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Lots of stuff has been going on in my life, lately.  Lots of thoughts are bumping around in my head.  Lots of things I find that I have an opinion on.  So, here I am thinking I should probably find a way to get them out of my head and make room for some new stuff….aaahhh – the therapeutic nature of the blog, or should it be called a “brain dump receptacle”?

First — the most recent update is that WINTER is STILL attacking Sanford, NC!  We typically get one sign of snow a year – sometimes barely noticable, sometimes quite problematic, always a source of great excitement for the area.  We usually get more ice and winter mixes than actual snow.  This year – the first since I moved here in 1985 – we had three major snow events and a couple more minor showings.  If I kept count accurately, there were five instances of snow in some capacity since January, 2010!  So – January, February, and March all had a major snow event.  March?  Seriously?  This is the time of year I’m usually tormenting my northern friends with emails about how spring is starting to show up!  Here are some pictures depicting the 2010 winter season in Sanford, so far…. This is the same shot taken of all three snow days.  The first was in January – we got a heavy mix of snow and ice - my driveway was a thick sheet of ice!  The middle was in February – it came down light and fluffy, didn’t stick on the pavement, and was gone by mid-day!  The last was March – today, in fact – it is very wet and heavy and completely covered everything, but is already melting away!  I didn’t get as much as parts of the county west of me, though! 

  

Next is a follow-up to last week’s post about being stressed about some upcoming outpatient surgery I was scheduled for this week.  It happened yesterday and I am not really sure why I was so stressed out!  It was really a piece of cake.  I wasn’t totally unscathed, but it was definitely not worth all the worry I invested into it.  I have to say I had a very good experience at Central Carolina Hospital — the nurses were so nice and helpful, the anesthesiologist was also very nice, informative, and caring!  As promised by the anesthesiologist, they started with a little something to relax me and by the time I got into the operating room, the last thing I remember is scootching over onto the table.  The next thing I knew, the nurses were calling my name and telling me to breathe deeply to wake me up in recovery!  I have no idea what happened in between that and, quite frankly, don’t really care!  They warned that I would likely be weak, tired, and woozy most of the day.  They also warned that I might have somewhere between mild and extensive cramping and to take pain meds to control that.  I got home, had some lunch, and went to bed.  I spent almost all day and then all night sleeping!  I got up a few times and tried to stay up, but just wasn’t up to it – very light headed and fairly lethargic.  But, the cramping never happened – I had some twinges and hints of cramping a few times late last night, but nothing else!  Ronald was there through the surgery and stayed with me all day – he was very supportive!  Lisa came over after she finished with some commitments she had during the day and was very helpful.  Today, I am up, but still somewhat light headed and after being up for about 4 hours, I think I’m ready for a nap!  The funny thing of it all is the instructions for my first 48 hours:  Do not drive a car, use power tools, ride a bicycle or climb a tree!  Hhhhmmmm – guess I’ll just have to put off my plans for today to ride a bike to the nearest big tree, climb to the top and use power tools to trim the limbs and build a tree house – then drive my car to haul off the debris!  Tomorrow, I’ll be back to work and ready for all that life has to offer!  I go back to the doc in a couple weeks to find out about the biopsy and get checked out.  I’m very optimistic!

Now — on to the announcement of the upcoming new season of Dancing with the Stars:   Come on!  Last season was fairly lackluster and blah….I hoped that would pick up this year.  Guess not — maybe this show has run its course and they are stretching at straws trying to find appropriate stars – problem is, it isn’t working!  Did they really think Kate Gosselin and Buzz Aldrin would be good choices?  And the Batchelor guy???  Really???  OK, so Aiden Turner from All My Children just might give me a reason to tune in, but we’ll see if watching him is enough to overcome having to watch the rest…….it doesn’t sound too promising!

Fundraiser updates:  February brought us two – count ‘em – two very successful CARA fundraisers!!!  First Friday at Cafe 121 on Feb 5th was the most successful event since Chef Hamm started hosting these events for local non-profits.  Out take for the evening was $1000 and it was so much FUN!!!   Then, on Feb 22nd, we had our third annual Bella Dinner benefiting CARA’s Holly Fund (fund maintained to provide care for homeless animals with special health or developmental needs) held at Bella Bistro.  This, too, was a fabulous event – fun, great food – 5 course gourmet dinner with wine pairings and a champagne reception – and lots of wonderful conversations with fellow animal lovers!  Our proceeds for that event was about $3300!  So – in one month and two amazing events, we brought in over $4000!  What a great month!  The next CARA event is “Ride for Their Lives” – a biking event at Deep River Park at Camel Back Bridge on May 8th.  AND — drum roll, please — at Communities in Schools of Lee County are starting to get into the bulk of the plans for this year’s ”Dancing with the Lee County Stars” event scheduled for August 13th!  It is going to be even better than the hugely popular first event last year!!

Well, that’s about it for now — I could go on, but need a nap!  hehehe

It’s all about the dogs….

This week has been all about dogs for me…..which isn’t that different from most weeks, but a little more obvious than usual!  Megan had an injury that resulted in a couple visits to the vet and an awkward e-collar.  Then there was a very successful fundraiser for CARA on Friday night!  So, it was a week of ups and downs, but definitely all about the dogs!

First, about Megan…..On Saturday, during the snow storm, she was outside playing and when she came in, she was licking and chewing at her leg.  When I looked, I noticed that she had pulled her dewclaw out and had a bulge of raw meat protruding out of her leg!  It wasn’t bleeding and she didn’t appear to be in major pain, which was good, because I wouldn’t be able to get out to take her somewhere!  I had one pain pill left from a previous injury, so I gave it to her to help ease any discomfort she was in.  On Monday, I took a personal day to take her to see Dr. Cindy at All Animals.  They kept her for the day and removed what was left of her dewclaw and I went back to pick her up after the surgery.  She came home groggy with her leg bandaged and an e-collar on.  When she walked into the house, Amy sniffed her all over and walked away, but Katie reached into the e-collar and gently kissed her all over her face – while Megan stood there weaving and trying to not fall down!  Daily antibiotics and a Weds appointment to change her bandage are treating her injury — but the e-collar is the real story here!  I’ve always said that Megan is one of the smartest and most cunning dogs I’ve ever known…..well, she proved it again this week.  The first night was a comedy in action – she was groggy and unsteady, anyway, and the bumping into everything she came close to made it hysterical to watch!  It reminded me of those toys that change direction when they bump into an obsticle – she would stagger to the right and bump into the wall, then stagger to the left and bump into a chair, then stagger to the right and bump into something else…..all through the house!  I know it isn’t nice, but I couldn’t stop laughing at her!  But that didn’t last long – by the next morning, she had figured out how to live with it!  She learned what she could push her way through and what she had to go around….she learned that if she didn’t fit going straight on, she could turn to get one side through and get through that way…..she learned how to get at her food and water without making a mess…..she learned how to use her feet and stationary things around her to get her ball to stop rolling away when she tried to pick it up…..and she learned that she could gently drop her ball in the e-collar and carry it around with her when she wasn’t squeaking it!!!  She’s one smart cookie who adapts to whatever the world dishes out!!

Friday night was “First Friday” at Cafe 121, benefiting CARA – Carolina Animal Rescue and Adoption.  Chef Hamm does this every month to benefit a different local non-profit organization each month.  The organization takes care of the advertising, getting the word out, and is there the night of the event to greet people and talk about their organization.  Chef Hamm gives the organization 50% of the total sales for the evening!!!  WOW – how generous is that?  When Friday came, it rained heavily all day long – horrible weather!  We were so concerned that the weather would keep people from coming out — quite the contrary!!!  Not long after opening at 5:00, the people started coming in…..and they kept coming…..we packed the house and it stayed packed all evening long with lines waiting for tables at several points!!!!  The result?  About double what I was guessing we would see from the event!  And a lot of people had a fantastic meal and enjoyed some great company and conversations!  I had a blast – that CARA ended up benefiting from the contribution was icing on the cake!  And the winners were the homeless dogs and cats that CARA works so hard to take care of and find loving forever homes for!

Kudos and many thanks to Chef Gregg Hamm for all he does for our community!!!

Now on to work on the next CARA fundraiser — the 3rd Annual Bella Dinner at Bella Bistro on February 22nd.  Chef Chad at Bella will prepare a 5 course gourmet dinner with wine pairings for each course and a champagne reception!  Mmmmm!  Tickets are $75 each and sponsorship opportunities are available.  It will be a night to remember, for sure!

Day Fit For A King

Today – January 8th – was a day fit for a king!  Yep, the King, Elvis Presley, would have turned 75 years old today!  But that wasn’t the only notable thing that happened, or for that matter, didn’t happen today!  I have a lot of thoughts about today and the last few days rattling around in my head, so this is sure to be a good old “brain dump” so I can make room for the thoughts I hope to have over the weekend!  Weekends tend to generate a ton of great thoughts, so it would be nice to have some space available for them when they start pouring in!  So, here goes…….

Elvis — it is hard to believe he would have been (or is, depending on your belief) 75 years old today!  WOW — I grew up watching the young, handsome Elvis in movies like Viva Las Vegas and Kissing Cousins (my two favorites).   I remember watching the ’68 Come Back Special and falling in love forever with that skin-tight black leather outfit and the guy in it!  I was 12 years old — do you know what something like that does to a 12-year-old girl just starting to bud into her teens?  Yeah – it was a lasting vision that still melts my jammies to think about!  I would lay on my stomach on the floor inches from the TV watching anything that came on with Elvis in it and CRY my eyes out!!!  I played the Elvis songs loaded on my iPhone all day at work today — most set me to be-bopping, many put me in a mellow moment, and some brought tears to my eyes!  Ones that will ALWAYS bring tears to my eyes are “You Gave Me A Mountain”, “If I Can Dream”, “Are You Lonesome Tonight”, and “One Night” – my personal favorite Elvis song out of all Elvis songs!!! 

The thought of Elvis also makes me think of and remember my dear friend, David Whittier!  David was the lead singer of a local band called Defiance and a very close friend of mine.  David always made me think of Elvis – he sung some of his songs (“If I Can Dream”, “You Gave Me A Mountain”, and “Polk Salad Annie”, to name a few) and sounded very much like him.  When he sang anything, he would bring tears to my eyes!  So, David was always a trigger to get all emotional about Elvis.  David passed away tragically way too young from a horrible accident!  Now, when I hear Elvis, I think of my dear friend, David, and get the warm fuzzies all over!  I know that Elvis and David are jamming together in Heaven and they will forever link memories of each other in my heart!

It is no secret that I grew up and spent the first 1/2 of my life in Western New York in a small town about half way between Buffalo and Rochester just off of Lake Ontario in the Buffalo snow belt!  I have seen some pretty massive blizzards over the years — some that required earth movers to come in and cut through mountains of snow to clear roads.  Even though it snowed several months out of the year, we had very few snow days from school – if they closed school because of snow, we never would have gone to school in the winter months and some spring months!  So – I will never understand the panic that goes on in Sanford, NC when the weather man even mentions the word “snow”, even if it isn’t part of the forecast!  This week, the weather guys all predicted a potential for some light snow on Thursday night / Friday morning.  The forecast was for “a trace to 1/2 inch” possible in some areas, depending on where the cold front passes through.  So, by 2:00 on Thursday afternoon, most of the counties, including the one I live in, decided to put the schools all on a 2 hour delayed opening on Friday morning —- BEFORE they even knew IF we’d get any snow and if we did, how much and what impact it might have!  As it turned out, there was NO snow and NO ice Friday morning!  But, since they already announced the delayed opening, parents had to scramble around because they had kids that would be home alone for two hours in the morning if they didn’t either arrange for their care or be late for work!  All for nothing!  Jeez!!!  I will never understand the reaction to the threat of snow here!!  Someone on Facebook today made the joke that maybe the grocery stores and the weather people are in a partnership to boost sales of bread and milk — Kroger, Food Lion, etc. call the local TV stations and say “hey, we’ve got a bad surplus of bread and milk on our hands!  You think you might be able to create a snow scare so we get to sell out of our stock?”  The weather station kick into gear and say the word “snow” and BAM – all bread and milk across the state flies out of the grocery stores within minutes!! 

We’re working on some exciting things for CARA!  On Friday, February 5th, Cafe 121 is hosting a “First Friday” fundraising event benefiting CARA – 50% of the sales for dinner that evening will go directly to CARA!  We’re working to generate a lot of interest in going to Cafe 121 for dinner on the 5th!   Then, on Monday, February 22nd, we’re having our annual Bella Dinner at Bella Bistro!  An amazing 5 course meal with wine pairings and a champagne reception before the dinner starts!  Tickets are on sale for $75 each and sponsorship opportunities are available.  All proceeds benefit CARA’s Holly Fund to pay expenses for homeless animals with special needs.  If you’re interested in attending this event, please leave a comment here and I’ll get you the info you need to get tickets or be a sponsor!

I talked to a dear friend today that I don’t talk to as often as I would like to — just a matter of busy schedules, which is absolutely no excuse!!!  There are some people who I just plain need to commit to make time for keeping in touch with them more often!  She is one!  It was great talking to her and we plan to get together for brunch and a movie soon!

2010 is off to a kick-ass start!!  Hope it keeps up! 

Life is back to normal

WHEW!  My life is back to normal – sorta – whatever “normal” means!  So, what do I do with my time, now?  Do I sit on my laurels and twiddle my thumbs while I enjoy some peace, quiet, and relaxation?  Um – NO!  I’m not the “sit and do nothing” type!

I admit, this past week was filled with a lot of nothing during my non-work hours, but that stops now! 

I just realized that it is the 29th and I almost forgot about the CARA event – “Run For Their Lives” – happening in Kiwanis Park this morning.  It started at 8:00, so we will be a little late, but Katie and I will be heading that way in a little bit to take part in whatever activities are left when we get there — or just to check out all the other dogs!  Katie loves going on adventures and I am always happy to support CARA!   Megan and Amy would love to go, too, but I can’t handle all 3 in situations like this — they get WAY too excited!  Katie is the calmest, so is best to take to something like this - Megan and Amy will get their turns at something fun! 

If you haven’t heard, “Run For Their Lives” is a fun run and walk with lots of other great activities with proceeds benefiting CARA – Carolina Animal Rescue and Adoption.  It is from 8:00-12:00 TODAY at Kiwanis Park.  If you read this in time, come on out!!!

Ronald started on the renovations to the garage this week!  My garage was in BAD need of organization!  A few years ago, my Mom and I put up some plastic shelving units around the perimeter so that I could get stuff off the floor.  But they ended up being junk collectors with no organization what-so-ever!  They also started to buckle under the weight of some of the things I was storing on them!  (one was about ready to collapse at the slightest bump and crash the contents onto my precious pony — uugghh!!!)  So, I sold some of the shelving units at my yard sale a couple months ago.   I kept 2 for the garage and 1 to put out in the shed so I can also organize that (another story for another time)!  I decided I wanted to put up peg board on some of the wall space so that I could hang things up and have them take up less space than being on the floor or on shelves that took up a lot of space, as well.  I also wanted an overhead shelf to put seasonal stuff up out of the way.  The shelves will now only be used for anything that can’t be hung up and that I don’t want to stash up high (not gonna put anything up there I need to get to very often – I am short and scared of ladders/heights)!  We’re also going to paint all the walls and peg board the same color – LaFonda Boulder, which is a slightly darker beige than what I used in the living room, but not a lot darker - and put that pretty garage floor sealer that has speckles in it on the floor!  It is going to look so good when we’re (and by “we”, I mean “Ronald”) done!  A perfect home for my beloved pony!  Here is what the garage looked like when I first moved in and some “in progress” shots – so far, he’s only got the peg board up.  It is on the entire end wall and on about 10 feet of the left side wall.  I think that’s enough!  The overhead shelf will be the entire length of the end wall up over the peg board.

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Speaking of the garage, we discovered a leak in the water heater!  It definitely wasn’t leaking a few days ago when I was out there getting a screwdriver!  And each day, it looks like it is leaking a little heavier!  So – before it lets loose and floods the garage, we will be replacing it!  I imagine it is about time for it to decide to die on me!  I’ve lived here 5 1/2 years and I don’t know how old it was when I moved in – it could be as much as almost 10 years old, if it is the original one!  At least water heaters are fairly inexpensive appliances and Ronald can easily install it for me – especially since it is right out in the open in the garage!  (we had to replace one in my mobile home that was inside the wall between two closets in the guest bedroom – that was NOT a fun replacement when it let loose and flooded the carpeted room and soaked the wall it was behind up several feet!!!)  So, working on the garage and replacing the water heater are on the agenda for this weekend!

We still have the master bedroom and bathroom to paint and put back together, but that will be on the agenda NEXT week! 

I’m also gearing up for a two week visit from my Mom in a few weeks!  WOO HOO!  It will be great to have her here!  My brother and his wife are coming for a long weekend during the time she’ll be here, too!  I can’t wait!  We’re all planning to go see “Bingo” at the Temple Theatre while they are here!

So — resting on my laurels?  Yeah, right, I wish (actually, no I don’t wish that)!  ha-ha-ha

So – Katie and I are off to Kiwanis Park for the “Run For Their Lives” event for CARA!!!!  Hope to see you there!!!

Saturday Morning

The weekend is here!  Lots to talk about – CIS Dancing with the Lee County Stars event; CARA events; some updates on my ongoing home renovations; and more!  Who said that summer days are “lazy”?  I am definitely in high gear and busy, busy, busy!

Communities In Schools of Lee County is doing Dancing with the Lee County Stars as our major fundraiser for the 2009-10 fiscal year (click here to access the event web site).  This event will take place on Friday August 21st beginning at 6:00 at the Dennis Wicker Civic Center here in Sanford, NC.  The evening will start out with a chance to mingle and enjoy “A Taste of Lee County” including specialty menus and assorted beverage items by some of the area’s finest chefs – Amy’s Confection Company, Bella Bistro, Cafe 121, Fresh Choice Cafe, Myra’s Kitchen, Smith’s Coffee and Bottled Water, and Harris Wholesale.  The entertainment begins at 8:00 with ballroom and shag routines performed by local “stars” and their dancing partners!  The winner will be the couple who raise the most money.  How do they do that?  Through your votes and by selling tickets and sponsorships for the event!   For more information, visit our event web site to find the names of all the dancing couples and links to cast your votes and purchase tickets on line.   CIS has programs that connect needed resources between the Lee County schools and local businesses and individuals.  We focus on providing services that will keep kids in school and prepare them for life!  As with many non-profit organizations, the declining economy has taken it’s toll on CIS and we are in desperate need of funds!  So – vote early and often and get your tickets to come out to enjoy a fun filled night of food and entertainment!

Carolina Animal Rescue and Adoption (CARA) is teaming up with Temple Theatre and featured artists Lisa Mathis and Yvonne Sovereign to host a “Dog Dayz of Summer” event on Friday, August 7th from 5:00 – 7:00 pm at the Art Studio at 102 South Steele Street, Suite 302 – on the corner of Steele and Carthage Streets.  $25 will get you into this event and all proceeds go to CARA, a Sanford area non-profit organization devoted to helping animals in need of forever homes.  Tickets can be purchased at Temple Theatre and include an art exhibition, reception with appetizers, and a seat for the Friday evening performance of 101 Dalmatians at Temple Theater at 7:00 pm on the 7th.  Come out and support this wonderful organization and give a helping hand to animals in need of our love and support!  Check out CARA’s and Temple’s web sites for more info on both organizations and the 101 Dalmatians production.

I am so excited….I am planning for a visit this fall by my Mom and this year, my brother and sister-in-law are going to come down and join us for one of the long weekends that she will be here!!!  I can’t wait!!!  This is the first time my brother and his wife have been to my current home.

Other fantastic family news:  My nephew, Bryan – my brother’s son – and his wife, Brianne, are expecting a baby!!!  Too early to know if I’ll be a Great Aunt or a Great Uncle (my feeble attempt at humor – I mean too early to know if it will be a boy or girl), but we’re all anxiously awaiting the newest addition to our family — the first of that generation!!! 

Now — renovation update:  The kitchen and living room still have some minor work to be done – rearranging things and putting stuff back up on walls before they are really presentable – but we did get the wainscoting and chair rail molding up on the kitchen walls!  It looks GREAT!!! 

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Now, all I need is for the kitchen curtains I ordered to arrive, put up a couple things on the walls, and finish painting the table and chairs – the table is painted, but the chairs are still waiting for me to get on them!  Then, the kitchen will be DONE!

2nd Annual CARA Dinner at Bella Bistro

A great event has been brought to my attention – one that highlights a cause that is near and dear to my heart – animal rescue!  Carolina Animal Rescue and Adoption (CARA) is a great organization!  None of my girls came from CARA – they found me – I didn’t have to go looking for them, but I visit their web site often to look at the pets that are available for adoption.  Also, before Katie found her way into my life, I did watch their web site for a possible companion for Puddles.

CARA is a no kill facility.  Some animals are there for quite a while before they are adopted and their care can be costly.  As with other non-profit organizations, CARA depends on the generosity of the community for their funding.  holly1One special fund maintained by CARA is the Holly Fund (click here for more info).  Through the Holly Fund, money is earmarked for the care of animals with special needs that come to CARA for adoption.  The photo to the left is Holly – the adorable dog that inspired the start of the Holly Fund!  Holly wasn’t always this beautiful and she would have likely not made it without the intervention of people who were committed to saving her life – and, of course CARA.  The event I am about to share with you will benefit the Holly Fund so that CARA can continue to help animals that find themselves in bleak situations! 

The 2nd Annual CARA Dinner at Bella Bistro is a semi-formal event featuring a Champagne Reception, 5 course meal with wine pairing for every course, beautiful pearls for the door prize donated by Southern Jewelers, and live music — all at Bella Bistro on Steele Street in Sanford.  If you’ve ever had a dinner at Bella (or if you’ve tried Chef Chad’s offerings at the CIS Gala), you know this will be no less than absolutely fabulous!!!! 

Tickets are $85 each — yeah, I know — money is tight right now – especially right after the holidays!  But, it is such a worthy cause and you really are getting a lot for your money – champagne, 5 wonderful courses from Chef Chad, wine, entertainment, the great atmosphere that Bella offers, and a chance to spend the evening with other animal lovers!

There are also sponsorships available for you or your business:

  • “Wine & Champagne” sponsorship = $520
  • “Sponsor a Course” = $275

Sponsors names will be printed on the menu/program at the dinner, have special recognition at the dinner, names will be listed on the CARA website for 3 months, and will be listed in the ad in the Sanford Herald in mid-February (if received by Feb 6th).

For more info or to purchase tickets or pledge a sponsorship, leave a message at CARA – 919-774-9433 – and indicate that you are interested in tickets or sponsorship info for the Bella Dinner.  They will contact you ASAP.

Help those who can not help themselves – participate in this event OR contact CARA for other ways you can contribute!!  Visit CARA’s website for photos of animals that are awaiting the chance to give some lucky family a lifetime of love!