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Arizona Vacation
What do you do when you have friends who live in a state that has a lot of neat things to see and do? Well, I don’t know about you, but I plan a vacation to go visit them! And that’s just what I did March 4th – 11th – I went to Arizona and had an amazing time!!! I do believe I saw more of the state of Arizona in one week than most people see in a lifetime – and there are still a whole bunch of things I didn’t get to see and we put on the list for my next visit!
DAY 1 – March 4th
Not much to say about day 1 – I had an early morning dentist appointment, I dropped the girls off at the boarding place, and I flew non-stop from Buffalo to Phoenix! The flight was long, but uneventful. I stayed with Ron and Lisa in Apache Junction in the Phoenix/Mesa area – they have a beautiful home at the foot of the Superstition Mountain with gorgeous views from every angle!
My morning view outside the glass sliding doors of my bedroom – I could get used to this!
And I didn’t even have to go outside to enjoy the views!
This is the view from sitting on the couch in the living room, looking out onto the pool area – with the Superstition Mountain in the background!
One of Ron and Lisa’s babies – Chico (AKA, PeePee) – checking out the brochures and suggesting things for us to do!
Me – soaking up some sun by the pool – fitting right in with my cowgirl hat and shades!
This amazed me — I brought this photo home and showed it to my girls and told them that this cabana is how their spoiled AZ cousins shade themselves on the patio! They are so jealous!
DAY 2 – March 5th
This was my “Bonnie” day. A dear old friend that I’ve known from kindergarten also lives right there in Mesa, so we planned to spend a whole day together – just the two of us! What a treat! On the long drive to Tucson, we talked and talked and laughed and laughed – we caught up on everything and everyone! Then, we spend a few hours at Old Tucson – a theme park with old movie and TV sets and memorabilia. We had such a good time! Then, when we got back at the end of the day, we went to Toby Keith’s I Love This Bar and Grill for dinner and had a delicious steak! Here are some photos from our fabulous day together:
We had to start the day with a photo — this is me and Bonnie on the patio at Ron and Lisa’s with the Superstition Mountain in the background.
As with most theme parks, they had a photo shop where you put on period clothing and take a fun commemorative photo! We couldn’t resist! Here we are ready to take on any cowboy that comes along! The girl taking the photo asked if we wanted a gun or other props she had to offer – Bonnie took a rifle, but I said, “nope, I’ll just take this bottle of Jack Daniels!”! She still gave me a pistol to hold, but I was happy with the bottle of Jack! hehehe
We posted the WANTED poster on Facebook and asked friends to send bail money………no one did!!!!
I love this picture of Bonnie – she is in a chapel looking out at the dessert and mountains – it came out dark, but that is just as it should be……..
All of Old Tucson looks like you just walked onto the set of an old Western movie – cause, you DID!
We saw a gun fight, cowboys, a sheriff, and saloon girls – we even sat in on a Saloon show, complete with a can-can dance:
DAY 3 – March 6
On Wednesday, we made the rounds of some local attractions right in and near Apache Junction. We went to the Superstition Mountain Museum – I had to go there because the web site said they had an Elvis Chapel – the chapel used in the filming of Elvis’ western movie, Charro! What self-respecting Elvis Presley fan wouldn’t take advantage of that? We also went to Saguaro Lake – so beautiful – the water was like the bluest glass I’ve ever seen! Then, we went to Fountain Hills – a town with a gorgeous lake and a huge fountain.
Here are a sampling of photos from Day 3:
First up are pics from the Superstition Mountain Museum – again, there are actual movie and TV sets on display. It is the home of Apache Land Studios and a lot of big stars shot scenes right there where we were!
This is Ron and Lisa looking at a small section of a wall of portraits of all the stars who were there at one time or another – lots of famous faces.
Hard to see him, but this is Ron in the stage-coach.
And, THIS, is the Elvis Chapel! What a thrill to step foot into a building where Elvis actually walked!
I half expected to see this walk through the door or be sitting in a pew, just waiting for me to arrive! (be still my heart!)
Instead, this was the display I found inside the chapel……….
……….a cheesy metal stand-up that was a badly painted rendition of “Las Vegas Elvis”!
What a disappointment! But, heck, it was still Elvis, so I had my picture taken beside it! HA!
Next, we went to Saguaro Lake – the first picture is me and Lisa and the second is of Ron and Lisa:
After Saguaro Lake, we went to Fountain Hills – very pretty and peaceful place! We had fantastic dinner at a place there called “The Saddle Bronc Grill” – very nice place!
Ron and Lisa at the fountain.
There were many, many ducks all around the lake – this couple had a bag of bread and were feeding them! They started to leave and a whole line of ducks followed them all the way around the edge of the lake, across the yard, and on until they were out of sight! It was so funny!!!
This is the Saddle Bronc Grill – cool looking outside and very nicely decorated inside, including (as you can see in the next two photos) the lady’s room…..
……it wasn’t just the food that was YUMMY!
DAY 4 – March 7
On Thursday, Lisa and I went shopping during the day. We also stopped in at the Chamber of Commerce and picked up some brochures and information for the rest of the trip. The Chamber building was a great representation of the area – a real eye catcher and typical southwestern design.
Then Ron joined us later in the day to go to Tortilla Flat and take a cruise on the Dolly Steamboat on Canyon Lake — what a fabulous choice! First stop was Tortilla Flat, which is a very small (population: 6) town – actually, just a strip of buildings at the end of a very long, winding, scary road up the mountain. Now, I need to mention here that I’m not a fan of heights and panic a little (OK, a lot) when I don’t feel safe from falling! There were parts of this road where I had to just close my eyes and hold my breath to keep from losing it – like, you know those mountain roads that are so close to the edge of the mountain that you really think if you sneeze, you’ll slide off the face of the earth!!!??? That’s this road! But, when we got there, it was all worth it…….there was a mercantile, a restaurant, a gift shop, and a post office – that’s it, well, and a live band playing some awesome music! It was so cool and was jammed with people – THE place to be! The intent was to have our dinner there, but we ended up not having enough time to eat and get to the cruise on time, so we just shopped and snapped some photos.
The left side of the road at Tortilla Flat – across the street was were all the action was!
What fun – lots of people hanging out and enjoying life!
The band was really awesome!
Wish I knew what this guy’s story is!!!
Then, the ultimate adventure happened — the Dolly Steamboat Cruise on Canyon Lake! If you are ever in this area of Arizona, I highly recommend this cruise – words can not describe how amazing it was! And emotional…….I was in tears and had to remind myself to breathe at several points along the hour and a half cruise! Canyon Lake snakes through the canyon and the steamboat takes you through the most gorgeous views and experience. The water was so blue and crystal clear – like a mirror reflecting the rocky ledges along the way. Amidst all that beauty, we also saw big horn sheep, bald eagles, a bald eagle nest, and other wildlife native to the canyon. Photos can not come close to portraying the majestic beauty we witnessed, but these examples do a good job of trying:
I chose to include this photo to show the incredible massiveness of the canyon – that little boat looks like a toy in the water!
There were points in the cruise where the boat sailed so close to the wall of the canyon that you could reach out and touch it!
This is a shot of Ron (the one with the cowboy hat) taking a close up photo of some petrified logs embedded in the rock!
The two narrow stacks of rock are called the “guardians of the canyon” – on top of the tallest of the two is a bald eagle nest!
And now……some shots of God’s gift of beauty:
DAY 5 – March 8
Friday was our “take a breath” day! We needed to chill a little and rest up for the weekend trip to the Grand Canyon. So, we went to see a movie in the afternoon – Oz, The Great and Powerful at the IMAX theater – awesome movie! (When you get done reading this post, scroll to the next one down and read my review of the movie!) Then, in the evening, I went to watch Ron bowl with his team – some other friends that I haven’t seen in a long time that now live in AZ, too!
DAY 6 – March 9
We got up early Saturday morning to make the three and a half hour drive to Williams, AZ to catch the two-hour train ride to the southern rim of the Grand Canyon. About the time we were near Flagstaff, it started to snow and it was pretty messy when we made it to Williams. We had breakfast in Williams and then got on the train, which was a really cool experience! There was incredible scenery all the way, musicians singing for us, and lots of wild life to see – including, herds of mule deer, elk, antelope, coyote, and lots and lots of cattle! And, on the way back, we even got stopped by some train robbers, who boarded the train with scarfs over their faces and guns to rob us – boy, the ladies were screaming and everyone was shaking in our boots!!!
Arriving in Williams, AZ – Gateway to the Grand Canyon!
THE TRAIN RIDE:
There was a photographer onboard who took souvenir photos – our’s came out so good! LOVE IT!!!
And, the package included this photo of the train robbers on their horses, too – we absolutely had to buy the package:
THE GRAND CANYON:
Whatever you’ve heard about the beauty of the Grand Canyon, multiply it by 1000……you still won’t come close!!! It was so cold and snowing while we were there – I wish the weather was better so we could have spent more time just sitting there staring at it in total awe! It was hazy with fog and snow, so we couldn’t see across the canyon as well as they say you usually can, but what we did see was so awe-inspiring – just breathtaking! Again, the photos can never capture the majesty that we experienced in person, but here are some examples that give you a little bit of an idea:
Dang – this would have been a great picture, if the wind and snow wasn’t blowing so hard in my face!!!
Hopi House
Me shopping inside the Hopi House
Some cool things about our day at the Grand Canyon – besides just the obvious cool thing – getting to see the Grand Canyon: The guides on the train told us to drink lots of water because of the high altitude we were at (over 7000 feet elevation) and the fact that the snow there is a “dry” snow! I snickered when I heard that – you know, they are always saying it doesn’t feel as hot out there cause it is a “dry heat”, but if it is 120 degrees, that is still HOT, regardless of whether or not there is humidity factored in! Well, I thought it was odd that they were saying the snow was actually dryer than what we’re used to in the eastern states. So, when I got there, I had to touch the snow to see if it was really dryer! And, I think it actually was! It felt “odd” – it packed really tight, like a good wet snow, but it also felt powdery, like the fluffier kind that doesn’t pack as well and it took quite a bit to make it melt in my hand and when it did, it wasn’t as watery! Really strange feeling snow! HAHA! Also, they sold recyclable water bottles that we filled at stations around the area – super icy cold water that was filtered straight from the mountain springs — the best water I think I’ve ever tasted!!!
We spent the night at the Grand Canyon Inn that was out in the middle of nowhere about 1/2 way between Williams and the Grand Canyon – really nice place and fantastic food in their restaurant! But, it was so funny – we were driving along for quite a way with nothing but ranch land on either side and then, all of a sudden, there was this little inn, a gas station, a small airport with a museum, and right across the street from the inn was “Bedrock City” – a theme park devoted to the Flintstones!!! And, then, it looked like miles of more “nothing” beyond that!
We got up the next morning and went back to Williams for breakfast at the same place we ate the morning before and to explore a little.
DAY 7 – March 10
Sunday was the return drive back to Apache Junction. We spent some time in Williams and then took the long way home and went through Jerome and Sedona!
Williams, AZ is a small historic town established in 1881, but it really looked more like it was stuck in the 50s! Historic Route 66 goes right through the middle of Williams and they really capitalize on that history and the popularity of it during the 40s, 50s, and 60s.
This is a really cool cafe in Williams – we didn’t eat there, but couldn’t resist the photo-op!
Here is Ron in front of a 50s style gas station
A corner shot in Williams
I thought taking my pic with this dude would be cool, but what made me like it even more is that you can see Ron’s reflection in the window as he is taking the photo! 🙂
Of course, we had to get our picture by one of the US 66 route signs!
Lisa and I really did “get our kicks on Route 66” – in the form of shopping – see all the bags full of goodies in our hands??? 🙂
After we left Williams, we headed toward Sedona to see the beautiful red rock that the town is famous for. On the way, we drove through Jerome, which is a very small historic town built right on the side of a mountain at over 5000 foot elevation – it literally looks like there is little keeping it from falling off the edge! Located on Cleopatra Hill in the Black Hills, Jerome used to be a booming mining town in its heyday! Now, the population is barely over 400 people.
The road to Jerome — just beyond the guard rail (that is inches from the edge of the road – another route where I needed to close my eyes and remind myself to breathe a lot), you can see the part of the road that we just came from – so twisty, turny and constantly getting higher and higher!
Fabulous scenery on this road, but a little too close to the edge of the earth for my taste!
Jerome…….we didn’t stop – just drove through it!
Coming up on Sedona – see the red rock hills?
Downtown Sedona — beautiful — different from any other mountains/hills that I saw anywhere else we went!
This mountain really fascinated me!!! Hard to see the detail in this photo, but it looks just like someone carved a statue of an elephant lying down on the top of it!
In person, you can clearly see the body, floppy ears, head, and that big ole trunk curled up out front of it!
Gorgeous mountain rock and buttes! The red color is striking!!!
We stopped for lunch in Sedona and on the way out of town, Ronald and I played tag with the camera to get lots of shots of the beautiful red rock – that was fun – I’d have the camera taking a photo out the front window and he’d rush me to give it to him to get a shot he didn’t want to miss out the side window and I’d say “hurry, hurry, I got a great shot ahead!” and back and forth we went with it! Afterwards, I realized I had my other camera right in my purse and we could have BOTH had a camera to get shots…….but, that wouldn’t have been as much fun! 🙂
When we got back to Apache Junction, we were so exhausted from the exciting weekend, that we all crashed with a nap!
DAY 8 – March 11
Last day of the trip….but, we had one more thing to squeeze in before I left! We went to the Queen Creek Olive Mill – a family owned olive orchard and olive oil mill! We had lunch at their cafe and looked around the store/gift shop. Then, we went on the tour and I learned so much about olive oil and how it is made! I won’t go into it here cause I’d like to devote a whole post on what I learned — watch for a post on “Everything you ever wanted to know about olive oil, but were afraid to ask!” – coming soon! After the tour, we shopped and I had a bunch of stuff shipped to me so that I wouldn’t have to take it on the plane — flavored extra virgin olive oils made fresh right there, flavored vinegars, a cook book of owner’s family recipes, a jar of a delicious tapenade that was on the sandwich I had for lunch (caramelized red onion and fig tapenade – YUMMO – so sweet and rich in flavor), and some body butter made with olive oil, shea butter, and lavender essential oils that they make right there, as well. The box came last week and I’ve already had a couple of big salads made with the roasted garlic flavored olive oil and aged balsamic and fig flavored vinegar and relaxed with the lavender-scented body butter – nice to rub on my arms at bed time to soften my skin and give me that wonderful aroma to fall asleep with!!!!
Ron and me in the courtyard outside the cafe at the Queen Creek Olive Mill
And, Ron and Lisa in the courtyard with some olive oil they purchased!
And, this is the press they use to manually cold press the olive oil – fascinating!
And that, my friends, is my trip to Arizona! The week went by so fast, but we crammed a LOT into it! And then, I was on a plane headed home…..leaving the beautiful views and warm, sunny weather (except for the days we were in Williams and the Grand Canyon – it was actually colder there than back home)……….leaving my dear friends………..and returning to the real world!!! It was amazing — so wonderful to spend time with Ron and Lisa and Bonnie! And the sight-seeing was icing on the cake! It was a vacation I’ll never forget and we’re already making a list of things to see next time I can make the trip out there!
Movie Review – Oz, The Great and Powerful
It has been a while since I’ve been to the movies. It isn’t as convenient, here, to pop in and see a movie whenever I want to. Unlike Sanford, Albion doesn’t have a movie theater and neither does Medina. There are theaters in Brockport, Batavia, Greece, and a few other places that are about as far to drive as it was to go to Southern Pines or Cary, but just not as convenient as having one just up the street from my house! In fact, since I moved here in Nov, 2011, I have only been to see one movie – definitely not like me! I went to see Lincoln about Christmas time (sorry, I completely forgot to do a review for it – suffice it to say that I LOVED it and would highly recommend it). And, now, I’ve been to my second movie in almost a year and a half…….but, I had to go to Arizona to see it! HA!!! Actually, I was on vacation in Arizona last week and went to see Oz, The Great and Powerful with some friends while I was there.
I’m going to categorize going to this movie as an “adventure”! We saw it at an IMAX theater in 3D at a matinée showing on the day it was released to open, so I think it is appropriate to call it an adventure. If you are planning to go see this movie and you have an IMAX theater near you, I really do recommend you see it there and in 3D – I imagine it would be just as good on any big screen, but seeing it “bigger than life” and “in your face” absolutely enhances the experience – this is one of those movies that just screams to be seen that way!
The story focuses on the Wizard of Oz character, who is actually Oscar Diggs, a small-time circus magician with rather shady ethics when it comes to women. The story explores how he got to the Land of Oz and reluctantly evolved into the great and powerful wizard that the people of Oz had been waiting for. It is NOT a remake of the original movie, The Wizard of Oz, so don’t go expecting to see Dorothy and Toto and the Tin Man and the Scarecrow and the Cowardly Lion – that version was only one of many stories associated with Oz written by L. Frank Baum. What you will find, however, is another adaptation taken from Baum’s novel, along with some other really cool and memorable characters that help and hinder Oscar along his journey through Oz – including three beautiful witches, a sassy china girl, and a likeable flying monkey in a bell hop uniform named Finley.
James Franco is perfectly cast as Oscar Diggs/Oz with his dashing good looks, flirty expressions, and devilish grin. He starts out as a small-time circus act doing magic tricks and conning people out of their money……and women out of their hearts! He finds himself having to flee the Kansas circus he was working to get away from the jealous husband of a woman he was toying with. The hot air balloon he uses for his escape gets caught up in a tornado and he lands in the very strange and mystical Land of Oz.
Mila Kunis is the beautiful witch, Theodora, who falls in love with Oscar and takes him to the Emerald City. I won’t give away too much for those of you who have not seen the movie, yet, but I will say that the character of Theodora is absolutely the inspiration for the old saying “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”! Watch out for her rath when her heart is broken by the fickle Oscar!
Theodora’s sister, Evanora, is an evil witch played by Rachel Weisz. She has everyone convinced that Glinda, played by the lovely Michelle Williams, is the evil one and sets Oscar out on a mission to destroy the evil witch and free the people of Oz, which she tells him will prove he is the true Wizard of Oz and earn him a room full of gold.
The other characters that make the story line so memorable are the China Girl – voiced by Joey King – and Finley – voiced by Zach Braff (of Scrubs fame). The China Girl is sassy and fun – she’ll tug at your heart-strings and you’ll instantly fall in love with her! Finley is the flying monkey in a bell hop uniform I mentioned earlier – Oscar saves Finley’s life, so he becomes his loyal servant to repay the debt. Finley is funny and ever so likeable. And, there are munchkins and tinkers and others who play a big role in Oscar’s adventures and successful mission. The Land of Oz and the Emerald City are just as spectacular as they were in the other Oz stories, with the magnificent castle and poppy fields and yellow brick road and brilliant colors and flowers and on and on and on!
Oh — and for those of you adults who admit that the flying monkeys in the original Wizard of Oz film scared the crap out of you……..well, let’s just say, you’re not going to be happy with the flying baboons in this film!!!!!
Oz, The Great and Powerful is an incredible Disney film – full of action, adventure, wonderful special effects, and endearing characters. I really did enjoy it a lot and highly recommend it – and, again, if you can see it at an IMAX theater in 3D, you’ll find it even more awesome!!! I give this one TWO HUGE thumbs up and rate it a solid A+!!!
Yes, I’m Positive…
I try to keep a positive perspective in my life……yeah, I’m not always successful. It isn’t easy. It is hard. With all the bad news on TV, family and friends who are going through rough times, the economy, and on and on, sometimes you really have to consciously work at finding the good side of situations…..the light, rather than the dark…….the sun peeking through the clouds…….the pretty amidst the ugly…….the “yes we can” in the sea of “no we can’t” attitudes. Negativity is contagious and it is everywhere! I used to think positivity was contagious, too, but I’m not so sure anymore. Sure, that sounds pretty negative coming from a person who started this writing with the statement “I try to keep a positive perspective in my life”. but I can’t help it sometimes – I find myself falling off the “happiness” wagon and bruising my butt on the hard surface of negativity. It seems like the negative thinking in the world is taking over and consuming all the positive thinking. I think it is sometimes easier to convince a positive person to see the negative side than to convince a negative person to see the positive side. It is sad!
But, aside from the occasional back slide, I will not be defeated. I will remain a generally happy person. I will continue to be a warrior for the positive. I won’t default to the negative and you can’t make me! 🙂
OK…..this post just isn’t working for me! I started it early in the week and keep going back to it to try to get my point across, but I’m just not feeling it. It has been in draft for about 5 days, now and I’ve only written two paragraphs. I opened it up again this morning and thought about just deleting it and finding something easier to write about. What started out to be a testament to the benefits of being positive has succeeded in forcing me to focus on the negative – how does that happen???!!! But, I have decided to just finish it and post it! So, I’m going to do just that – because the first two paragraphs make a very bold statement: if you don’t seek out the positive, the negative will seek out you!
Despite what I’ve written, so far, in this post, being happy, finding something to smile about, and staying positive really does come easy for me MOST of the time! When it becomes a challenge, I work to get past it and not let it get me down. Of course, there are personal tragedies in life when you have to allow yourself to grieve, which includes periods of depression – you need to recognize those times and not force happiness on them, causing them to fester. But, aside from those types of situations, it really is a lot more healthy to look for ways to deal with just about every situation more positively rather than focusing on the negative.
So, yes — after thinking about this post for days, now, I can honestly say I am positive! Of course, I’ve always known that. I wake up to three dogs so excited to see me open my eyes every morning that they about smother me with kisses and rolling all over me and fighting over who gets to say good morning first – how can any day start out bad with all that going on? I dance around the house with the dogs singing Broadway show tunes and change the words to the tunes to suit the activity or to get the girls more excited. It doesn’t take much to make me smile or laugh – you can put me in a “OMG, I’m gonna pee my pants” laughing jag with little or no effort at all. I end each day thinking about all the things that made me smile – yes, some nights the list is long, some nights it is short, and some nights I really have to think to find something, but I always do find something – no matter how big or small – that made me smile and feel happy. I’m a big fan of pros and cons lists – if the cons outnumber the pros, I don’t go down that path, unless at least one pro is so big it carries more weight than the long list of cons. If I’m in a situation that is bringing me down, I find a way to change it and make it better – I don’t just accept it and allow it to overwhelm me. Again, not always easy — and sometimes you have to accept it to get past it and hope that something good comes of it……and it usually does, eventually! I rarely regret anything I do or decisions I make – right, wrong, or indifferent, they got me to where I am and I learned from them in one way or another.
Some of my favorite quotes on this subject are:
“Dream as if you’ll live forever. Live as if you’ll die today.” ~ James Dean
“Choose your attitude.” ~ Fish Philosophy
“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ~ Maya Angelou
“This very moment is a seed from which the flowers of tomorrow’s happiness grow.” ~ Margaret Lindsay
“Happiness is in the heart, not in the situation.” ~ Unknown
And now, I’ll leave you with these humorous looks at finding a way to smile and be positive about almost any situation:
Thoughts on Winter
Over the Christmas week and again this current week, I find myself thinking about a popular joke that has made its way around the internet via emails, Facebook, etc. for many years. You know the one. It is written in diary format by a guy/girl who moves to {insert city known for having very snowy winters} and starts out all excited about the snow, progressively loses that enthusiasm more and more each day, and finally ends up cursing the snow and the plow driver who inevitably comes along and buries the end of the driveway within minutes of them shoveling it out……yet, again! I started seeing that joke floating around when I lived in NC. I’d read it through, nod my head, laugh, and think “been there, done that, bought the t-shirt – glad I’m not there anymore!” And then, despite years of insisting I would never live where I had to deal with months of snow, I decided to move back home – to western NY – right smack dab in the Buffalo snow belt!
I was never a fan of winter. Didn’t care much for winter sports or being outside in the cold and snow. Yes, I occasionally enjoyed ice skating at Bullard Park – night skating was the most fun and the building where they had a heater and served hot chocolate made it easy to spend a few hours skating and hanging out with friends. I’ve also been known to bundle up and go sledding, make a few snow angels, and have a few snowball fights in my day. But, for the most part, I much preferred to stay inside in the winter. My brother, on the other hand, loved the snow and being out in it. I always did think he was a little whacky, but, to each his own, as they say. So, the winters in NC were my cup of tea! Just enough snow to remind me that it was pretty and go away before it got irritating. 🙂 We usually had a few days of snow each winter, but it would go away once the sun came out. There were a couple of winters (out of the 26 years I lived there) that brought some significant accumulation that lasted several days. I remember the first year we got buried with a huge snow fall. I didn’t have boots, gloves, or a really warm winter coat. I also didn’t have a snow shovel or other appropriate winter time tools. I had to shovel my deck, steps, and a path to the car. So, I got the dirt shovel out of the shed – learned quick that dirt shovels don’t work in snow – it just sticks to them! But, I am a creative sort……I duct taped a dust pan to the handle of a broom and went out with my shoes, bare hands, and a lightweight jacket and roughly – very roughly – cleared a path in the snow. After that, I bought a snow shovel that never got used. Luckily, if there was any hint of a snow flake in the forecast, the whole state shut down and I didn’t have to deal with it!
So, obviously, one of the things I gave a lot of thought and consideration to when deciding whether or not to move back home was having to deal with the winter months. I admit I was worried about it. I made sure the house I bought had an attached garage – I was determined to never have to clean off a car and carry groceries through the snow – that was the one main must have when it came to a house!!! But, that wasn’t all I worried about. I hadn’t driven in significant snow or ice in a lot of years! And I wasn’t sure how my Mustang would handle in the snow. I decided the benefits of moving far outweighed the concerns I had about the winters. So, here I am.
My first winter here was mild – we only had a couple good snow storms and they didn’t last long. For the most part, it was almost exactly like winters in NC, except it was colder…..and those couple of snow storms were more than I would have had to deal with in NC. I was pleasantly surprised and thought of it as a gift to help me ease into it. I bought a snow shovel called a “snow pusher” that made clearing my driveway and patio easy – I’d just walk behind it pushing the snow out of the way – no need to lift and throw the snow, like normal shovels. I got excited when it did snow and enjoyed watching the girls play and experience deep snow for the first time in their lives. I got right out there with them and played snowball catch and chased them around the yard. Since I didn’t work and there weren’t many bad days, it was easy to just stay home if the weather wasn’t good. It was a good first winter.
I knew I wasn’t lucky enough to get another mild winter, though. The pony didn’t do well driving in snow, so I got a second vehicle so I could take the old girl off the road during the winter months. I had my snow pusher and the cold weather clothes I bought the year before. I was ready! I was very happy that we got a white Christmas……but, then it kept on snowing……..and snowing……..and snowing! It snowed so much and the snow was so wet and heavy that my snow pusher was no longer an easy solution to clearing the driveway. I decided to get a snow blower. Once I got used to it, I liked it! So, we’ve had two major bouts of snow. And this one came with days of single digit temperatures and sub-zero wind chill factors!
But, you know what? I’m finding I don’t look at the snow in the same way I did when I lived here before. Then, I had to clean off cars and dig my way out to get to school or work every day. I had to drive no matter how bad the roads were – unless work, school, or the roads were closed. It was a chore to just survive the day-to-day necessities. But, now, I have very little that I HAVE to go out for. I clean the driveway out in case I need to go somewhere and to keep up with it so it doesn’t get too out of hand. I clear the patio off so the girls can easily get out to do the business. Other than that, I can sit and look out at it. I can appreciate the beauty of it. I can have fun with the girls and the snow blower. I don’t have to dread the snow. Sure, I still don’t LIKE it and I really wish it would snow for a day or two and then go away and I wish it would warm up – I don’t like being cold! But, I really don’t get all upset and irritated with it like I used to. Maybe it is because I don’t NEED to go out in it……..maybe I’m getting better at not letting things I can’t do anything about bother me…….who knows. All I know is I just plain don’t feel the same about winter and snow as I used to and that’s a good thing!
I ventured out yesterday and snapped some photos. Here is what January 2013 in Albion, NY looks like:
The girls playing in the snow – before the second wave came through and made it much deeper!
Don’t think I’ll be barbecuing any time soon!
Breakfast on the patio, anyone?
The canal is drained for the winter and the barges that are parked until spring look pretty sad stuck in the ice and snow!
Ducks out on the frozen river at Point Breeze
Lake Ontario at Point Breeze — icy waves!
Another shot of the frozen chunks covering Lake Ontario
The Black North Inn at Point Breeze looks pretty lonely!
Mount Albion Cemetery
Mount Albion Cemetery
Mount Albion Cemetery
And, finally…….this patio was all cleaned off just yesterday – this was taken this morning after the overnight lake effect snow dumped another load of snow on us!
So, there are my thoughts on Winter and snow. I’m finally at a point in my life where I can actually enjoy it…..to a point! 🙂
Wonder Where The Wonder Bread Went
I love Wonder Bread! It is my very favorite brand of bread. The regular kind, the king sandwich loaf kind, the white wheat kind, the hotdog and hamburger buns. If it is Wonder Bread, I like it! I think it is the freshest tasting and softest of all the breads on the market. When I was a kid (and, yes, even as an adult….sometimes….OK a lot of times), I used to love to pinch it together between my fingers and roll it around to make dough balls out of it – it was so moist and fresh that it would get all doughy and…..hhmm – can’t really find the words to describe it. I love the way it sticks to the roof of my mouth when I eat a sandwich made with it. I love the smell of it. I love the way it toasts up. I just plain LOVE it!!! I grew up with the commercials that promised that Wonder Bread “builds strong bodies 12 ways” – it was not only good, it was good for you, too!
So, I was not happy when I started finding there was none on the shelves at the grocery store. At first, I thought it was just sold out. I wondered why they didn’t order more, since week after week they were running out. Then, it hit me. The light turned on. Wonder Bread is made by Hostess and Hostess has filed bankruptcy. Not sure why it took me so long to make the connection – sometimes I’m a little slow on the uptake! I heard all the news reports and all the jokes about how it won’t matter if they stop making Twinkies, Ding Dongs, and Ho-Ho’s because they never go stale and there is likely at least 50 years worth of stock in the warehouses. I guess I just didn’t make the connection because the reports and jokes all focused on Twinkies – which I really didn’t care about. I guess I just didn’t think about it impacting my ability to purchase Wonder Bread. I guess it may also be because I see some of the snack treats still on shelves that it just didn’t dawn on me that Wonder Bread would disappear quicker because it is fresher and won’t last as long as fruit cake, like Twinkies and Ding Dongs do. Who knows why I was shocked to find it not on the shelves and why it took me so long to stop looking for it! All I know is that it is gone! And that the other brands I’ve tried are FAR from fair comparisons – when I want white bread, I want Wonder Bread – not the dryer versions I’ve found. Oh, I like other kinds of breads – Italian bread, potato bread, whole grain breads, etc. But, for most sandwiches and toast, I usually want good old white bread. And, now my Wonder Bread is no more and I am not a happy camper about it!
I heard a week or so ago that the company that makes Nature’s Own bread brands is buying the Wonder Bread brand from the Hostess company. That is encouraging – I like some of the Nature’s Own breads. But, will they make it exactly like Hostess did? Will they continue to call it Wonder Bread so I can easily know that is what it is? Or will they mess with the recipe or call it something else? Will I ever have the Wonder Bread I love so much and have so many fond memories of from my childhood?
These are the things I wonder about…….I wonder where the Wonder Bread went and if it will ever be back. I also wonder why any self-respecting company would call their white bread “Bimbo” – just doesn’t bring the same mental picture as “Wonder Bread – builds strong bodies 12 ways”, does it? I guess I’ll go put my groceries away and try to find something else to wonder about.
Breaker, Breaker 1-9
Breaker, breaker 1-9. This here’s the Shortstuff leaving the salt mine. I’m just watchin’ the pavement, starvin’ the bears, and keepin’ the ole double nickel honest. Got any sandbaggers out there, come on? How ’bout it, Lady Luck, what’s your 20? Candy Man, you got your ears on? We’re clean and green so far, the bears must be hibernating. Made it to the home 20. Catch ya on the flip-flop. Keep your nose between the ditches and Smokey out of your britches. The Shortstuff is down and gone.
Yeah, I admit it. I was a CB (citizen band radio) junky in the 70s and early 80s! We had a home base unit and a mobile unit in every car in the family and all our friends did, too! I worked at GE in Brockport on the second shift for years. We’d all get on our CBs and talk all the way home – about a 30 minute drive, depending on traffic and weather. It was nice – like having a bunch of people in the car with you on a long, tiring drive home after midnight!
The “handles” in my opening paragraph belong to me (Shortstuff), Mom (Lady Luck), and my Dad (Candy Man). Funny thing – my Dad’s name was Charlie and his CB handle was Candy Man and, in CB lingo, both Charlie and Candy Man refer to the FCC! (I think he actually took the handle from the Sammy Davis Jr song Candy Man) 🙂 I don’t remember a lot of my friend’s handles – my brother was Muddog….I had a friend that went by Sparkplug (Sparkie)…..and my boyfriend, at the time, didn’t have a CB but we referred to him by his nickname – Beefy!
The problem with talking on a CB, though, was that nothing was private! Anyone tuned to that channel could listen in on your conversation and, if they never chimed in, you may never know they heard you! Sandbaggers, we called them – people who sat quietly and just listened in on other people’s conversations! That could prove risky! Case in point – I remember one night in the late-70s I left work at midnight, met up with some friends at the Barge Inn for whatever the special was that night (most likely either 3 OV splits for $1 or 3 shots of schnapps for $1 or 3 Miller ponies for $1……get the picture?), went to the Brockport Diner for breakfast and coffee after, and headed home about 3:00 or 4:00 am…..or so! I was on the CB chatting with the others that had been out with me and on their way home, as well. I told my friends, “I need to watch the pavement, I have a local smokey on my tail and I can’t afford to feed the bears” (translation: I need to drive carefully cause I have a town cop behind me and I don’t want a ticket). I then turned up the street that my grandparents lived on to jog around through town in hopes he wouldn’t follow me, but he did! So, I pulled in to my grandparents driveway and turned the car off. The cop drove right by – probably figuring I was home and off the road. I then told my friends what I did and that I was going to sit there a couple of minutes and then head on home once I felt the coast was clear! Well, the next response I heard was a voice I didn’t recognize that said “Watch it, this bear has ears” (translation: the cop that was following me had been sandbagging our conversation – OMG!). I made it home without a ticket, but I was much more careful about what I said on my CB after that! 🙂 I had my CB on while driving on a trip, once, and overheard some truckers talking about a woman in a mini-van full of kids weaving in and out around the trucks on the interstate – passing them, cutting in front of them, etc – they were just ahead of me – she passed me, too. They said they needed to “contain the kool-aid mom in the four-wheeler cause she’s on a suicide mission”. Within minutes, there was an 18-wheeler in front of her, beside her, and behind her – boxing her in and they rode like that for miles!!! It probably irritated her that these truckers had the nerve to block her in, like that! But, they may very well have saved her and her kids from a potentially deadly situation the way she was flitting around those trucks driving at high speeds with tons of weight behind them!
CBs were very popular in the 70s and a little into the 80s. There were several movies made about truckers and CBs (Convoy, Smokey and the Bandit – and multiple sequels, etc.) and TONS of trucking related songs. And the lingo took on a life of its own! It was a whole separate language of 10-codes and phrases that were usually longer to say than just saying what they meant in the first place! They were meant to only make sense to truckers, but so many people had CBs and watched the movies and listened to the songs, that it wasn’t such a secret language anymore! 🙂 But, it did help me have a lot of fun with truckers when I was a shipping/receiving supervisor and saw several truckers on a daily basis!
So, I’ll close with this classic trucker song…….enjoy!
(Translation for opening paragraph: Permission to speak on channel 19. My handle is Shortsuff and I just left work. I’m driving carefully, avoiding a ticket, and keeping my speed at 55 mph. Is there anyone out there listening, but not talking? Mom – where are you? Charlie – are you on your CB? There are no cops or obstacles along the way. I made it home. Talk to you on the return trip. Drive safe. I’m signing off.)
Time for a Brain Dump!
It has been a while since I just rambled on about a variety of topics that are totally unrelated, except that they are all stuck in my head together. So, yes, it is time to spill my guts, purge my thoughts, make room for new thoughts, get it all out……..a good old-fashioned Brain Dump!
First up…..I went to the book store in town, yesterday, to pick up a book by a local author (and former teacher of mine) and left with four books by local authors – including the latest book by a life-long friend of mine, Bonnie. I had been meaning to order her book – a collection of poetry called Dancing with the Spirits of Shadowplay – the third in a series of books she has had published. So, when I walked in the store and turned left to the “Local Authors” shelf, it reached out and grabbed me from the top shelf! Happy for the reminder and excited to see it there, I snatched it off the shelf and continued to look for the one I went in to get and also decided on the others, as well. I paid for my purchases and left the store. Later, I sent a note to Bonnie on Facebook to let her know I found her book in the book store. She was SO excited to hear it! All her previous books were only available via mail order – none had been displayed on a shelf in a brick and mortar store! Her comment was, “I wish I could have seen it!” My heart sank! I missed an opportunity to do something nice for someone I care about – I never even thought about taking my phone out of my purse and snapping a photo of it! I started to comment back with “Crap! Sorry, I should have taken a pic for you” when I stopped myself and realized I could fix it! Today, I took the book back to the book store and told the owner the story and asked for a favor — she laughed and not only let me put it back on the shelf and snap some photos, she also helped me move another book to make room for it right where it was when I found it the day before! Soon thereafter, the photos were posted and tagged for Bonnie on FB! YAY! There is a solution for everything……if you think about it and make it happen! 🙂
I watched two movies on pay-per-view in the last couple of weeks. One that utterly disturbed me – it was called Compliance. I really wish I hadn’t watched it, but I did and once I got into it, despite the bad acting and incredibly unbelievable story (which they implied at the end was a true story that happened in multiple states across the country), I could not stop myself from sitting there in shock through the whole thing! I could not believe that several grown adults would do such horrible things to an innocent teenager just because a twisted man claiming to be a police detective on the phone tells them to do it! The story is that a manager at a fast food restaurant gets a prank call from this guy saying he is a police detective investigating a theft claim at their restaurant by a young teenage employee. They strip search her, inspect every inch of her body, and the male non-employee the female manager gets to “watch” her does far worse than that at the instruction of the caller until another male – an off shift janitor – comes in and is the only adult who thinks for himself and puts an end to it all and calls the REAL cops! I just can’t believe there are people out there (if it really was a true story and not a work of fiction) that are so stupid, gullible, or whatever you want to call it, to just blindly do whatever they are told just because someone claims to have authority over them! Unbelievable!!!!
The second movie I saw was The Words with Bradley Cooper, Jeremy Irons, and Dennis Quaid – very good! This was about a writer who can’t get anything published until he happens on a handwritten manuscript with no author credit that is so good, so intriguing, that he publishes it with his own name as the author! The real author reads the book and knows that it is the story he wrote and frantically lost so many years ago! He confronts the young writer, who is now faced with a moral dilemma. I very much enjoyed this movie!
The weather has been CRAZY lately! We had a TON of snow over Christmas and the week or so following. Then, it stayed really cold for a while, so the snow wouldn’t melt. Then, all of a sudden – in mid-January – in Western NY – it warmed up……..into the 60s and even hit 70+!!! WOW – SPRING!!! Well, spring for a day or two or three…….then, yesterday and today it was super cold, again, and that awful four-letter word that starts with “S” is expected to be back by the end of the week and into next week!
With the heavy snow over Christmas and some predictions of a rough winter this year, I bought myself a snow blower! I got one that is self-propelled and has an electric start so it would be easy to handle. The day I got it, I went out to learn how to use it……what a riot!!! The driveway had been plowed and packed down and rutted, so there was uneven ice and packed snow under the new layers I was trying to blow away. That made it difficult to operate the snow blower – I kept having to wiggle it and maneuver it to get it over the hard ruts and ice. But, I did it – I learned how to use it! It took a little time for me to get used to it, though! I couldn’t seem to make myself remember that all I had to do was let go of the throttle handle and the machine would stop! Instead, I was practically running behind it, holding it at arm’s length, trying to keep up with it! Must have been a hoot to watch me! 🙂 So, now I think I’m used it it! And since the snow has all melted, I will be able to start fresh and run it before the driveway gets all packed down and rough to run over!
When the snow is fresh and soft and fluffy and deep, the girls LOVE it! They don’t want to stay out too long (they are still southern girls, you know) and they don’t like it once it freezes and gets hard to walk on, but when it is fresh and fluffy, they get out there and roll around in it and leap around in it and run all over the yard and bury their noses and faces in it! It is so fun to watch them play and wrestle in it!
I’ve been working on finding all my high school classmates so I can compile a mailing list to prepare for our 40th class reunion! FOURTY YEARS! WOW! It has been fun searching for them all. I’ve found probably two-thirds or more of them, but still have some to find. The reunion will be in 2014, so we need to start figuring out what we’re going to do, where we’re going to have it, and all those details. So far, just me and a couple of others have been kicking around some preliminary thoughts, but I’m working on a survey and planning a meeting to get more ideas and helpers. This is going to be so much fun — planning the event and then seeing all the ones I haven’t reconnected with, yet! I’m excited!
Well, speaking of meetings, I have one to get to……so, this is all I’ll dump out of my brain, for now!
The BEST Day
OK, so take a picture of today and put it with a notation of today’s date in the dictionary under “The BEST Day” – it is all you will need to effectively define that particular phrase. Because, today truly was THE best day! I enjoyed every minute of it and am kinda bummed that it has to end!
To start, it was a lovely day – weather-wise. Mid-40s – which is a welcome break for what has been a cold January, so far – sunny, and not at all windy (unlike yesterday, which was so windy I could barely stand up). I spent the morning walking all over downtown and driving to a few other spots in and just outside of town distributing posters for an upcoming church fundraiser – our annual lasagna dinner next Thursday. It was such a pretty day that it made for a very pleasant stroll up and down the streets of downtown stopping in at every store, shop, and office that was open. I had some very nice conversations and even ran into an old friend and took the time for a little “catch up” chat!
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Then, I had plans to meet up with a couple of friends I went to school with for lunch. We were going to talk about how to go about getting started planning our 40th class reunion. Now, every time I get together with any of my high school friends I have a GREAT time! And this was no exception. One of the friends, Linda, and I have seen each other several times since I’ve been back home and some before I moved back and we’re friends on Facebook…….so, we know what we look like now that we’re no longer teenagers! 🙂 But, I literally have not seen Pam since we graduated and we planned to meet in a restaurant where it may have been awkward if we didn’t recognize each other. So, last night, I had a dream that we were both sitting at separate tables just a few feet apart thinking the other was a “no-show”! But, I was worried for nothing – I was already seated and she walked in and we knew each other right away! I told her of my fear that we might not recognize each other and she laughed and said she had the same concern and that, in her mind, I looked like the girl with the long blonde hair in our year book! Which I totally understand, because having been away for so many years and not watching my friends age along with me, I still “see” them in my mind as the same as they were when we were in school – so, I was picturing her as she was in the year book, too!
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Yeah, the years may have caused some changes, but the face and eyes were a dead give away for both of us! And then, Linda arrived and the three of us had a wonderful lunch and conversation for over three hours!!! We talked, caught up, laughed, reminisced, and – yes – discussed how we go about getting started planning for our reunion. I had so much fun! One of my favorite things to do is getting reconnected with old friends – I just love it!
Then, I spent the evening with new friends. I participated in our weekly Bible Study class at the church, which is always filled with interesting conversations with people I have come to really enjoy being with. Afterwards, one of my new friends – Cathy – and I went to the elementary school and walked the halls. The elementary school opens up after all the children have left for the day for the community to use as an indoor walking trail – 4.4 times around the trail is one mile and it is a safe, temperature controlled environment to walk in. I have heard others talk about it and even thought about joining other friends, but this is the first time I actually went through with it. Cathy and I walked and talked and it was, yet another, great part of an already amazing day!
And to top it off, I came home and the girls were so very happy to see me!!! 🙂 I had been in and out all day, so it wasn’t like they were left alone all day…….but, I was gone the majority of the day and I’m sure they thought I had abandoned them. So, when I came home, it was like they hadn’t seen me in FOREVER and they whined and jumped and barked and kissed and practically knocked me to the floor to get a hug! What joy!
I think I’ll sleep pretty good tonight – once I unwind, I’ll likely be ready to crash after all that laughing, talking, fresh air, walking, and excitement! 🙂
And on to 2013
Well, today is the last day of yet another year that seemed to simply flash before my eyes and is gone! Where does the time go? They say that the older you get, the faster the years fly by. Does that seem fair to you? You finally get to a stage in your life when you can really enjoy it and it starts moving at the speed of light – don’t blink, you’ll miss something important! I barely put a dent in my wish list of stuff to do in 2012 and I’ve run out of time! Oh, well, I had a great year, anyway, and if I missed something really special last year, it will just roll over to my to-do list for 2013! How’s that?
Yes, 2012 was a great year. My first full calendar year back home in Albion – YAY! I reconnected with old friends, ventured out to explore old favorite spots and found some new ones, made some new friends, finished some major renovation projects on my house, got to know some of my amazing neighbors, rejoined the church I attended with my family as a child, and – most importantly – spent a ton of wonderful time with my family! Only down side was Mom being sick – she was very ill all year (still is, but we’re hoping she’s on the road to recovery). We weren’t able to get out together much, but we still spent a lot of time together. What you do together isn’t the important thing…..the important part is that you’re together! I am so happy I’ve been here to be with her and help her as much as I could.
Doesn’t sound like I missed much as the year raced by, does it? I sure was busy all year! I often wonder, where is this “retirement” that I’ve read and heard about? The one where people sit in rocking chairs and get bored? I definitely wouldn’t enjoy that kind of retirement for very long, but short periods of it from time to time would be nice! 🙂 I had lots of plans to help ward off the boredom I was sure would set in after I got settled. I downloaded a bunch of books onto my Kindle……I did make time to set out on the patio or up in the lovely sitting area in my bedroom dormer to read a few books, but still haven’t finished the last one I started a few months ago. I started a list of places I wanted to go visit near by……I got through several of them, but still have a bunch to shoot for this coming year. I (with Mom’s help) re-taught myself how to knit and crochet so that I could join the Prayer Shawl group at church……..I crocheted one beautiful shawl for the group and started to knit another one, but the holidays have slowed progress on that one down. I promised myself I would write on here more often, too……..I have written more than in the past few years and I also started a new blog devoted to church news, but still haven’t written as much as I would like to. I enjoy all these things and deliberately make or find time to do them as I can, but since they were meant to ward off boredom and boredom never came, I haven’t devoted as much time to them as I would like.
I found a great new veterinarian for the girls – Dr. Mary Neilans! We LOVE her! I also found a dentist I really like in nearby Batavia – Dr. Krough at Genesee Dental – and he got me set up with Invisalign teeth aligners (invisible braces) to solve some concerns I have with my teeth. It took just about 11 months, but my house in NC finally sold!!!! I spent quite a bit of time enjoying beautiful Lake Ontario – mostly at Point Breeze with a couple of days at Olcott Beach and Charlotte. And, something I never thought I’d hear myself say, I bought and learned how to use a snow blower!
WOW – I sure packed a lot into a year that seemed to only last a split second!
Reflecting on some of the simple JOYS 2012 brought:
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Watching the girls learn to love playing in the snow – leaping around through snow that was nearly shoulder deep on them, trying to catch snowballs I would throw at them, wrestling and rolling around in the fluffy cold stuff!
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Riding my lawn mower around the yard with my iTunes blaring classic rock and singing along at the top of my lungs!
- Joining the choir at church – I’ve found (to my great surprise) that when I’m not singing rock and roll along with the radio or dancing through the house singing Broadway show tunes to entertain the girls and let my “smile” shine, that I actually don’t have a half bad singing voice – if I concentrate on singing properly! 🙂
- Sitting on my patio or in my dormer looking out over the lovely neighborhood I live in!
- Meeting so many great new people!
- Welcoming a new member of our family – my beautiful Great Niece, Taryn!
So, now on to 2013! Life is pretty darned good and I’m blessed with family, friends, a great house, and three amazing dogs – the girls – my sweet companions! So, I don’t have much that I would resolve to improve or change. But, I guess there are a few things I could work on this coming year, so here are my New Year’s Resolutions for 2013:
- I really need to get hooked up with a good doctor and start taking better care of my health! I have one in the works – hope I like her – if not, I’ll keep looking!
- Yeah, OK – along with that, I will work on losing some weight!
- I will continue to work hard at being the person my dogs think I am…….loving, caring, supportive, and kind to others!
Some of the highlights on my “2013 To Do” list:
- I will plan a trip to AZ to see Ronald and Lisa this spring – and, yes, Bonnie, I’ll be sure to spend some time with you, too!
- Day or overnight trips to: Baseball Hall of Fame, Corning Glass Museum, and a few other points of interest!
- New countertops in the kitchen!
- Find more time for creative outlets for myself — knitting, crocheting, writing, etc.
So, there you have it! My past year in a nutshell and my predictions for the year to come. I wish everyone a happy, healthy, joyous, and prosperous New Year!
“Dream as if you’ll live forever. Live as if you’ll die today!”
~ James Dean
FaLaLa…Bah Humbug…FaLaLa
Somehow I was under the impression that when I retired, I’d have all this time to do all kinds of things in a more leisurely fashion than I was able to when I tried to do them while working! Um, my mistake! I find myself again and again thinking, “how in the world did I do all this and work, too?” Case in point: I actually started thinking about Christmas shopping back in October and even picked up a couple of small things….it ended there! Oh, I didn’t just forget about it. I tried and tried to tell myself that I’d better get it done, but there just didn’t seem to be the time for it and, after all, I was starting to think about it early. Then, Thanksgiving came and went. And, all of a sudden, I was faced with a list that I had barely made a dent in and only FIVE days until Christmas Eve (the date that all my family will be at my house for dinner and exchanging of gifts…….the gifts I hadn’t even bought, yet, let alone had wrapped and ready to be passed out).
So, today, December 19th, I headed out shopping. The day started out fabulously! I got up early, took care of a few things around the house, and was on my way. I tuned the radio in the Equinox to a station that is currently playing only Christmas music. I gayly sang loud and proud along with every song I knew and hummed shyly to the ones I didn’t recognize or forgot the words to. I was beaming with Christmas Spirit and excited about a day of shopping! I decided I was not going to quit until every gift was bought and every name on my list was accounted for. My first stop was Kohls on the Ridge in Greece – I found one item I wanted in there. Then, I went to The Shops On West Ridge – I knew they had one specific item I wanted to get and figured I could find something for at least a couple more on my list while I was there. I did get the one specific item, but nothing else caught my eye! The last time I was there, I could have easily spent $1000 if I had it and allowed myself to spend it. But, not today! But, the day was young and it was just a minor set back. Besides, there was an Irish singer performing live while I was there and that was not only very enjoyable, it also put a little extra spring in my step! I stopped at a restaurant to get a gift card to check one more gift off my list.
The restaurant got me thinking and checking my watch. I decided it was time for lunch. I was in the mood for some seafood, so I went to Red Lobster and had a fantastic meal of shrimp, crab, and lobster! YUM! Refueled and reenergized, I was ready to continue on my quest to shop till I was done……or till I dropped, whichever came first.
To the mall, I commanded my trusty Equinox, to the mall! And off I went!
Defeat soon set in. Parking spots were scarce. Stores were packed with other last-minute shoppers, some of whom were not on their best “Christmas-like” behavior. When I found what I wanted, it wasn’t available in the size or other specific criteria I needed. I got lost in stores I’m not familiar with and couldn’t find the departments I was looking for or couldn’t find my way out! My knee was screaming at me. My back was working hard to convince me to just go home. But, I was determined to get the job done….even if it meant fighting through my last nerve! I started thinking that whatever I could get my hands on would be better than nothing at all. But, even though I was dangerously close to a full-blown “Bah Humbug” tantrum, I knew that was wrong – I had put a lot of thought into what I was looking for and I really didn’t want to “settle” for anything less.
So, I went out to the car to take a break. Once my knee and back stopped rebelling against me and I gulped down a cold coke to quench my parched mouth and throat, I was able to relax a few minutes and my mind became clearer…..I got my second wind…..I knew what I needed to do to finish the goal I set out to achieve…..I refocused and went back in with a better game plan! A woman who looked about as irritated as I was just a short time prior (maybe more so) gave me a “what planet are you from” look when she caught me singing along with the rendition of “Here Comes Santa Claus” on the loud speakers, but it didn’t faze me in the least – I just smiled at her and never missed a beat of the song! 🙂 I got a few things at the mall and headed to Home Depot and then Ridgemont Plaza. I was in and out of the stores like a ninja on a mission. And I got it all done! And I didn’t settle for anything I wasn’t planning on getting! I achieved victory!
Nine full hours after I left the house this morning, I returned home in one piece and the cargo section of the Equinox full of goodies, including a few things I treated myself to! I sang along with the Christmas song station all the way home! The day that started out all “FaLaLa” and turned into a “Bah Humbug” ended up in full “FaLaLa”, again! And then, after I took care of the girls – let them take care of business and eat some supper, I went to choir practice and sang some more! I got there early enough to enjoy listening to the Bell Choir practice before time to join the Chancel Choir practice. Aahh…….peace!
I’m done! I can relax and enjoy what is left of the week leading up to Christmas…….oh, wait…….all those bags on my den floor need to be sorted out, wrapped, and placed under the tree! Well, I’ll tell you what………I’m not going to think about that, now – it is time for a much needed and well deserved good night’s sleep! I’ll get on all that tomorrow!
FaLaLa LaLa LaLa LA LAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!
Merry Christmas!
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