful for all year-round — I’m usually a “glass half full” type of person who tries to find the good in just about everything. One of my favorite sayings is “everything happens for a reason”. But, there are times when that outlook is extremely difficult to maintain. It is those times that it is even more important to focus on what you can be thankful for in your life!
So — in giving with the season — here are the things I am most thankful for:
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I am thankful for my family. If you know me even remotely, you know that I am close to my family. I am thankful that I still have my Mom – even though she’s 800+ miles away, we are able to talk via phone or computer every day and we can visit several times a year. I’m thankful that I can travel to her at least a couple times a year and I’m thankful that she is still able to travel to me at least once a year. I am also thankful for a brother I have always been close to.
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I am thankful for my friends. I’ve been blessed with many close friends over the years – some I am still close to, some are fairly new friends, some I’ve recently reconnected with, and some I’ve lost touch with. But all have enriched my life and contributed heavily to my memories. I feel lucky to have so many friends I know I can count on, if necessary, and that know they can count on me!
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I am thankful that my Grandparent’s home is still in the family and we can still have holiday dinners in the same room we did all the years I was growing up! Grandma and Grandpa are gone, now, but my brother lives in their house with his family. We had Thanksgiving there this year. And, while it was strange and sad to look around the table and not see Grandma, Grandpa, Poppie, Aunt Betty, and others who have eaten there with us for many, many years, it was still a joy to share another holiday meal with family in that house!
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I am thankful for my three dogs. I can’t imagine my life without at least one dog in it! I have always had dogs who have brought absolute joy to my life. The three I am blessed with now are no exception. They are loving companions and make me smile and laugh every single day. I adore them and am so lucky that they found me and are filling my heart with love!
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I am thankful for my job. With so many people unemployed and struggling, I am reminded every day how lucky I am to have a job. It may be stressful and trying, at times, but it sure beats the alternative and I definitely don’t take it for granted! I don’t understand those who constantly complain about their jobs when there are long lines of people who would gladly take whatever is dished out to them just to have a paycheck to provide for their families!
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I am thankful for my health. Yes, I do have some health problems – some fairly serious, but nothing I can’t live with and keep under control. I am blessed with the ability to live a normal life and get around and do just about anything I want to do. I am reminded that health and life is so precious because of a family friend who is seriously ill. A little over a month or so ago, he was healthy and active. Then, he had some stomach pain and they diagnosed him with liver cancer. In a few short weeks, he went from an active, vibrant man to a meer skeleton going in and out of awareness and ability to make any sense. He has been given 3 months or less. We went to visit him in the hospital the day before Thanksgiving and it was heart wrenching! Be thankful for whatever level of health you are in — it can change in an instant!
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I am thankful for laughter! I love to laugh and to hear laughter! Life is tough lately and people don’t tend to laugh enough! Laughter is healthy and makes you feel so good! There is an old saying – Laughter is the best medicine! From little chuckles to hard belly laughs that bring tears to my eyes and make it hard to breathe — laughter is something I strive for every single day to some degree!
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I’m thankful for my home. It isn’t a mansion and isn’t huge, but it’s mine and I’ve been able to make it a comfortable refection of me and what makes me happy! The only thing that would make it better is if my Mom would come live with me so we can be together all the time!
So — yeah, there are a lot of things I’d love to have, but don’t and lots of things that I wish I had more of. But dwelling on them is depressing and unhealthy! I have a TON more to be thankful for – much more than I’ve listed here! Life is good! I choose to be happy and make the most out of what I do have!
What are YOU thankful for?
Home
Home is where the heart is. Home sweet home. There’s no place like home. We know all this, but what makes home, home? Is it where you were born, where you grew up, where you currently live? Is it a specific place, an area, a feeling, a structure? Is it reflective of the # of years you spent living there? Can there be more than one place you call Home? I hope it is obvious that I am not talking about just where you hang your hat at the moment, but the place you call “home” when you are talking about it from your heart. This can be an easy question, but it can also be a complicated one!
For me, Home has always been and will always be my original home town! It is where I was born and raised and where I plan for my body to go when I leave this earth to walk with the angels! It is where I have most of my ties – family, friends, memories! It is where I went to school and where I got married! It is where I skinned my knees learning to ride a bike, where I tore up the roads learning to drive a car, and where I took more than a few spills learning to ride mini-bikes, dirt bikes, and motorcycles! I feel comfortable and content when I am there! It is where I can find peace looking out over the lake or visiting those I have loved and lost at the local cemetery or just being where my history is! It is where I can laugh so hard I can’t see or breathe and I lose all control! It is where my soul will forever live! It is where I know I can always go and not be judged, not be stressed, and just enjoy the love of family and dear friends!
I never thought I would call anywhere else Home! It took me many years of living in the city I currently live in to start considering it home. But, over the past several years, I have gotten active in my community, found some good friends, and am finding comfort there. I am quickly approaching an equal # of years that I have lived in each area – I lived in my original home town for the first 28 1/2 years of my life and in my current home town for the past 24 1/2 years. It is finally more than just a place to live and work – which is what it was for far too many years. It is where I find joy in taking pride in my community and working with non-profits. It is where I am making NEW memories and learning NEW things and enjoying NEW experiences! It is where I purchased my first home as a family when I first moved there with my new husband and son. It is where I purchased my first home on my own and where I have made that home a reflection of my personality and a source of pride in what I have accomplished with it. It is where I can sit out on my patio on a lovely evening and shut out all the troubles of the day. It is where I find comfort in mingling my past, my present, and my future with things, memories, and dreams that define each chapter of my life and help to blur the lines between the chapters. I have come to love my current home town, but find sadness that it is so very far away from my true home town. It has become my “second home”, but my first home will still always be what I refer to when I use the term “Home” in reflection of where my heart is!!!!
As for my final home: I find comfort in knowing where I will go for all eternity and that it is a breathtakingly beautiful place near family! My Grandfather gave me an incredible gift many years ago – he deeded a spot in the family plot to me. It is directly beside my Grandparents and an Uncle I never knew because he died when he was just a child. It is down just a few slots from my Poppie and where my Mom will eventually be placed beside him. It is in a cemetery where many, many of my ancestors are laid to rest – both those I had the pleasure of knowing and loving and those I never knew in this life, but will meet when we all gather in the after life. Just this year, I went ahead and purchased a memorial stone that was recently placed on my final home. I put a lot of thought into it and it is a wonderful reflection of me. It is made from Himalayan Blue granite, has an angel with a garland of roses on the right side and a rose laying on the bottom left corner. It includes the words “beloved daughter and granddaughter”, which is something I feel in my heart always. I also had the phrase “In the arms of the angels” written on the base. I love it! While I have absolutely no desire to actually take up residence in this final home for many, many years, it gives me a warm feeling knowing that when that time comes, I will have a place to go that is in the area I hold dearest in my heart, in a place that is so beautiful and peaceful, and where so many of my family and friends are and will be with me.
So, yes — Home can be a complicated thing, but no matter where you are or how you view it, there is always a past, current, and future aspect of what you call Home. And there is always ONE that is stronger and closer to your heart and what defines that one place is different for everyone! Think about what defines Home for you and remember it and be thankful for it during this holiday season — reflecting on memories is what makes a Home and what makes the holidays and life in general so precious!
Doggie Dreams
I’ve always found it interesting to watch my dogs while they sleep. They take sleep very seriously – painstakingly fluffing the dog bed, blanket, pillows, or whatever they are preparing to nap on – circling and patting down the area so that it is just the way they like it, nice and cozy! Sometimes they sleep so soundly that they are totally oblivious to everything going on around them – sprawled out on their backs in the most awkward looking poses in total trust that nothing is going to happen to them! Their world is safe and good! Sometimes they are just catching a few winks, but are really sleeping with one ear open to be sure they know if I move or do something they think they need to be involved in! Then there are the doggie dreams…..the times when they are obviously dreaming about running in a field or confronting some bully or chasing after squirrels!
Katie and Megan rarely have active dreams — once in a while they will twitch a little or make some growling or whimpering sounds. Amy, on the other hand, acts out her dreams quite often! She gets so animated and noisy! Maybe it is because she is the timid one, for the most part, when she’s awake. She gets to act out all her fantasies in her dreams.
Just a bit ago, she had one of her more active dreams! I can only imagine what she must have been dreaming about — I really wish she could wake up and tell me all about her adventures in dreamland, but she can’t! She was making a lot of little “woofs” that puffed out her cheeks, so I sat and watched for a while. Soon, she was totally involved in whatever was going on — her entire body twitched and jerked, her legs flailed around like she was running, her face twitched and wrinkled up in weird contortions, and she was barking, growling, and moaning loudly and excitedly. It didn’t last terribly long – just a minute or so – and she was back to a relaxed sleep and all was done! All the time, Katie and Megan slept peacefully near by – not at all disturbed by the noises and actions Amy was exhibiting.
This looked like a fun dream — of course, I have no way of knowing that, but it seems obvious to me when it is a good or bad dream. This one had excited sounding noises – like when she’s playing. Bad dreams have more scared or aggressive sounding noises. I try to not wake her from her dreams, but if it appears to be a bad one and seems to be lasting a long time, I will usually call her name or move the bedding or touch her to gently wake her from it. If I do, I hug her and tell her that it was just a dream and she’s safe and OK — she usually leans into me to snuggle and gives gentle kisses of thanks!
My girls — what joy they add to my life!!!
Movie Review – The Box
The previews looked intriguing, the cast was a sure bet (Cameron Diaz – love her in just about everything she does, Frank Langella – one of my favorite character actors, James Marsden – such a cutie), and I was all geared up to see a movie! So, I went to my hair appointment this morning and then to meet a friend for lunch at Elizabeth’s. The movie didn’t start until 1:35, so I went back home to let the girls out, check email, and do a couple things. I almost got wrapped up in something and realized almost too late that I needed to leave to make it to the movie on time. I got there with about 10 minutes to spare, got my small popcorn and bottle of water, and went in to grab a seat! There were only two previews that came on while we waited for the movie to start — a REALLY good-looking new Mel Gibson movie called “Edge of Darkness” due out in January and a futuristic looking movie with Denzel Washington that I’m sure I’ll not bother with.
And the interesting parts of my day, so far, came to an end!!! What happened next can only be described as the worse waste of 2 hours I’ve ever experienced in my life!!! I am not going to waste more time by going into a lot of details about the plot – you’ve seen it on the trailers – woman is given a box with two choices: push the button and become an instant millionaire while someone she doesn’t know dies OR don’t push the button and her life will remain as it is! She chooses to push the button — the rest of the movie takes us on a very painful journey through the consequences of her decision! And I do mean painful!!!
This movie made no sense what-so-ever……the acting was so low quality, I wouldn’t even call it acting (everyone sounded and looked like they were reading cue cards being held just off the set and read them with no emotion at all)……Cameron’s southern accent was horrible……it was hard to follow……and it was just plain stupid!!! There were all these characters wandering around like zombies in a deep trance with their mouths gaped open “watching” Diaz and Marsden to make sure they do what they are expected to do — whatever that is! They don’t really seem to have a purpose at all!!!
I loved Twilight Zone and Outer Limits — this had that feel, but was sooooo much more hokey and no where near the level of entertainment of those classic shows!
The only bright side is that it did send a powerful message — you ALWAYS have a choice and there are ALWAYS consequences to whatever choice you make – good or bad!!!
Usually, if I don’t particularly like a movie, I recommend you wait until it comes out on rental or cable if you have a strong urge to see it — not this time!! I wouldn’t recommend spending a penny on it, I wouldn’t recommend wasting a spot on your Netflix list, and even if you get to see it for free, I wouldn’t waste the time! Go to the dentist and have a few teeth extracted, instead – you’ll find that more enjoyable!!!
I give this one the lowest rating I have ever given any movie, regardless of how much I disliked it (there is usually “something” worth a medium-ish rating) — I rate this one a HUGE F- and wouldn’t recommend it to anyone!!!
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