Katie’s Story

 My beautiful Katie turned 7 years old yesterday!  I can not believe how time has flown by and she has gone from a scraggly, sickly pup to a gorgeous red-head in her senior years!  Katie had been a source of pure joy in my life from just about day one!  Truth be told, though, she is the one that chose me……not the other way around!  I wasn’t looking to add another 4-legged baby to my family, but she literally gave me no choice in the matter, whatsoever!  So, in honor of her seventh birthday, here is her story:

It began on a very stormy day about six and a half years ago.  My best friend was driving on the country road he lives on heading in to town.  We were about to be hit by the outer bands of a tropical storm.  It was already raining pretty heavily and the winds were starting to kick up.  As he pulled up to the stop sign to turn the corner, he noticed a dog just off the side of the road in the field – she was drenched and looked scared and lost!  He went on in to town, but couldn’t stop thinking about that poor animal out in the storm.  When he returned home, he looked for the dog and she was still there – a little closer to some brush, but still out in the weather that was getting really bad, really quickly!  So, he stopped and called out to her.  She came running and hopped right in the truck.  He took her home to shelter her from the storm and planned to see if he could find where she belonged after the weather broke.  After all, if one of his dogs got lost in a storm, he would hope someone would do the same to protect them.  When he got her home, she was very timid and scared.  It was obvious that she had been severely neglected and was starving!  He fed her and cleaned her up and gave her a safe place to sleep for the night.  Then, as planned, he attempted to find her owners.  Given her condition, it was not surprising that his efforts didn’t result in finding her home.  After some time, he simply assumed that she was dropped off there or wandered away from a bad situation.  So, he set out to find her a new home……….and his first thought was ME!  WHAT?  REALLY?  I already had an elderly cock-a-poo, my precious Puddles, who had been going through major health issues and needed a lot of attention and care.  But, I had many friends and family who kept urging me to get a companion for Puddles and acclimate a new dog into my home while Puddles was still with me.

So, I was invited over to meet this little rag-a-muffin!  She was very loving and sweet, but extremely timid and shy.  I thought that she had a good disposition for my home because, like I said, Puddles was quite old, set in her ways, and calm, quiet.  She didn’t need a rambunctious puppy annoying her and giving her any stress.  Puddles went with me on the visit and they seemed to take to each other very well – it appeared to be an instant friendship!  So, I played with her for a while and she seemed to be comfortable with me, too.  I tried to come up with a name for her — she had red hair, so I wanted an Irish name and I wanted it to be a human name.  So, I sat on the retaining wall and talked with her about names.  I said things like, “how about Shannon – do you like that name?” and went through a list of names that I thought might fit her.  She gave me no reaction or indication that she thought any of them were to her liking.  Finally, I said, “you know what?  I always thought that if I had a daughter, I would name her Katie Elizabeth – after Katherine Hepburn and Elizabeth Taylor.  What do you think of Katie Elizabeth?  Would you like to be called Katie?”  Well, she got all excited and jumped up on my lap and gave me a big kiss……………..so, Katie it was!!!!  I then said, “well, Katie, would you like to come live with me and Puddles?” – she, again, got all excited and danced around and headed for my car!!!!  And so the three of us – Puddles, Katie, and me – got in the car and went home.

This is Katie the night I met her – she is having a star-struck “I’m in love” moment with my friend’s Great Dane, Midas

Until Katie came into the family, Puddles was Midas’ one true love, then Katie stole his heart

But Puddles remained his first and bestest sweetie until the year they both passed away within a month or so of each other!

When we got to the house, Katie instantly took over!  She ran through the house like she was on fire – she was wide open!!!  My friend said she never made a sound at his house and was very well-behaved, but she wasn’t in mine more than a few minutes and she was barking at everything in sight and jumping on and off every piece of furniture and bed and rolling around on the carpet and furniture like a mad woman!!!!  She did the same in the back yard!!!!  It wasn’t an “anxious” type of reaction — it was an absolute “this is my new home and I’m just so happy I could explode” type of reaction!  It was like she knew my friend’s house was a temporary safe haven, but this was home and she was making it her own as quickly as she could!  Poor Puddles didn’t quite know what to make of it — she just sat there watching her act like a wild child on way too much caffeine and looking at me like “what is her problem?”!!!  Once she settled down, all was fine, but man, those first few days of her getting settled in were exhausting!!!  For all of us!!!  hahahaha  So, yes – she chose me and my home to be where she felt she belonged and chose her own name and that was IT!

I took Katie to see Dr. Cindy at All Animals to find out if there was anything I should be concerned with exposing the frail Puddles to.  There was nothing in that sense to worry about, but Katie did have some serious medical problems.  She was severely malnourished, had a non-contagious form of mange, and had an extremely serious urinary track infection, among other things.  She was lucky to be alive!  It took a lot of medication, treatments, and loving care to get her healthy!  She was small, scraggly, and scruffy looking – her hair was short and wiry and she looked more like a terrier of some kind than anything else!  Once we got rid of the mange and her health turned around, she started to grow…….and grow……..and grow……..very quickly!  And her hair started to grow out and get soft and long and beautiful!!!  It became obvious, then, that she was a Golden Retriever mix.  I suspect that she is perhaps mixed with a Sheltie – along with the Golden features, she also has some strong Collie/Sheltie features and is much smaller than a normal Golden.  We estimated her to be about 4 or 5 months old at the time.

Regardless of what breeds she has in her blood, she turned out to be an extremely beautiful girl – I call her “the pretty one” – Katie, Katie, Pretty Lady!!  And she is just as sweet as she can be.  She’s a social butterfly — she loves every person and dog she comes into contact with and they all love her!!!

Along with the medical attention, I also took her to Bon-Clyde for obedience classes and she has a framed diploma to prove that she completed her training and has graduated from school!!!

Katie and Puddles became the best of friends – they loved each other to pieces!  As time went on, Katie became very protective and nurturing of Puddles.  As Puddles became more and more confused and was not able to see or hear well, Katie would “herd” her to help her find her way.  It was so precious to watch.  There were times I would be in the den on the computer and Katie would come in all upset and whining at me to follow her into the living room where I would find Puddles on the couch acting like she wasn’t sure where she was or how to get down to the floor.  She became the mother hen watching over her dear friend who was slipping away from us.  She seemed “lost” and broken hearted when Puddles was no longer there to love and watch over.

So — here is Katie — the birthday girl — my beautiful red head — through the years:

During Katie’s first few days in her new home

Please let me in…….

Katie and her new best friend, Puddles – they became inseparable!

Katie starting to grow and her hair starting to fill in – at first, she was just about Puddles’ size, but she quickly passed her up in height and weight!

BFFs!!!

Katie and me with our hero – Dr. Cindy!  She has cared for and saved the lives of all my girls at one time or another, but in particular with Puddles and Katie! 

We LOVE Dr. Cindy!

Katie loves her back yard……taking in some shade!

The beautiful Miss Katie!

Katie loves her pool time!

And then, she loves to dry off in the sun!

Enjoying some birthday cake at Rae-Zor’s on her 6th birthday!

The birthday girl on her 6th birthday, last April!

Katie with her current sisters – Megan and Amy – enjoying a warm summer day! 

HAPPY SEVENTH BIRTHDAY,

MY BEAUTIFUL

MISS KATIE ELIZABETH!!!

Ice Cream

You scream, I scream, we all scream for ice cream!  Ice cream – what is better than that smooth, creamy, cold, delicious treat that brightens eyes and creates smiles?  I have many a fond memory wrapped around ice cream!  While having ice cream in the freezer for a treat on a warm summer evening at home is great, it doesn’t compare to the chance to go out for ice cream at a local ice cream parlor, soda shoppe, dairy, or wherever ice cream can be found close by.  Just taking a drive and ending up having ice cream – whether planned or not – makes the day ever so special.  So, here’s a tribute to ice cream and some of my special memories that revolve around this amazing treat!

  • My Grandfather delivered newspapers as a side job after he retired and would often take me or my brother along to help him fold the papers when we weren’t in school.  At the end of his route, we would always stop somewhere for lunch, which always included an ice cream cone or a thick milkshake.
  • Across the street from my high school was a little Tastee Freeze – a small soft serve ice cream shop that was only open during the late spring, through summer, and early fall.  Back then, we were allowed to leave the school to go wherever we wanted to go for lunch – home, a restaurant, wherever – so long as we returned in time for our next class.  I remember going across the street with friends during lunch and having an ice cream cone or a sundae instead of lunch as often as I could when it was open.  We’d sit on the picnic tables and eat our ice cream and talk and flirt with guys that chose the same lunch option.  If we wanted ice cream and it was the off-season, we would just walk down the street a ways to Woolcott’s Dairy and have lunch there.
  • The Tastee Freeze was also “the” destination after my brother’s little league games – if his team won, the coach would take the whole team there and celebrate with ice cream.  Many of the spectators – including Mom and me – would tag along to join in on the fun, too!  If the team lost, my Mom still took us for ice cream and most, if not all, of the rest of the team’s parents did the same!
  • Woolcott’s Dairy was a main fixture in Albion, NY – right on Rt. 31 at the end of Platt Street off set slightly from four corners, which was the main intersection of Main St. and Rt. 31.  They sold milk, bread, and some other quick grocery items, but the main attraction was the service counter where you could sit and have breakfast, lunch, dinner, and their amazing homemade ice cream!!!
  • As a child, we lived with my grandparents on Platt Street.  My Grandfather was a foreman at Hunts, which was also located on Platt Street.  I would walk up to Woolcott’s and get him a pineapple milkshake and take it to him on his dinner breaks – it always seemed to brighten his day!
  • During my senior year in high school, I worked at Woolcott’s Dairy – I was a waitress, cooked a little, and served up ice cream – yes, I was a soda jerk (keep your comments to yourselves)!  One of the perks was FREE ice cream while we were on duty!  We’d keep a pile of plastic spoons near the ice cream case and scoop out a big bite whenever we walked by and make ourselves a big sundae for our breaks!  The king of all sundaes was the Woolcott’s Special – this was a colossal sundae – sort of like a banana split on steroids!!!  It was a large dish with several scoops of different flavors of ice cream with a banana, several toppings, whipped cream, and of course a cherry on top!  We were taught to weigh the dishes to be sure we weren’t giving the customers more ice cream than was supposed to be in any particular sundae, but when any of my friends came in, I’d “forget” to weigh the dish and put a little extra of everything in it!  YUM!!!  My favorite, though, was always anything with caramel and nuts on it!  Mom’s favorite is a Mexican Sundae – vanilla ice cream with spanish peanuts, chocolate syrup, marshmallow cream, whipped cream, and a cherry.
  • Albion also had two other soda fountains / restaurants downtown – Gus’s and Greek’s!  It was a time when kids could ride their bikes or walk all over town all day long – we’d be gone from early morning until dinner time and parents never worried about what harm may come of us or what trouble we might get into.  It was a small town and there just weren’t the dangers that there are today.  Anyway – we could be found most days having a soda (a real soda – ice cream, flavoring, and soda water – made to order with whatever kind of ice cream and flavoring combination you could imagine) at Gus’s or Greek’s.
  • Albion no longer has Woolcott’s Dairy or either of the soda shoppes, but there is still the Tastee Freeze and there is a similar place in nearby Medina called Double Dips that is also a seasonal place to get soft serve ice cream.  Mom and I still enjoy popping in at Double Dips when we’re out and about during my visits to get a sundae together – we usually get the idea to stop at the same time – she’ll say, “you know what’d be nice?” and I’ll say “I’m already planning to stop for ice cream” – hahahaha.  They also got a Stone Cold Creamery in the Tim Horton’s on Main Street within the last couple of years or so.  That is always good!
  • My grandparents had a cottage at Sunset Beach on Lake Ontario and we spent a lot of our summer days there.  There was an ice cream stand out on the main intersection of two roads – one that went to Sunset Beach and one that went to Lakeside.  We’d walk from the cottage out there – it was quite a hike – to get ice cream.  It was the packaged kind of ice cream – like Nutty Buddies, Fudgecicles, Good Humor products, etc., but it was still so good and well worth the long walk on a hot day!  My favorites were Nutty Buddies and Creamcicles – that wonderful orange and cream combination!
  • When I first moved to Sanford with my new husband and son in 1985, we would take off on Sundays to just drive around to explore and figure out what the area had to offer – we’d head out in a different direction and just drive as far as we could and see where we ended up.  It always included finding somewhere that we could stop for an ice cream cone!  When we’d get in the car to head out, Robby would always say “can we stop to get ice cream?” – like there was really a chance that wouldn’t happen – and we’d always say “we’ll see, depends on how good you are and where we end up”!  But, he had to know that we never went out on a Sunday drive without stopping for ice cream – even if we didn’t find a place that served ice cream cones, we’d stop at a convenience store and get something from the freezer section!
  • There used to be a TCBY Frozen Yogurt shop in that little strip plaza on the corner of Third Street and Horner Blvd that we used to enjoy going to, as well.  The idea of big waffle cones filled with frozen yogurt and a variety of toppings, like crumbled candies, M&Ms, bite sized brownie squares, and more, was very novel at the time — a real special treat we used for celebrations and special occasions!
  • A big part of driving from Sanford, NC to Albion, NY and back was always stopping for a refreshing ice cream from Dairy Queen when I really needed a break from the road!  When Puddles (my precious cockapoo) traveled with me, she always got her own small dish of ice cream!  She LOVED ice cream so much!  I had to spoon feed it to her slowly because she would wolf it down too quickly and it would be obvious she would get a brain freeze!!!  After the first couple of times she did that, I started keeping her dish on the dash board and give her a spoon full every other time I took a bite of my own.  When she got old and sick, her diet was drastically restricted and she didn’t get out much.  The week that I decided it was time to let her go, I took her for ice cream and long drives every day to make her last week as special for her as I could —– and to share some final memories!

So — that is my life as it has been touched by ice cream!  There are many, many more memories that I can link to ice cream, but these are the ones that stick out the most.  A dear friend mentioned wanting a hot fudge sundae on Facebook tonight and just the hint of how great that would taste made it so I had all I could do to keep from getting in the car and heading up to the Dairy Queen, but I was a good girl and restrained myself (literally – I went in and put my jammies on so I wouldn’t be able to go – it all but came down to duct taping myself to the couch)!  Writing about this topic has me really wanting a big dish of pralines and cream with caramel sauce and maybe some hot fudge, too……..but, it was also therapeutic – I may want it, but I’m not going through compulsive cravings for it……….not really!

Makes Perfect Scents

Funny how some conversations I have just scream “this will make a great blog post”!  Either as I’m having them or as I think about them later, I start to work through how I will take the topic and run with it.  It just makes perfect sense (or in this case scents) to me.  I had such a conversation early last week – it was just a brief comment or two and it was over, so no elaborate discussion, but just enough to prompt further thought about the topic on my part.

The topic?  Perfume!  The conversation that triggered the need to write?  A friend asked what perfume I was wearing and we talked briefly about how she thought that was what it was because it is one that she likes, as well.

The perfume?  Tabu!  I love Tabu – it is very elegant and classic.  I also like Windsong and often alternate between the two, but Tabu is really my favorite.  I used to wear both in high school, but they disappeared (or at least from stores I shopped in) and just recently (in the past couple of years) rediscovered them both.  So, if you run into me, I will most likely be wearing one or the other.  My Dad used to tease me when I finished getting dressed to go out by saying “are you wearing your OFF?” – it was a dig at keeping the mosquitos (boys) away, so it was a running joke whenever I put on perfume or he put on cologne or aftershave!

Perfume is a very personal item.  When purchasing perfume for a gift, it is wise to find out what the lady likes before purchasing something just because you happen to like the smell you sniffed from the sample bottle.  Perfume is not only a personal preference, but also can smell very differently on different women – depending upon how it mixes with the oils in their skin.  Some women prefer musky scents, some prefer flowery scents, some prefer more classic scents, and others prefer cleaner/lighter scents.

Personally, I am usually not a fan of musky scents – on me or on others.  I have asthma, so many overpowering scents or ones that give off a musky aroma tend to take my breath away.  But, it isn’t just that.  I just don’t usually like the smell of musk.  However, I have been known to wear Vanilla Musk in the past and have liked it.  There was a long period of time when I wore Sand and Sable almost exclusively.  But, either they changed the formula or something has changed in the way it smells on me because I suddenly found that I really didn’t like the way it smelled on me at all – I’d get a whiff when my blouse moved just right or the breeze caught it now and then and I’d cringe.  I stopped wearing it.  It is a shame, too, because I really liked it at one time!  When I was in grammar and junior high school, there was a cologne called Baby Soft that I wore a lot – it smelled like baby powder.  But, I out grew that when I got into high school and moved on to the more sophisticated Tabu and Windsong.

Other perfume type scents I enjoy:

  • For years and years, my mother wore Emeraude Creamy Skin perfume and I loved how she smelled when she wore it.  But, they stopped making it and the liquid version just doesn’t smell the same.
  • I love the smell of lavender – so calming and beautiful.
  • I have gotten so that I much prefer the smell of soap in the shower over scented shower gels.

Other scents, in general, that are sure to put a smile on my face:

  • Puppy breath
  • Freshly washed sheets that have dried outside in the breeze
  • My house when a big dinner is roasting or desserts are baking in the oven
  • Fresh baked bread
  • Fresh ground coffee beans

And then…….there is the one scent that everyone wears at various times in their lives, even though it is not bottled and sold (thank goodness) and not on anyone’s favorite scents lists.  It is called:  “Keep your distance” – appropriately subtitled “I’ve been playing or working hard and you really don’t want to get too close until after I take a shower”!!!!

Keep your noses clean and enjoy the wonderful scents all around you!

Farewell, James Epps

A good, sweet man passed away this morning – James Epps.  James was a security guard for many years at Wyeth.  He was there for as long as I can remember – I’m not sure if he was there before me or came just after I started, but he was definitely a constant smiling face for most, if not all of the 23 years I have worked there.  James retired a few years ago and then was back at the front gate waving and smiling at us as we arrived each morning.  I have missed seeing him and am so sad to hear of the news of his passing.  I didn’t know James outside of work, but he was a kind, sweet man who left fond memories with me that will last forever.

Back in the early days – when we were Praxis Biologics – there was only a handful of us that worked third shift.  James was the night guard back then and he watched over us and made sure we were all safe and well as we rattled around in that big old building.  He brought in birthday gifts on our special days and always had a story or a joke to help us pass the time.  He was there to greet us when we arrived and sent us home with a smile and a wish for a great day when we left.  Through the years, the mergers, the growth, he was still there smiling and offering a cheerful greeting.

But, I have a very special, personal memory of James that always warms my heart when I think of him.  I will be forever grateful for his kindness and compassion one very late night on March 20, 1999.  It was the day my Dad passed away.  I found out late that Saturday afternoon and couldn’t get a flight out until the following morning.  I packed and took care of things at the house and then I just sat in the living room staring at the walls and crying.  I couldn’t sleep.  I just sat there watching the clock for the time I could head to the airport.  Finally, about 3:00 am, I decided to try to take my mind off things and went in to work to wrap up a few things, send some emails, and leave some notes for my staff and co-workers about things that I left undone that they should be aware of.  When I arrived, James met me at the door and asked what in the world I was doing there at that hour!  I told him that my Dad had passed away and I needed a distraction – it was the first time that I said it out loud and I started to cry and he hugged me and just let me lose it right there in the lobby!  He walked me to my office, brought me some coffee, and checked on me every 1/2 hour or so to see if I was OK and to be sure I knew I was not alone!  I will never forget him for many reasons, but this is the memory that shines through them all.

May you rest in peace, James Epps – I know the angels have a special place ready for you because they know, as we did, that you were a kind, sweet, good man!  Farewell, my friend.

Weekend Words

What a great weekend this was……perfect weather (until it got a little cooler today, but still nice), and lots of thoughts clanging around in my brain!  So, it is time for  a brain dump and to just ramble on about the things I did this weekend and other random thoughts.  Not sure where to start, really, guess I should just jump in with the weekend activities and go from there.

Thursday was St. Patrick’s Day – we had Irish Pub music playing in our office area all day, which was interesting.  I went by Southern Jewelers to drop off the items I gathered for their Scavenger Hunt contest – I am now in the running for the Grand Prize – a pair of 1/2 carat diamond earrings!!!  Yes, that is a 4-leaf clover on my cheek!

Friday evening wasn’t all that special.  I thought about going out to eat, but ended up just staying home.  I didn’t want to be out too late, anyway, because Friday night is my night to watch “The Defenders” and “Blue Bloods” on TV.  I LOVE those shows!  Yeah – I DVR them, but I’d still rather watch them when they air, unless something really special takes priority over them.  But, when I got all settled in and comfortable in front of the TV, I discovered that – for the second week in a row – both shows were preempted by basketball games!  Uugghh!  When is the basketball season done so that we can have our TV back???  At least last week, was just local games, so there was a “new” episode of each on and I was able to catch them on HULU the next day.  This week must have been wider spread coverage or they were reruns, because I haven’t seen new episodes posted on HULU, yet.  So, I ended up watching a couple of hours of back-to-back “Say Yes To The Dress” episodes – most of which I saw before, but sat through again cause there wasn’t anything else that interested me on!

Saturday was cool, though.  The weather was FABULOUS!!!  80+ degrees, sunny, and totally enjoyable!  The weather has been very good the past several days, but Saturday, I actually got to enjoy it because I wasn’t inside working all day!  I bummed around the house and played with the girls most of the day and took a much-needed afternoon nap.  Then, I got ready and went out for the evening.  First, I had a perfectly cooked rib eye steak dinner at Cafe 121 – YUM!!!  Then, I went to the Temple Theatre and got a ticket to the Saturday performance of the current show – “Proof”.  The show wasn’t to start for an hour, so I took the opportunity to stroll around downtown and enjoy the gorgeous evening.  It was still 70+ degrees and so quiet and peaceful.  I looked in all the store windows and just wandered around in an attempt to walk off just a little of the delicious dinner.  I got back to the theatre and it was still a little early, so I sat on the bench outside and continued to enjoy the evening.  Between dinner, my stroll, and my time at the theatre, I was able to say hi to several people I know and that was so nice.  The show was good — as always, the Temple Theatre did a very nice job of bringing the performances to life.  After the show, I went back home and had the chocolate pound cake I got “to go” after dinner at Cafe 121.

The other neat thing about Saturday night was the moon.  It was not only a full moon, it was a super “pedigree” full moon!  Apparently, it was the closest it has been to the Earth in about 20 years, so it appeared much bigger and brighter than the typical full moon.  It was quite beautiful.

So, today – the last day of the weekend, but the first day of Spring – is Sunday!  It was cooler today – a friend on Facebook said it best:  “Only in NC can the last day of winter be 84 and the first day of spring be 54!”  But, I don’t care – it is still the first day of Spring and I am so happy to see this day come!  It was a rough winter for just about everywhere in the country this year!  I love Spring!  It is my favorite time of year – with the exception of the pollen weeks!

I went out for a little bit.  I needed to fill my gas tank — something I dread, along with most of the rest of the world!  I started to head to Lowes Foods to fill up there, but decided to go to the Murphy Express station at WalMart, instead.  I’m glad I did!  Along the way, most of the stations I noticed were posting gas prices of $3.50 – 3.51 a gallon and there was one place I noticed that was $3.49.  Murphy Express price was only $3.46!!!  Five cents cheaper than most other places.  Then, I was REALLY glad I went up there, instead of Lowes Foods — I went by there on my way back and their price was $3.52!!!!  What’s up with that???  I thought they were supposed to be a discount gas station!!!  I usually go there because it is closer, but will definitely go to the other end of town from now on!  Six cents a gallon less is absolutely worth the drive to save!

Then, I had lunch at the Dairy Bar and went to get some groceries. 

Other thoughts:

  • The Food Lion on Hawkins Avenue is going through major renovations.  I mostly like the changes – looks more like some of the higher end grocery stores and is very pleasant to shop in.  The only problem I have found, so far, is the produce section.  They have fruits and some vegetables on old-fashioned looking market carts – very appealing to the eye!  But, they are high to begin with and then they put some of the items in baskets on top towards the center of the cart – nearly impossible for short people (and I’m sure some elderly people) to reach.  I wanted to get some pears – they were in those baskets – I looked around to see if there were more somewhere lower, but there weren’t and the baskets were no longer full, so the pears were down inside the baskets, almost hidden from my view.  So, I stood on my tippy toes and reached the basket and pulled it forward to dump a few pears out onto the next shelf so I could pick out a few and then put the rest back.  The same thing with the sweet onions I wanted to get!  So, I stopped by the Customer Service counter and told the lady there that I had some feedback for her about the new design.  I said it all looks great, but that the carts in the produce section make it very difficult for short people (and also mentioned the possible elderly it may impact) to reach.  I told her my story about what I had to do to get some pears and sweet onions.  She seemed genuinely concerned and promised to pass the information on.  Even just putting some both in the baskets and within reach would be a big help.  I know – all stores have high shelves that have always been a problem for us short folks, but I can deal with that – I can usually get up on my toes and use my finger tips or a pen from my purse to knock a box off the top shelf and if there aren’t any within reach that way, I either get a different brand or sometimes a kind fellow shopper reaches it for me.  These baskets are different – you have to reach over the lower shelves on the cart and then down into the basket!  Not good!  I hope they fix it!
  • Pet peeve of the day — people who think they are the only ones in the grocery store and that no one else needs to get down the aisles or look at the stuff on the shelves!  I linger longer than I probably should when trying to decide what to get, if not something I normally buy, but I do try to stay over to the side and watch for people who may need to get around me or may want to get something in the section I might be blocking. 
  • I had to get new tires on the pony this week.  Ronald changed my oil last weekend and noticed several spots with exposed threads and bald sections!  So, I went to Perry Brothers and got new tires and a front end alignment.  The guys at Perry Brothers were great, but it was still a hefty expense I wasn’t planning on…….oh, well!!!  Them’s the breaks!  (oh, dear – don’t let the use of the word “breaks” be a trigger for new “brakes”, too!)  The old girl may be 6 years old, now, but she only has 52,000 miles on her – I would think that tires would last longer than that!
  • With all the stories about purse snatching and other such crimes we hear about far too often, it was a real joy to read the letter to the editor in today’s Sanford Herald about the happy ending for the lady who left her purse in the cart in WalMart parking lot.  Apparently, when she realized she left it, she went back assuming it was long gone, but discovered that someone actually found it and turned it in – there it was waiting for her!  Sad, though, that the person who turned it in didn’t leave her name so she could be properly thanked! 
  • I got a little bloody nose this morning — I was wrestling with Megan on the bed and we were having fun, until she rolled around the wrong way and banged her hard head into my nose!!!  It didn’t bleed much, but man, it was sore for a couple of hours and still tingles a little!  That’ll teach me!  hahaha

I think that’s all I have to talk about today………

Smile – it inceases your face value!

My last post was about the joy that a good cry brings.  Now, I think I’ll give smiling some equal time.  And, yes, the title is a quote from Steel Magnolias – Truvie, played by Dolly Parton, said it in the movie that always brings a lot of both smiles and tears when I watch it, so it is fitting to use for this post.  Afterall, aren’t laughter and tears so closely tied you often find them all wrapped up in the same emotional situations?

When I first sat down with the idea for a post on smiling, it was going to head in a very different direction than where my thoughts ended up going.  I intended to focus on things that make me smile.  When thinking of a good title, I immediately thought of using the Steel Magnolias quote (duh – isn’t there a great Steel Magnolias quote for every situation?) and that led me to wondering what other quotes are out there about the value of smiles.  So, I ran a search and found a ton of them.  Then, I started thinking of songs that talk about how smiles hide inner pain or deception.  And then, I started thinking about the close ties that smiling and crying have – as I’ve already talked about in my opening paragraph.  I soon realized that the topic of smiles is so much deeper than just coming up with a bulleted list of what makes me smile.  So, this will be a mixed bag of all that the word “Smile” brought out in me this morning.  And, yes, there were tears along the way – but not sad ones!

I’ll start with what makes me smile – my original intent for this post – in no particular order, except for the first three:

  • Family
  • Friends
  • My dogs – the girls
  • Daisies – the happiest flower on the planet
  • Yellow roses
  • Pearls, opals, and amethysts
  • Root Beer
  • The wind blowing across my face
  • A beautiful blue sky
  • Babies
  • A job well done – especially if it was particularly challenging
  • Fond memories
  • Listening to the sounds of nature breaking the silence of a quiet morning
  • The pony with the top down on a warm spring day (like later today, for sure)

The following picture makes me smile and it just screams “life is good”!  You may not see it, but I do.  It is of my Poppie – the main reason it makes me smile, but that isn’t all.  To know why it screams “life is good”, you have to look really close and know more about the bigger context.  First, he is on the phone doing what he loved to do – working on his locksmith business – in this case, it looks like he was placing a parts order.  He is surrounded by drawers and racks of tools and little bitty pieces and parts on the shelves behind him – he LOVED stuff like that and it simply sent him into a tizzy of happiness just knowing he had everything he would ever need to fix anything that would ever need to be fixed and it was all within reach at all times!  He is sitting in front of his computer – something else that brought him pure joy and a hobby of building computers for friends and family.  Then, on the wall beside him there are photos of the grandchildren and others and above that, where you can’t see in this photo, is a photo of him with all his siblings with their mother on her birthday.  The filing cabinet behind him has a clipping of his niece’s engagement announcement, a plaque that reads “It’s nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice” – something that describes him to a “T”, and the name “Marilyn” – his wife, my mother!  So, yes – this photo makes me smile every time I come across it – it looks like a busy mess, but it is a perfect image of who he was and what meant the world to him.  Of course there was a lot more that he found joy in and every photo of him makes me smile, but this one says so much all in one brief snapshot in time. 

What is the first thing that comes to mind when thinking of a smile?  Maybe a big toothy grin – like the ones in the Pedigree Doggie Dentures commercials or Whoopi Goldberg in The Color Purple when Shug Avery finally makes her realize that she has a pretty smile?  Maybe  something funny, like perhaps a clown?  Clowns – there is a word that can bring a lot of depth to the topic of smiles.  Aside from the evil, scary clowns, the typical image that comes to mind is a clown with a big smile painted onto their face.  But, not all clowns are happy clowns.  Take Emmitt Kelly, for instance.  Arguably the most famous clown ever, Emmitt Kelly based his clown on the depression era and always had a sad, worried look on his face.  I loved the image of Emmitt Kelly.  I used to do ceramics and did a figurine of Emmitt Kelly for my Mom, who also had a soft spot for the famous clown.  We also had a large portrait of Kelly in our home for many years (in fact, it is on the wall beside Poppie in the photo above) – one that I would love to find out where it ended up and put in my home.

Thinking of Emmitt Kelly and the old saying “Tears of a clown” brings to mind two Smokey Robinson songs that focus on how a smile or someone who is trying so hard to make you laugh may be hiding heartache.  The first song was titled “Tears of a Clown” and the other was “Tracks of My Tears”.   If you want to listen to them, you’ll need to click the link that comes up to take you to YouTube because of licensing issues (definitely something that does NOT make me smile whenever it happens).

A song that focuses on the deceit that smiles can hide is one by Undistuted Truth called “Smiling Faces”.  Oh, and by the way – if the big white afro wigs don’t make you smile, nothing will! 

 

Like I said earlier, I found tons of quotes related to smiling.  Here are some that stuck out for me – most reflect my opinion that it is so much healthier and easier to go through life with a positive outlook and find the joy in things that make you smile.

  • “A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.”  ~Phyllis Diller
  • “A smile confuses an approaching frown.”  ~Author Unknown
  • “Before you put on a frown, make absolutely sure there are no smiles available.”  ~Jim Beggs
  • “A smile is the light in the window of your face that tells people you’re at home.”  ~Author Unknown
  • “Life is like a mirror, we get the best results when we smile at it.”  ~Author Unknown
  • “I have a tickle in my brain.  And it keeps making the corners of my mouth point toward the heavens.”  ~Jeb Dickerson
  • “Keep smiling – it makes people wonder what you’ve been up to.”  ~Author Unknown

And finally – a video full of clips of Charlie Chaplin – the MASTER of mixing tears with laughter.  I dare anyone to watch this and not break out into a smile at least once – even if only from listening to the song that comes along with it!

Now – go out and find something to smile about……I hope this post put one on your face! 

To close out this post, here are the lyrics to “Smile” – by Charlie Chaplin
Smile
Tho’ your heart is aching
Smile
Even tho’ it’s breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You’ll get by
If you
Smile through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You’ll see the sun come shining thru for you.
Light up your face with gladness
Hide ev’ry trace of sadness
Altho’ a tear maybe ever so near
That’s the time you must keep on trying
Smile
What’s the use of crying
You’ll find that life is stillworth while
If you’ll just smile.

A Good Cry

I got home from work this evening – after running by All Animals to get a bag of food for the girls and paying $45.00 to fill my gas tank – and settled in to see what I had on my DVR.  Since I wasn’t feeling all that well over the weekend, I had everything pretty much caught up and watched….except the recording of yesterday’s “Sunday Morning“.  This show records every Sunday morning – I used to watch it religiously, but now only watch it if the snippet of show details lists something of interest to me.  This week, it had several segments that sounded like they would be enjoyable to watch, so I am now watching it!

The first segment was all about the dying art of the “tear jerker”.  A comment the reporter made inspired me to log on here and write a post.  The comment?  “There used to be an expression about movies:  ‘Oh, go to this movie and you’ll have a good cry.'”  I immediately related!  I love a movie that will earn me a good cry!  Each and every one of the movies they used as examples are ones I saw and sobbed hysterically at – not once, but many times!!!  And I don’t mean many times within the single viewing of the movie – I mean many times over multiple viewings of the movie!  In fact, I got teary eyed just at the reference to the movie and the first second of the small clips they showed!  I can’t resist watching any of these movies over and over again.  I usually start to get choked up at the opening credits because I know what is coming!

The examples they used were:

  • Brian’s Song
  • Terms of Endearment
  • Beaches
  • Sleepless in Seattle
  • A Star is Born
  • Ghost
  • and a few others

Others (in addition to the above mentioned) that always make me sob – movies I call a “three box movie”, meaning you’d better take three boxes of Kleenex with you, cause you’re gonna need them:

  • Love Story
  • Always
  • Steel Magnolias
  • The Notebook
  • and many others

But, that isn’t a bad thing.  I don’t cry because I’m sad or depressed – I cry because I get caught up with the characters and the story.  It is an absolute compliment to the movie, the actors, the story, and everything/everyone involved in it.  I always say that the criteria I use to determine if a movie was good or not includes whether or not I laughed, cried, and left feeling good.

More to the point……I really enjoy a good cry.  There is something about the endorphins or something when you cry – it makes you feel good after you get it out and have a good hard cry.  It helps fend off a bout of depressed feelings – I let myself indulge in a good cry and I’m renewed and refreshed.  I leave a movie that really made me cry hard and I feel good.  I’m a very sentimental, emotional person and feel deeply about things that spark my emotions.  I’ve been known to cry at the drop of a hat – even sentimental TV commercials (like the old one for the long distance company when the young man calls home and he says “I just called to say I Love You, Mom!”).  Quite often, when my emotions get the best of me and cause an embarrassing situation, I get mad at myself and cry even more!  But, that’s OK, cause I’ll wind up feeling better in the long run.

So, what got me teary eyed tonight, besides the thought of all the wonderful tear jerkers highlighted on Sunday Morning?  The $45.00 fill up at the gas station!  uugghh

So……go ahead…..give yourself permission to have a good cry – you’ll thank yourself for it!  I consider myself lucky to have the ability to let it all out……it is definitely healthier than holding it all in!

The Beauty of Savannah

This past week I was able to experience the beautiful, historic Savannah, GA.  What a treat, in deed!  One of my best friends and I took the pony on a “girl trip” where we stayed three nights on Hilton Head Island and spent two days discovering Savannah.   I had visited Savannah and Hilton Head one other time, several years ago, but was not able to truly enjoy it.  I traveled there with a co-worker for a seminar on Hilton Head.  We arrived a day early so that we could see Savannah, but it was raining and cold.  Although we didn’t get to see much, what I did see was beautiful and I vowed to return someday when I could spend more time and see all there is to see!  I finally fulfilled that promise to myself and it was even more wonderful than I imagined it to be.  This time the weather was gorgeous and there was nothing to hinder our experience!

We started out Monday morning with the drive to Hilton Head Island.  The accommodations part of the trip was my Christmas gift from Ron and Lisa.  Lisa and I took the week and headed to the coast!  We stayed at a nice little resort in a good location.  We checked in and headed out for a late lunch and the chance to explore the island.

Our first stop was South Beach in the Sea Pines area.  It is a lovely spot on the water with lots of shops and places to eat.  We chose the Salty Dog Cafe for our late lunch.  We both started out with some Shrimp Gumbo that was out of this world and some amazing hush puppies.  Then, Lisa had a delicious looking salad and I had a basket of peel and eat shrimp.  My first goal was satisfied – to enjoy some fresh seafood as quickly and as often as possible.  Because, after all, when you go to a coastal island setting, you don’t eat spaghetti!!!  (Inside joke – Mom is reading this and laughing at me.)  We were so full that we didn’t even want to think about dinner!   We had a perfect table overlooking the water and we watched a Heron walking along the docks looking for food and watching some guys painting the pier railings.  I also saw what must have been a dolphin arch up out of the water for a split second and I saw it’s fin glide through the water for just a second before it went under water and disappeared.  It was gone before I could express my surprise and get Lisa to turn around to look!  After we ate, we wandered along the docks and checked out some of the gift shops.

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Then, we headed across the island to feed my love of lighthouses.  I knew there was one to be found in Harbour Town, so that is where we went next.  The lighthouse was pretty, but the rest of the area around it was the real treat.  It is a peaceful spot on the harbour with several areas with rows and rows of rocking chairs to sit and watch the yachts, read, or just enjoy the beautiful day.  I could have sat there for hours!!!  The shops were closed, but we sat for a little bit and just drank in the glorious weather and relaxing atmosphere.

That was the perfect end to a long day of driving and exploring.  We headed back to our room and settled in for the night.  Tomorrow would begin our adventure in Savannah and we wanted to get an early start.  So, a good night’s sleep was a necessary element to a successful day.

We got up early on Day 2 and stopped for breakfast at a really nice little diner — The Hilton Head Diner!  Breakfast was really good and the diner was a very pleasant place to have a relaxing meal.

We drove to Savannah with plans to put our name in at Paula Deen’s restaurant (Lady and Sons) and then just wander around and see what we could find.  It was a nice drive to Savannah with one exception!  Anyone who knows me very well knows that I do NOT like heights and it makes me extremely nervous to be in a situation where I’m at a high elevation and don’t feel in control.  This includes very tall bridges that I have not had a chance to get used to.  Well – there is an enormous bridge just as you cross over into GA at Savannah (I think it is highway 17).  We came up on it with no notice and no chance for me to pull over and prepare myself or switch to let Lisa drive.  It was just there and I was committed to cross it whether I was ready to or not!  The approach from SC to GA is pretty menacing looking, too – all twisty and scary.  Going back, it was just like being on any other road that happens to have a bridge on it.  But, headed toward Savannah – which was the first time I saw the bridge right smack dab in front of me – it is pretty darn intimidating!

This is the SC to GA approach to the Talmadge Memorial Bridge – I didn’t take this photo – I found it on the internet, but it shows how scary it looked to me as I came up on it!!!

This is me with the bridge in the background along the river front in Savannah.

Of course, I survived driving over the bridge, but the trip had me all broke out in a cold sweat and my heart pounding like a race horse!  After I got on ground level and caught my breath, we headed to Paula Deen’s.  Her restaurant is Lady and Sons and is located on the corner of Congress and Whitaker Streets.  It is in a rustic old building and includes her restaurant and a store to purchase her many products.  It is quite a place!  They don’t take reservations for less than 10 people, but they do have a hostess outside the restaurant starting at 9:00 am so people can put their names in for preferred seating.  During the height of the tourist seasons, it is the only way to get in!  We got there right at 9:00 and there was only one person ahead of us to sign in.  We chose a 1:00 lunch time.  When we returned at 12:45, we were seated immediately and browsed the menu.  We decided to eat from the buffet – a delicious assortment of fried chicken, baked chicken, baked spaghetti, Italian sausage, and several side dishes.  It also came with our choice of banana pudding, gooey butter cake, or peach cobbler – we both chose the peach cobbler.  I understand the buffet choices change daily.  It was all so good!!!  Just as you would expect!

This is me with the life-sized cutout of Paula Deen – looks so real, I could probably get away with saying it was really her!  Oh, um, strike that — This is me when I met the sweet lady herself, Paula Deen!

Before and after lunch at Paula Deen’s, we just walked around.  We went to the Visitor’s Center and gathered a bunch of brochures and just walked and walked.  We covered the entire lower portion of the historic district.  The entire historic district consists of a well laid out pattern of squares in four main sections – Along the Waterfront, The First Squares, Squares of Luxury, and The Booming Westside.  On day one, we covered Along the Waterfront and The Booming Westside.  We paid for a total of 5 hours of metered parking (3 hours parked near Paula Deen’s restaurant and 2 hours parked along the waterfront), so we were pretty much on our feet hoofing it around Savannah for much of 5 hours.  And it was very enjoyable!

Just to show you how much I actually learned while I was there…….Savannah was established in the mid 1700s with the intent to provide a buffer zone between the Spanish pushing northward from Florida and the English colony of South Carolina.  The original charter prohibited slavery, lawyers, Catholics, and hard liquor – all of which were eventually permitted in.  The squares were uniquely designed to give Savannah a strong military advantage and are now lovely parks and memorials to the rich history.  James Edward Oglethorpe started the colony with 4 squares and by 1851 it grew to 24 squares – 22 remain today.

Here are some of the sights we enjoyed on our walk through the lower half of Savannah on Tuesday:

The city is full of huge, gorgeous trees – I believe this is a Live Oak, which is the most common tree in Savannah.

 

City Market is a lovely courtyard area full of all kinds of shops and places to grab a bite to eat.

Horse and Carriage in City Market waiting to take some folks on a tour.

Me in City Market

One shop in City Market that I didn’t get a photo of was the candy store!  I was turned on to fresh, warm pralines the day I spent in Savannah several years ago and knew I had to turn Lisa on to them, too!  So, we went in to get a free sample.  As she put that warm nugget in her mouth and let it melt, I watched her face and knew that I succeeded in making her a believer!  We bought some to ship out to friends and family and a couple for ourselves.  I’ve always loved praline anything – ice cream, cake, crumbles, etc….but there is nothing like a warm, freshly made  one to send you straight to heaven!!!  OMG — YUMMO!!!!  I wish I took a photo of the huge taffy puller working away at making fresh salt water taffy, too!

Me sitting in Ellis Square, just down from Paula Deen’s restaurant.  We sat there for a little bit to rest and wait for our lunch reservation (we were just a little early).

Corleone’s Trattoria — The Godfather is alive and well in Savannah!!!  (See our reflections in the doorway as I took the picture?  LOL)

Savannah Bee Company — a shop full of wonderful specialty honey and soaps!  Smelled amazing in there!

The Cotton Exchange – a busy place back in the day!  In the late 1800s, Savannah and Liverpool, England were the only two places in the world where the price of cotton was quoted!

Factor’s Row – known as the Wall Street of Savannah at the height of the cotton exchange.

Aside from the fabulous mansions, my very favorite part of Savannah is the River Front area.  The wonderful old buildings with amazing architecture, River Road made entirely of cobblestone left by ships that used it to weigh down the cargo holds until they arrived to pick up loads of cotton or other exports, and the beautiful river.  Here are some shots of the River Front:

Of course, with any historical city, there are monuments and statues…..Savannah definitely has its fair share:

Lisa with Johnny Mercer, Savannah native and famed composer – some of the songs he wrote include:  “Moon River”, “You Must Have Been A Beautiful Baby”, “Jeepers Creepers”, and more.  He also had an affair with 19-year-old Judy Garland.

The Haitian Monument – honors a group of 700 men of color from the Island of Haiti who fought alongside American and French soldiers during the Seige of Savannah in 1779.

Washington’s Guns – (known as George and Martha) – were captured from the British at the Battle of Yorktown and presented to the Chatham Artillery by George Washington during his visit to Savannah

John Wesley – the founder of the Methodist religion.

The African-American Monument on the River Front – depicts an African-American family with broken shackles at their feet and has a beautiful inscription written by poet, Maya Angelou

Me with The Waving Girl — this statue honors Florence Martus who waved a handkerchief by day and a lantern by night at all ships entering and leaving the port of Savannah from the porch of her home on Elba Island.  It is said that she never missed waving at a single ship between 1887 and 1931.

A better shot of The Waving Girl with her dog, Wolf, a collie.

The Waving Girl waving at a tug boat passing by on the river.

The Gordon Monument in Wright Square – honoring William Washington Gordon, one of Savannah’s early mayors and founder of the Central Railroad and Banking Company of Georgia.

On Wednesday, we started out, again, with breakfast at the Hilton Head Diner (find a good breakfast place, stick with it).  Then, we went to Savannah and took an all day trolley tour.  We got an “on and off” pass so that we could hop off and see things of interest and then get back on another trolley to continue the tour.  We rode one trolley all the way around and planned out where we wanted to hop off.  When the second trolley was about to start off, we got a surprise visitor:

Forrest Gump ran up to the trolley and hopped on and introduced himself with “Hi, I’m Forrest, Forrest Gump”.  He was looking for where he was supposed to meet Lt. Dan.  He waved at all of us and told the driver that he was out of breath because he just ran in from Alabama and was supposed to meet Lt. Dan at the Visitor’s Center.  The driver told him he was at the Welcome Center, not the Visitor’s Center!

So, she showed him where he had to go.  He said goodbye and apologized for not having any chocolates to offer us, but he ate them all!!!  He then said he was late and Lt. Dan told him not to do anything stupid, so he had to hurry to meet him!  He ran off with his arms a flailing.  What a treat to get to meet Mr. Forrest Gump!

It was on the trolley tour that we saw all the wonderful mansions, beautiful homes, and quirky places that Savannah has to offer:

This is Mercer House — remember the statue of Johnny Mercer?  Well, this was built by his Great Grandfather, Confederate General Hugh Mercer during the Civil War.  The Mercers never actually occupied the house.  However, it later became famous after Jim Williams, a Savannah preservationist, bought and restored it and allegedly murdered Danny Hansford in the study after a Christmas party.  His story was the focus of the book and movie “Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil”.  Mercer House sits on an entire city block.

Owens-Thomas House – built in 1819 for a wealthy cotton broker, who lost it due to financial problems only 3 years after it was completed.  George Owens purchased the home in 1830 and it remained in his family until his granddaughter willed it to the Telfair Museum of Art in 1951.  The Marquis de Lafayette stayed at the Owens home during his visit during the Revolutionary War

 

Owens-Thomas House – south balcony facing President Street — location of a famous address by The Marquis de Lafayette where he spoke for 2 hours.  America was a young, poor country at the time and Lafayette predicted in his speech that one day America would be a great nation and save the world!  When American soldiers arrived in France during WWI and WWII, they honored that prediction by shouting “Lafayette, we are here!”

In the movie, Something To Talk About, Julia Roberts’ character goes out looking for her husband, played by Dennis Quaid, and finds him with another woman in this restaurant — they have a very robust argument in the street in front of the restaurant.

Hamilton-Turner House – This was the first home in Savannah to have electric lights.  The tour guide told us that people from all over Savannah would gather in Lafayette Square across from the house just to watch the lights come on at dusk!  It is now an inn and there are claims that the original owner, Mr. Hamilton, and his children still make frequent visits.

Kehoe House – built in 1892 for William Kehoe, a poor Irish immigrant who went from an iron foundry apprentice to one of Savannah’s most successful businessmen.  Mr. and Mrs. Kehoe lived here with their 10 children and it remained in their family until 1930.  It has since been a boarding house and a funeral parlor and is now an inn.  Rumors say the inn is haunted by two Kehoe twins who died while playing in one of the chimneys.

One of many row houses along a tree-lined street

The story here, per our tour guide, is that a man had two daughters who fought over everything and were completely jealous of whatever the other had.  So, he built them identical side-by-side houses so the wouldn’t have anything to fight about.  But, rumor has it that they stood out on the front steps arguing about who would have which side of the house!!!

The Pirate’s House – originally a tavern frequented by pirates and sailors, now a restaurant – we ate a very nice lunch there!  Supposedly, the book Treasure Island was inspired by events that happened at the Pirate’s House.

The Herb House – located right next door to the Pirate’s House – is said to be the oldest surviving home in all of Georgia.  It originally served as the Trustee’s Garden’s gardener’s house.

A haunted drug store on the most haunted street in Savannah

One of many brick streets

A Sears and Roebuck house — for about $2000, this and similar houses could be purchased through the mail order catalog.  The “kit” would arrive and the new owners would assemble the house per the instructions.  The gentleman who purchased this home must not have done a good job of reading the instructions — the windows are all put in upside down (the straight sills are on top and the scalloped toppers are on the bottom)!!!

On one of our hop offs, we visited Colonial Park Cemetery.  I was disappointed that the engraving on the stones was badly worn and most are no longer readable.  There are only about 600 burial markers, but it is estimated that there are approximately 9000 people buried there – the graves even extend out into what is now the paved street.  During the Union occupation during the Civil War, Union troops desecrated many of the graves, looting them and removing bodies to use the graves for their own soldiers.  They even changed the dates on some of the stones in an attempt to be funny — some state that they actually died before they were born!!!  There is a duelist grave site where many who died in duels are buried and a section where hundreds of victims of the Yellow Fever outbreak are buried.

Lisa at the entrance of the cemetery

Duelist Grave

An eerie shot, sure to give you the shivers!!!

Many of the damaged head stones have been cemented along the wall at the end of the cemetery

Another site on this same hop-off was The Cathedral of St. John the Baptist.  We wanted to go inside, but there were worship services going on, so it was closed to tourists.  So, we just admired it from the outside.  The colonial charter for Savannah prohibited Catholics from settling in Savannah because the English feared Catholics would be more loyal to the Spanish in Florida than the English.  Once the prohibition faded after the Revolutionary War, this Catholic Cathedral was constructed.  It is a massive and ornate building with two tall spires extending into the sky.

The spires seen from the Colonial Park Cemetery

At the end of our day tour, we returned to Hilton Head and had dinner at Marley’s Island Grill – a great Caribbean grill restaurant!  Lisa had a HUGE salad with grilled tuna and tons of veggies!  I had Sugar Cane Scallops — big sea scallops fire grilled on skewers and drizzled with pina colada and kahlua sauce with a delicious veggie medley!  YUM!!!  Then, we went back to the room and packed up to leave the next morning.  We headed out about 8:00 or so and drove most of the way home with the top down on the pony!  It was a very pleasant drive home!

What a wonderful trip!!!!  One we’re sure to remember for years to come!  This all is actually just a teaser taste — we saw and did so much more — but, if I told it all here, what would there be left for you all to go see for yourselves????

Movie Review – Secretariat

I just saw Secretariat today via Netflix.  I didn’t see it while it was in the theaters – not sure why – just didn’t.  After seeing it on my TV, though, I really wish I had seen it on the big screen first.  What a thrill it would have been to see that beautiful, powerful animal bigger than life on a wall-sized screen.

I knew I wanted to see this movie, at some point.  I knew it would be a good story with interesting characters and a strong cast.  I knew it would be emotionally charged.  But, I what I didn’t realize was just how much I would love it!  It was an incredible movie — beautifully told, exceptionally put together, and perfectly acted.  I am very disappointed that it didn’t receive any Academy Award nominations — definitely a slight that should not have happened.

Of course, I knew how the movie would end.  The history of this story is well documented.  Plus, it occurred at the end of my junior year in high school, so I was well aware of the events through the news of the time.  So, there were no real surprises.  But, it still captivated me and kept me on the edge of my seat!  My heart pounded as I watched each race in totally intense anticipation of the outcome, forgetting that the horse had the win “in the bag”.   I sobbed through many of the scenes – the heart wrenching family related events, as well as the triumphs each race brought.  But the true beauty of this movie was that it focused on family, legacy, tradition, and love.  Yes, the main focus was the greatest racehorse that ever lived – Secretariat, but it also dug deep into what made Penny Chenery Tweedy so determined and driven to not give up even with the possibility of losing everything she held dear.  Her love of the horses, her parent’s legacy, her dedication to family and tradition – all these things were portrayed impeccably and shined through to tell the entire story and pull it all together. 

The casting was pure genius.  Diane Lane was the perfect Penny Chenery Tweedy – strong and forceful, yet cultured and demure all in the same woman.  John Malkovich was very entertaining as horse trainer, Lucien Lauren.  Scott Glenn had a very small part as Penny’s father, Chris Chenery, who was weakened by dementia, but the influential man still shown through.  Margo Martindale portrayed Miss Hamm, long time secretary and friend of the Chenery family.  She was a real hoot at times, but also helped Penny identify her inner strength to know what the right thing to do was.

I really loved this movie.  Again, I wish I had seen it on the big screen and perhaps I will someday.  But, for now, I am just so very happy I didn’t pass it up altogether.  I rate this one a huge A+++ and wish there was a higher rating to give it!  Be sure to see it for the history, for the entertainment value, or just cause you love animal movies — whatever your reason for thinking you’ll enjoy it — you’ll be glad you did and probably find that you love it for several totally different reasons than the one that got you to choose it in the first place.

Movie Review – The King’s Speech

I haven’t been to the theater to see a movie in quite a while — since before the holidays, I believe!!! No particular reason. It isn’t because of lack of interest – quite to the contrary, I am still in love with movies. It isn’t because of lack of time – I’ve had several weekends where I had opportunity. It isn’t because the current movies don’t interest me – there are several that look like I would enjoy them. No excuse – I just haven’t made the effort to go.

But, I can say that most of the ones out now that I think I would enjoy are all ones that I think I could easily wait and see on NetFlix. And, while I still love the feeling I get from sitting in a dark theater watching a movie on that giant screen, I also find that some of the other experiences associated with going to the movies aren’t as appealing as they used to be. For instance – I used to LOVE movie theater popcorn! I believed it to be against some moral code or law to go to a movie and not have a bag of popcorn! Lately, the popcorn in movie theaters is less than desirable with a large portion (I’d go so far as to estimate 50% or so of the bag) made up of crumbs scrapped from the bottom of the bin, stale taste, and that oil they mistakenly call butter. I also find myself considering the cost more than I used to. Even with my practice of going to matinees and avoiding paying full price, it costs $7.00 to see a movie!!! And it costs more for the snacks than it does to see the movie! Case in point – yesterday, I went to Spring Lane Cinemas in Sanford to see the 4:35 showing of The King’s Speech. It cost me $7.00 to get in and $8.75 for a small popcorn (that was mostly crumbs) and a bottle of Dasani water! So — the two-hour excursion cost me $15.75!!! Outrageous!!! Luckily, the movie was worth it…..but often, I find it really wasn’t. Hence my feeling lately that I could just wait for NetFlix.

So, enough about how the experience of going to the movies is diminishing and on with the movie review:

The King’s Speech is up for, like, a gazillion Academy Awards. The previews looked good, it is based on a true story with historical interest, and has a prominent cast. So, of course, I was interested in seeing it. The critics AND Yahoo Users all rated it an A, which rarely happens — either the critics love it and most real people don’t or the critics hate it and most real people find it enjoyable. So, I decided to pay the $15.75 to spend two hours checking it out for myself.

What I got for my $15.75 was a totally enjoyable time. There are three Oscar worthy performances – Colin Firth as King George VI (nominated for Best Actor), Geoffrey Rush as Lionel Logue (nominated for Best Supporting Actor), and Helena Bonham Carter as Queen Elizabeth (nominated for Best Supporting Actress) – and an absolute top contender for the Best Picture Oscar. I haven’t seen many of the other nominated films and performances, but I think it will be an injustice for some or all of these nominations to not be the ones to bring home the statue.

The story, if you aren’t already familiar, is of King George VI, the current Queen Elizabeth’s father, who had a life long struggle with a speech impediment – he stuttered. This was viewed as a weakness and defect that was not something a King should suffer from. Obviously, this was a huge problem when he was required to speak publicly and provide comfort and strength to his people. The movie starts before he becomes King – his father is still the reigning Monarch and upon his death, George’s brother, Edward, becomes the King of England. However, Edward is in love with an American divorcee currently in the process of her second divorce, which is strongly frowned upon by the Church and English Government. So, Edward abdicates the throne, leaving the role to a reluctant George. George’s devoted wife, Elizabeth, finds an unconventional speech therapist to work with George – Lionel Logue. The two work together so George can overcome his stuttering and become close friends.

It is a touching story and, even without the historical interest, conveys an important message. I found it to be a powerful movie with strong performances portraying endearing relationships – George and Elizabeth, George and Lionel, and George and his daughters, Princess Elizabeth and Princess Margaret. I highly recommend this movie and rate it a solid A+!

On another note – after the movie, I went to Cafe 121 for dinner and had Chef Hamm’s special for the evening – Shrimp and Scallop Scampi!!! YUM!!! The only thing that would have made it better would be to toss in some angel hair pasta….then it would have been beyond perfect! I took home a hot Caramel Apple Cider to sip through the rest of the evening. A perfect end to a very nice outing.