Movie Review – Manchester By The Sea

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I have seen the previews of this movie several times and really wanted to see it. It has been in theaters for a while, now, so I started worrying that I might miss out if I didn’t get my butt out to see it. So……today, I went to the early bird matinee at Tinseltown and saw it.

WARNING – MAJOR SPOILER ALERT!!!

Sorry – I’m going to break my own rule and include some spoilers! I won’t spoil it all – there is a lot more to it than what I share, but if you don’t want to know too much before you go see it, you might want to skip reading this review! After all…..it is just my opinion and you might not feel the same if you see it!

By all accounts, Manchester By The Sea should have been a fabulous movie full of gut wrenching emotion and families/friends coming together to heal and care for each other. Well, the gut wrenching emotion was there! But, I have to say I was more than a little disappointed by this movie. On the up side……it was an excellent story and the acting was very good! It had some strong potential. But, in my never to be humble opinion, it fell flat.

Manchester By The Sea is the story of Lee Chandler, played by Casey Affleck (who I usually much prefer over his brother, Ben). Lee lives in Boston and works as a janitor/handy man for an apartment complex and lives in a room in the basement of one of the buildings. He moved there from Manchester, MA after a terrible tragedy occurred in his life. He receives a call that his brother, Joe (played by Kyle Chandler) has died. Joe was diagnosed a few years prior with congestive heart failure and, after several hospitalizations over the years, died from the disease. Lee travels to Manchester to handle the funeral arrangements and to tell Joe’s teenage son, Patrick (played by Lucas Hedges) the news. He is told by Joe’s attorney that Joe’s will names Lee as trustee and guardian of Patrick. Lee’s life is in turmoil and he is an emotional wreck, so he questions whether or not he is a fit guardian for Patrick, but he agrees to see where it all goes and arranges to stay in Manchester at least through the summer to get things settled and not uproot Patrick too quickly. While in Manchester, he is faced with memories and people that open old wounds….including his ex-wife, Randi (played by Michelle Williams).

The movie drags on and on……I kept wishing it would just move on and kept waiting for Lee to begin to see that facing his demons and being around Patrick may help him to heal. But, it all just makes his heart break deeper. Seeing Randi tears him apart because she is remarried and about to have a child with her new husband. He is torn with knowing that staying in Manchester is far too painful, but also knowing that the best thing for Patrick IS to stay there and allow him to not leave school, sports, friends, and the life he is comfortable with. He makes his choice and sets the wheels in motion and then the movie just ENDS…….

Like I said, the story is a really good one and the actors all did an incredible job. But, it was VERY SLOW and I left feeling extremely depressed! I also felt cheated, as the ending was very abrupt and I felt it left too much unsettled! It is definitely a movie about how deeply a tragic loss (and in Lee’s case multiple losses) can effect you and cause serious depression. It also sends a powerful message that sometimes facing your demons and trying to move on with the memories staring you in the face can do more harm than good. Not the message one in Lee’s position really wants to discover. I guess the movie did accomplish what it’s intent was……to elicit deep emotion……cause I sure did feel it! My problem with it is that I go to the movies to be entertained and I’m very much a “happily ever after” kind of girl. So………I personally rate this a 3+ out of 5. If you are as easily overcome with emotion as I am, you may not want to see this movie alone during an afternoon matinee. But, I hate to discount it totally…….

Photos of the Day – January 27th

So, I went to the movies, today. I saw a movie I’ve been wanting to see for a while and finally went…..I was afraid it wouldn’t be in the theaters much longer, so wanted to grab it while I could! Well, while it should have been a really outstanding movie, it ended up being a sad disappointment…..and I left the theater feeling depressed by the story and the ending (I’ll write a review in another post, so won’t bore you further, here). The reason I’m mentioning it is that I got home and found a new post by a really funny blogger I’ve been following recently. Her post literally saved my day……it cracked me up!!! Go check her out…..click here for the post that turned my mood around and do yourself a favor and read some of her other stuff…..maybe you’ll like her as much as I do and follow her!

So, now……on with the Photos of the Day for January 27, 2017:

# 27 Photo Prompt – I Can’t Live Without:

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“My Life Line”

The subject of this photo is my iPhone……but, it is no accident that it is laying on my Kindle and that there is an app on my phone that links to my Kindle in case I’m out somewhere and want to read, but didn’t bring the Kindle with me!!!

Literally tethered to technology!!!

# 27 Caught By My Lens:

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“Vintage Buggy”

This caught my eye on the Ridge near Brockport on my way home from the movie. Thinking it may be an old hearse??? What a shame to see it out in the weather all open like this!

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 26th

Howdy, Doody, to you!

Here are the Photos of the Day for January 26, 2017:

# 26 Photo Prompt – YUM!:

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“Salad and Shrimp for Lunch!”

I met several members of my family for lunch at the Village Inn, today……LOVE it when I can enjoy the company of my wonderful family, get to see a visiting family member I haven’t seen in a while, and order the VI house salad and shrimp cocktail for lunch! YUM, indeed! Mom and I used to enjoy stopping in the VI for lunch and ordering the salad and shrimp…..perfect light lunch!

# 26 Caught By My Lens:

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“Yo! Sam!”

I drive by Watts Farm Market almost daily and see their wonderful, colorful cutouts…..they always put a smile on my face…..decided to stop and take a photo to share that smile with all of you! 😀

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 25th

Well, hello, there…….glad you could pop in and check out my blog!

Before I get into the Photos of the Day, I wanna share a dream I had this morning. I obviously think WAY too much about ideas for the daily photo prompts!

I had an odd dream this morning……I dreamed I was at a big game at my old high school, located in the Village of Albion in NY (this is important context for those of you who don’t know where I went to high school). It was a beautiful sunny day, so I wandered around the campus with my camera. There was a string of vendors and craft tables and I saw lots of old friends who acted like they didn’t know who I was. Then, I noticed a breathtaking river and waterfall that flowed along the back edge of the campus – I commented to some people admiring it that it is funny, but I don’t remember such a beautiful scene when I went to school, here. They looked at me like I was nuts and quickly shuffled off to get away from the crazy lady. I, then, came upon the perfect shot for today’s photo prompt (In The Background). It was a large poster for the Purple Eagles (our HS mascot and name of our sports teams) with a group of football players and cheerleaders posing by it and off in the distance (in the background) there was a perfect view of Mount Rushmore! I tried and tried to get the photo, but my camera wouldn’t work! I told the lady standing next to me that no one is going to believe me that you can see Mt. Rushmore from the AHS campus if I don’t get a photo. I fiddled and fiddle with the camera and finally got it to take a photo, but the shutter stayed open WAY too long, so it was blurry and very white! The camera wouldn’t work, again! Soooooooooooo, although I have no photo evidence……a river and waterfall has developed behind the high school and it is gorgeous……and, you can see Mt Rushmore from there! It’s true…..I saw it!!!!

Once I was fully awake, I headed out for a lunch meeting with a club I belong to and, after lunch, I drove around the country side to find inspiration for today’s photos. So, without further ado……

Here are the Photos of the Day for January 25, 2017:

# 25 Photo Prompt – In The Background:

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“Treasure Beyond The Dead End”

Beautiful Lake Ontario in the background…..

# 25 Caught By My Lens:

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“Winter Chores”

Every once in a while, while driving around the county looking for the perfect shot for the day, I come across a truly great gem……I think I found one, today!

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“Winter Chores 2”

And…….a bonus shot — this taken from my den window not long after I got out of bed this morning:

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“January Morning Visitor”

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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And, a sneak peak at February’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 24th

Hello, Readers! The white stuff made an appearance here, today…..not a lot, just a dusting over night and I probably have 2-3 inches in my yard since this morning. Not bad. I keep reminding myself that it IS winter in WNY…..snow is not an oddity! And, I really don’t mind it that much now that I’m retired and can just say, “think I’ll stay put and watch how pretty it is through my windows where it is warm and comfy!” HAHA!

Here are the Photos of the Day for January 24, 2017:

# 24 Photo Prompt – What I Do!:

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“Blog, Camera, and Kindle”

🙂 My guilty pleasures! 🙂

# 24 Caught By My Lens:

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“Azalea in Winter”

The white “blossoms” look almost as pretty as the red ones in spring!!!

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Lately, I’m finding this to be more true than usual…..

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 23rd

No fog, today…..YAY…..no real sun, either, but just glad we’ve got our heads out of the fog! 😀

Here are today’s Photos of the Day for January 23, 2017…..all with a subject near and dear to my heart….Megan!!!

# 23 Photo Prompt – This is Mine! :

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“My Little Pony”

This is mine – you can’t have it!

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“These are mine, too!!!”

# 23 Caught By My Lens:

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“WHAT!!??!! Did you seriously just disturb my nap to take a picture?”

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 22nd

Today was a very special day! Before I get into the Photos of the Day, I want to share a photo that I didn’t take, cause I was participating in the activity that was being photographed. The choir in our church introduced our brand new choir robes to the congregation, today, and our Pastor Linda performed the Order of Dedication of Choir Robes to bless them and enter them into service. We’re so happy to get the new robes…..I think maybe we sang just a tad bit better with them…..if I do say so, myself! hehehe Here is our choir singing the first anthem in our newly dedicated robes:

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And, now……on with the Photos of the Day for January 22, 2017 — the second day in a row that we have been socked in with dense fog, so more foggy photos!

# 22 Photo Prompt – In My Town:

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“Foggy Sunday Morning”

# 22 Caught By My Lens:

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“Cold and Foggy Sunday at the Point”

Point Breeze, Lake Ontario, NY

And, a BONUS shot:

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“Flying in a Fog”

A flock of geese flew over while I was at the Point…..I could hear them loud and clear, but could barely see them…..so glad the photo came out and captured the scene perfectly!!! 🙂

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 21st

Hello……thanks for stopping by! It is a foggy day here in Western NY……kinda odd – it is 1:00 in the afternoon and the sun has still not come out to burn off the fog, so we’re enjoying what you might call a lazy, hazy day! A real good day to read, relax, and yep, a nice nap…..now that my errands are done!

Here are the photos of the day for January 21, 2017:

# 21 Photo Prompt – Grow:

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“Brand New House Plant”

My friend started this from clippings and delivered it this morning. Hoping I don’t kill it! I do great with outdoor stuff – Mother Nature helps me with those – but I am a notorious plant murderer for inside plants! Please pray for this beauty!

# 21 Caught By My Lens:

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“Foggy Playground”

Taken about lunch time at Bullard Park in Albion.

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And…..some more foggy day photos I took while I was out and about around town this morning:

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We may not be in old London town, but this song seems appropriate for the day:

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Photos of the Day – January 20th

Hello, readers……this winter sure is odd for Western NY……today’s high was close to 50 degrees and I believe it is forecasted to reach over 50 tomorrow! No complaints, here, but can’t stop thinking how odd the season is and wondering when the other shoe will drop! But, for now, I’ll take every gorgeous day that comes our way!

Here are the photos of the day for January 20, 2017:

# 20 Photo Prompt – Something White:

I shot two different options for today’s photo prompt. I usually do try to get multiple options and decide which to use based on which one comes out better once they are downloaded. Today, I could not decide between the two options, so you’re getting both!

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“Orleans County Courthouse Pillars”

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“Albion Free Methodist Church”

# 20 Caught By My Lens:

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“Twisted and Broken”

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January 2017’s Photo Prompts:

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Movie Review – La La Land

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My friend, Cathy, and I went to the movies, yesterday. We saw La La Land on the IMAX screen at Tinseltown in Gates. WE….LOVED….IT!!!! Period…..end of review!!! Just kidding…..you know I am NEVER that short on words! hehehe

So, La La Land is the story of Mia, an aspiring actress played by the adorable Emma Stone, and Sebastian, a die-hard jazz pianist played by the ever gorgeous “OMG, I’m melting” Ryan Gosling. Their story is set in Los Angeles and chronicles their struggles to fulfill their dreams amid the highly competitive and often depressingly disappointing world of Hollywood, music, and acting. Mia struggles through interview after interview with less than encouraging results in hopes of becoming a serious actress and finding that one big break. Sebastian struggles through gigs playing music he hates trying to save up enough money to open his own jazz bar to showcase the jazz greats of a bygone era. Mia and Sebastian meet and fall in love and sing and dance their way through their love story.

I love Emma Stone in anything I’ve ever seen her in and this movie is no exception. I described her as “adorable” in the last paragraph and I’d love to find a different word for her and her character, Mia, but adorable just plain says it all, so I’ll say it again…..Emma Stone is simply adorable in this role! Of course, Ryan Gosling is…..well, Ryan Gosling! How could Mia or anyone else, for that matter, NOT fall head over heels in love with him!!!??? I mean……look at him……and, then, he opens his mouth and gazes back at you with those amazing eyes and you’re DONE…..he has you in the palm of his hand for all eternity! <cough, cough> Excuse me while I get back on track, here! Both Stone and Gosling have won awards for their performances and the awards season isn’t over, yet……and, deservedly so! They reel you in and make you adore their characters……you want to know them……you want to BE them……you want them to have it all – their dreams, their love, their wonderful life together. AND……they do an amazing job with the song and dance routines……I knew Ryan Gosling was a beautiful ball of talent, but was pleasantly surprised to see that Emma Stone is, as well! The movie as a whole has won multiple awards in multiple categories……it is a real “feel good” movie where you can escape into a time long gone where musicals and the great song and dance teams warm your heart and lift your spirits!

The movie primarily focuses on Mia and Sebastian and the other characters are just supporting roles and cameos. But, it was a joy to see J. K. Simmons pop up as Bill, the dingy piano bar owner who fires Sebastian for going off the play list of Christmas songs he hates and breaking out into the jazz music he loves – after all, no one is listening, anyway…..except Bill, who was adamant that he stick to the song list or else! And I LOVED seeing John Legend as Keith, an old friend of Sebastian’s who asks him to join a new band he’s putting together to go out on tour with him…..I wish there was more of Keith, but that would have changed the focus of the story too much and I probably wouldn’t have liked that.

I also loved that it was a musical……in the old sense of the word – people breaking out in song and dance routines to demonstrate the mundane rituals of everyday life (i.e.: the opening scene is a wonderful depiction of a horrendous traffic jam on an LA freeway where all the “stuck” drivers get out of their cars and sing and dance in, around, and on top of the stalled cars) and to beautifully orchestrate the growing love affair between Mia and Sebastian (I particularly loved when they danced among the stars at the observatory). But, it is also enough dialog and regular scenes to keep the story “real”.

It is a story about true, enduring love……about dreams and the struggles to keep working through the mediocre to find the wonderful……about the trade offs and costs of achieving your dreams……..it is about love and loving what you do and being passionate enough about your dreams to do whatever it takes to reach for them……at whatever cost.

I really want to talk about the ending, but I have a firm rule against major spoilers in my reviews. So, I will just say that I was less than happy with the ending. I will also mention that there was a spot in the middle where it was starting to drag just a little – I found myself getting a tad bored and wishing it would just move on. But, the ending and the small slow section in the middle didn’t change my over all LOVE of this movie! I would pay to see it again, I loved it so much! So……all that said, I rate this movie a solid 4.5 out of 5 (it would have been a 5+, but I deducted just a smidgen for the ending)…….and, it met all my criteria for a great movie: I laughed, I cried (just a touch – not really a tear-jerker, but a couple scenes brought a few tears to my eyes), I fell in love with the characters, and I left feeling good……in fact, I left feeling like I should dance my way to the car!!! I highly recommend this movie…….all you hopeless romantics out there will be as enchanted as I was over it…….and all you lovers of musicals will find it refreshing and nostalgic for the old song and dance teams on the big screen!

After the movie, Cathy and I went to Rohrbach Brewing Company for a late lunch and had an incredible meal…..what a treat to top off a wonderful afternoon!

Here are two clips — the first is the movie trailer and the second is the main song from the movie performed by Gosling and Stone – it won “Best Song” at the Golden Globes! Enjoy!