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A Sea of Flags…

As Memorial Day approaches, the Veteran groups have been busy putting out new, crisp flags at the grave sites of our veterans. I was at Mount Albion Cemetery yesterday setting out the crocks for our family members and found the sea of flags to be heart warming. Of course, I snapped a few photos.

First up: My Dad’s crock – one of the three that Mom and I made up and set out last night – Poppie not only gets a Veteran’s flag, he also gets the small one we put in all our cemetery crocks:

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The sea of flags in the military section:

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And, finally, the Civil War section:

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Water……Creek or Crick?

I love being near the water. I love hearing it flowing across rocks in a stream or crashing against the shoreline or splashing up on a ledge. I love the cool, crisp, clear look of a babbling brook. I just love being near the water. I find being near the water to be the ultimate in peace and relaxation. Watching ducks, swans, boats, and even leaves or moss glide across the calm waters with utter grace and ease brings an inner calm to me. Watching and listening to waves break up onto the shore and retreat back into the body of water is mesmerizing. I can lose myself in thought or just sit in total inner silence for hours by the water.

Now…..to clarify a little, here…….that is different from being “at the beach”, in my mind, which is something I’m not a big fan of! I really don’t like being out in the hot sun on a crowded beach – not to say that I don’t like the beach, cause I do – I enjoy feeling the sand in my toes and walking along a beach, enjoying the waves rushing up on my legs. But, put me on a hot beach in the scorching sun with the sand blistering my feet and a ton of people around and I’m not going to be a happy camper – at all! My ideal “beach” scene is a where I’m warm or slightly cool, not getting baked and burned to a crisp by the sun, feeling the breeze on my face and the wet sand and water on my feet, hearing nothing but the waves and seagulls, seeing an occasional person or small group of people wandering by as I sit and read with my feet in the cool water, and being totally relaxed!

So, today I want to talk about some of my favorite memories of being near the water – most of which are right here near Albion! But, first, I need to mention that wherever you read the word “creek”, mentally read it as “crick”, because that is how I mean it to be pronounced….the way I pronounce it! Funny anecdote  about that: I was doing an assignment in grammar school – probably something like “What I Did Over The Summer Break” type of assignment. I was telling about time I spent at the creek behind our house and couldn’t figure out how to spell “crick”, so I went to the teacher and asked her how to spell it. She asked me to describe what a “crick” was so she could figure out what I was talking about. When I told her that it was a stream of water, she corrected me and said it is a “creek – c-r-e-e-k”! I still always called it a “crick” and still do, most of the time! HA!

As a child, I remember days at the lake – my grandparents had a cottage on Lake Ontario and we spent a lot of time there. It really didn’t have a beach – just a stony landing at the bottom of the stairs that led to the lake, but we would throw rocks into the water, skip stones, and, of course, walk and swim in the lake. At the top of the stairs were some benches and I used to enjoy sitting there at night in the dark and just listen to the waves that I couldn’t see from there. I remember going to nearby Johnson’s Creek with some friends and when I came out from swimming discovered several leaches on my legs……eeewww……the thought still gives me the creeps! Other childhood water-related memories include family vacations to Atlantic City (long before the casinos took it over) and camping on Conesus Lake – one of the Finger Lakes.

When we moved out to the country, there was a creek that ran out back. I’d walk through the farmer’s field that surrounded our property to a tree-lined hill and climb down the hill to the creek below. It was a nice little creek – clear, cool, and always moving! My boyfriend at the time, Bobby, lived on the next road over and he would walk from his house to the creek and we’d meet there. Other neighborhood kids would go there, too, and we’d get together and have fun by the water! And, I often went and just sat there by myself and just think! I also seem to have some vague, fleeting memories of an occasional cow being there for a drink from the creek and a farmer who didn’t like us being there and shot buck shot our way to scare us off – we weren’t intimidated! I’ve been to several seminars where they would ask us to close our eyes and think of a place that we could go to in our minds to relax……that is always the place I would “go to” – I’d put myself on that creek bank and could actually hear the water rushing over the rocks. I recently stopped at the cemetery that overlooks the creek (no way was I going to walk across the long field and climb down the hill, like I used to – haha) – it is all grown up and much more rugged looking than I remember it, but the creek is still there and still sounds the same. I loved that creek!!!!

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Another great place is Lake Alice in Waterport. I actually never knew it was named Lake Alice…..I always new it as Waterport Creek and later heard it called Waterport Pond a lot. It is a huge lake that feeds from Oak Orchard Creek – great for fishing and boating! I went to Waterport school for 5th and 6th grades – a small country school that was part of Orleans County school system - and had a lot of friends who lived along the lake, so spent a lot of time there. We used to swim out to a little “oasis” that was out a ways from the shore near my friend Cathy’s house and I’d watch friends jump from the bridge (I never had the nerve to try that)! There was also an old railroad trestle just down from the main area that we could walk to and go out onto it (again, that was a little scary for me and my fear of heights) – the trestle is closed off, now (and maybe even gone – not sure), because it isn’t safe, anymore (not that it was all that safe to be on when we were kids, either), so I couldn’t get any photos. It was a nice lake to enjoy fun on and near the water!

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A waterway you can’t ignore around here is the Erie Barge Canal – it goes right through the center of just about every town around here! Hand dug by immigrants, it officially opened on October 26, 1825 and was created to connect the Hudson River to the Great Lakes to provide easy, inexpensive transportation for goods from the ocean inland. Many a town was born and built up along the canal as a major center of commerce – Albion, included! I drive over the canal several times every day, because I live just north of it and can’t get to town any way I go without coming up on at least one canal bridge! Back in the day, mules pulled the barges along the tow path. Now, tug boats pull the barges and the tow path is a great recreational path for walkers and cyclists. The canal is mainly a recreational waterway, now – although it is still used for commercial transportation. Boaters use the canal for fun and people can be found on the banks fishing. The canal is quite a work of art — full of locks to guide boats through changing elevations and lift bridges that raise to allow taller boats to pass by street intersections. I remember hearing the bells ring, signaling that the lift bridge was being raised for a boat, and we would run to ride the bridge up, watch the boat go under it, and ride it back down. We used to ice skate on the canal in the winter, but it wasn’t a safe activity, so the canal is now drained during the winter months and refilled in the spring. Here are some photos I took the other day of the section between the Main St and Ingersoll St lift bridges – both are within a couple of blocks from my house! In the photos are some tugs, tenders, and barges that are docked across from the police station and fire hall on Platt and Bank Streets and the Ingersoll St lift bridge.

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I’ve written a lot on here about Lake Ontario and Point Breeze. The Point is one of my most favorite places on earth! It is the spot where the Oak Orchard River and Lake Ontario meet, so you have the vast Great Lake and a calmer river with marinas and docks all within spitting distance of each other. I love sitting there watching the boats make their way from the marinas on the river out onto the lake and back in. I enjoy taking a loaf a bread and feeding the many ducks and swans that populate the area. It is peaceful and bustling all at the same time — the water is calming, but there is always a lot of activity with fisherman and boats and bikers and on and on! I just love it there! Here are some photos I took this week.

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Recently, I discovered two local waterfalls that I wasn’t aware of (or don’t remember) when I was growing up here. One in Holley (first photo below) and one in Clarendon (second photo) – both quite pleasant to visit!

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There is nothing quite as spectacular as a sun set (or sun rise) over the water…….words can never describe it and photos rarely capture it! Here is the sun setting over the lake at Point Breeze one evening last summer.

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Since I lived in NC for 26+ years, you’d think I’d have lots of great stories about the water, but I really don’t have that many – oh, there were a couple small man-made lakes nearby (Harris and Jordan Lakes) and a couple rather large rivers (Deep River and Haw River), but I never really got interested in them. And, as for the ocean…..like I mentioned earlier, I am not really a fan of the hot beaches – we did spend some time at Carolina Beach, but it was not a place I really enjoyed a lot. We went on a fishing boat out onto the ocean, once, but I got very sea sick. I spent a few days at a work retreat at Atlantic Beach that was very enjoyable – mainly because we went in the off-season and it wasn’t terribly hot and not at all crowded. I LOVED a trip we made to the Outer Banks for our first wedding anniversary, though - we spent a couple of days at Nags Head and then drove the whole length of the Outer Banks – a wonderful trip that I really enjoyed a lot! I have enjoyed spending time on the river front in Savannah and the South Street Seaport in NYC and drove parts of the Pacific Coast Highway in California – all very beautiful. I enjoy taking boat tours, when available, wherever I go — the one we took in Arizona was incredible and I loved the one I took from NYC’s South Street Seaport to Yankee Stadium where I watched a Yankee’s game – NICE!!! I also love being out on the deck of a cruise ship, just looking out over the ocean! But, I still love all the options we have around here to be on or near the water most of all – lots of memories and time spent just soaking in the peace and quiet!

So, I’ll leave you with my foot in a flip-flop on a cruise ship deck in Nassau, Bahamas……peace and fresh sea air – just doesn’t get any better than this!
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Thoughts on Winter

Over the Christmas week and again this current week, I find myself thinking about a popular joke that has made its way around the internet via emails, Facebook, etc. for many years. You know the one. It is written in diary format by a guy/girl who moves to {insert city known for having very snowy winters} and starts out all excited about the snow, progressively loses that enthusiasm more and more each day, and finally ends up cursing the snow and the plow driver who inevitably comes along and buries the end of the driveway within minutes of them shoveling it out……yet, again! I started seeing that joke floating around when I lived in NC. I’d read it through, nod my head, laugh, and think “been there, done that, bought the t-shirt – glad I’m not there anymore!” And then, despite years of insisting I would never live where I had to deal with months of snow, I decided to move back home – to western NY – right smack dab in the Buffalo snow belt!

I was never a fan of winter. Didn’t care much for winter sports or being outside in the cold and snow. Yes, I occasionally enjoyed ice skating at Bullard Park – night skating was the most fun and the building where they had a heater and served hot chocolate made it easy to spend a few hours skating and hanging out with friends. I’ve also been known to bundle up and go sledding, make a few snow angels, and have a few snowball fights in my day. But, for the most part, I much preferred to stay inside in the winter. My brother, on the other hand, loved the snow and being out in it. I always did think he was a little whacky, but, to each his own, as they say. So, the winters in NC were my cup of tea! Just enough snow to remind me that it was pretty and go away before it got irritating. :) We usually had a few days of snow each winter, but it would go away once the sun came out. There were a couple of winters (out of the 26 years I lived there) that brought some significant accumulation that lasted several days. I remember the first year we got buried with a huge snow fall. I didn’t have boots, gloves, or a really warm winter coat. I also didn’t have a snow shovel or other appropriate winter time tools. I had to shovel my deck, steps, and a path to the car. So, I got the dirt shovel out of the shed – learned quick that dirt shovels don’t work in snow – it just sticks to them! But, I am a creative sort……I duct taped a dust pan to the handle of a broom and went out with my shoes, bare hands, and a lightweight jacket and roughly – very roughly – cleared a path in the snow. After that, I bought a snow shovel that never got used. Luckily, if there was any hint of a snow flake in the forecast, the whole state shut down and I didn’t have to deal with it!

So, obviously, one of the things I gave a lot of thought and consideration to when deciding whether or not to move back home was having to deal with the winter months. I admit I was worried about it. I made sure the house I bought had an attached garage – I was determined to never have to clean off a car and carry groceries through the snow – that was the one main must have when it came to a house!!! But, that wasn’t all I worried about. I hadn’t driven in significant snow or ice in a lot of years! And I wasn’t sure how my Mustang would handle in the snow. I decided the benefits of moving far outweighed the concerns I had about the winters. So, here I am.

My first winter here was mild – we only had a couple good snow storms and they didn’t last long. For the most part, it was almost exactly like winters in NC, except it was colder…..and those couple of snow storms were more than I would have had to deal with in NC. I was pleasantly surprised and thought of it as a gift to help me ease into it. I bought a snow shovel called a “snow pusher” that made clearing my driveway and patio easy – I’d just walk behind it pushing the snow out of the way – no need to lift and throw the snow, like normal shovels. I got excited when it did snow and enjoyed watching the girls play and experience deep snow for the first time in their lives. I got right out there with them and played snowball catch and chased them around the yard. Since I didn’t work and there weren’t many bad days, it was easy to just stay home if the weather wasn’t good. It was a good first winter.

I knew I wasn’t lucky enough to get another mild winter, though. The pony didn’t do well driving in snow, so I got a second vehicle so I could take the old girl off the road during the winter months. I had my snow pusher and the cold weather clothes I bought the year before. I was ready! I was very happy that we got a white Christmas……but, then it kept on snowing……..and snowing……..and snowing! It snowed so much and the snow was so wet and heavy that my snow pusher was no longer an easy solution to clearing the driveway. I decided to get a snow blower. Once I got used to it, I liked it! So, we’ve had two major bouts of snow. And this one came with days of single digit temperatures and sub-zero wind chill factors!

But, you know what? I’m finding I don’t look at the snow in the same way I did when I lived here before. Then, I had to clean off cars and dig my way out to get to school or work every day. I had to drive no matter how bad the roads were – unless work, school, or the roads were closed. It was a chore to just survive the day-to-day necessities. But, now, I have very little that I HAVE to go out for. I clean the driveway out in case I need to go somewhere and to keep up with it so it doesn’t get too out of hand. I clear the patio off so the girls can easily get out to do the business. Other than that, I can sit and look out at it. I can appreciate the beauty of it. I can have fun with the girls and the snow blower. I don’t have to dread the snow. Sure, I still don’t LIKE it and I really wish it would snow for a day or two and then go away and I wish it would warm up – I don’t like being cold! But, I really don’t get all upset and irritated with it like I used to. Maybe it is because I don’t NEED to go out in it……..maybe I’m getting better at not letting things I can’t do anything about bother me…….who knows. All I know is I just plain don’t feel the same about winter and snow as I used to and that’s a good thing!

I ventured out yesterday and snapped some photos. Here is what January 2013 in Albion, NY looks like:

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The girls playing in the snow – before the second wave came through and made it much deeper!

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Don’t think I’ll be barbecuing any time soon!

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Breakfast on the patio, anyone?

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The canal is drained for the winter and the barges that are parked until spring look pretty sad stuck in the ice and snow!

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Ducks out on the frozen river at Point Breeze

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Lake Ontario at Point Breeze — icy waves!

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Another shot of the frozen chunks covering Lake Ontario

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The Black North Inn at Point Breeze looks pretty lonely!

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Mount Albion Cemetery

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Mount Albion Cemetery

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And, finally…….this patio was all cleaned off just yesterday – this was taken this morning after the overnight lake effect snow dumped another load of snow on us!

So, there are my thoughts on Winter and snow. I’m finally at a point in my life where I can actually enjoy it…..to a point!  :)

The BEST Day

OK, so take a picture of today and put it with a notation of today’s date in the dictionary under “The BEST Day” – it is all you will need to effectively define that particular phrase. Because, today truly was THE best day! I enjoyed every minute of it and am kinda bummed that it has to end!

To start, it was a lovely day – weather-wise. Mid-40s – which is a welcome break for what has been a cold January, so far – sunny, and not at all windy (unlike yesterday, which was so windy I could barely stand up). I spent the morning walking all over downtown and driving to a few other spots in and just outside of town distributing posters for an upcoming church fundraiser – our annual lasagna dinner next Thursday. It was such a pretty day that it made for a very pleasant stroll up and down the streets of downtown stopping in at every store, shop, and office that was open. I had some very nice conversations and even ran into an old friend and took the time for a little “catch up” chat!

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Then, I had plans to meet up with a couple of friends I went to school with for lunch. We were going to talk about how to go about getting started planning our 40th class reunion. Now, every time I get together with any of my high school friends I have a GREAT time! And this was no exception. One of the friends, Linda, and I have seen each other several times since I’ve been back home and some before I moved back and we’re friends on Facebook…….so, we know what we look like now that we’re no longer teenagers!  :)   But, I literally have not seen Pam since we graduated and we planned to meet in a restaurant where it may have been awkward if we didn’t recognize each other. So, last night, I had a dream that we were both sitting at separate tables just a few feet apart thinking the other was a “no-show”!  But, I was worried for nothing – I was already seated and she walked in and we knew each other right away! I told her of my fear that we might not recognize each other and she laughed and said she had the same concern and that, in her mind, I looked like the girl with the long blonde hair in our year book! Which I totally understand, because having been away for so many years and not watching my friends age along with me, I still “see” them in my mind as the same as they were when we were in school – so, I was picturing her as she was in the year book, too!

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Yeah, the years may have caused some changes, but the face and eyes were a dead give away for both of us! And then, Linda arrived and the three of us had a wonderful lunch and conversation for over three hours!!! We talked, caught up, laughed, reminisced, and – yes – discussed how we go about getting started planning for our reunion. I had so much fun! One of my favorite things to do is getting reconnected with old friends – I just love it!

Then, I spent the evening with new friends. I participated in our weekly Bible Study class at the church, which is always filled with interesting conversations with people I have come to really enjoy being with. Afterwards, one of my new friends – Cathy – and I went to the elementary school and walked the halls. The elementary school opens up after all the children have left for the day for the community to use as an indoor walking trail – 4.4 times around the trail is one mile and it is a safe, temperature controlled environment to walk in. I have heard others talk about it and even thought about joining other friends, but this is the first time I actually went through with it. Cathy and I walked and talked and it was, yet another, great part of an already amazing day!

And to top it off, I came home and the girls were so very happy to see me!!!  :)   I had been in and out all day, so it wasn’t like they were left alone all day…….but, I was gone the majority of the day and I’m sure they thought I had abandoned them. So, when I came home, it was like they hadn’t seen me in FOREVER and they whined and jumped and barked and kissed and practically knocked me to the floor to get a hug! What joy!

I think I’ll sleep pretty good tonight – once I unwind, I’ll likely be ready to crash after all that laughing, talking, fresh air, walking, and excitement!  :)

Restaurant Review – Ho-Jacks

I went to Ho-Jacks restaurant in Carlton yesterday. Ho-Jacks is a new restaurant that recently opened up in the building where the old Carlton Grill used to be on 98 on the way to the lake. I heard several people say that the food is amazing, so I have been itching to go try it out. I wasn’t disappointed!

The Carlton Grill was always a favorite spot – fun place to hang out with friends, good food, and a great snowmobile destination. I was never much of a snowmobiler – never really liked being out in the snow – but, when I did go on a night trail run, it was fun to meet up with other snowmobilers at the Carlton Grill for a little something to warm the innards! I remember the Carlton Grill fondly, which is why I was so disappointed to find out it was closed and had been idle for some time when I moved back home. I understand there were a couple of owners who gave it a shot, but didn’t make it. Until now……..

The restaurant is now open and called Ho-Jacks! It is a family run business and seems to be doing very well (knock on wood – definitely don’t want to send any jinx vibes, here)! They make everything in-house and to order – in fact, one of the specials was a linguine dish that my waitress said was made with linguine pasta made fresh on the premises! Impressive! I found it to be comfortable and quaint – a nice homey country bar and grill ambience with a variety of food that ranges from good old comfort food to fine dining worthy delights. I found the prices to be quite reasonable, as well.

So, I decided to finally pop in for dinner yesterday. I arrived about 4:00, hoping to avoid the Friday night crowd. There was just one other table of diners when I was seated, but it wasn’t long before a steady stream of people started to enter and be seated. Before I knew it, the dining room was packed and there were people waiting at the bar for a table! I was so pleased to see the waitresses so busy with a nice dinner crowd – love to see a good new restaurant do well. Before the room began to fill up, I overheard the other couple say that they were there just the night before and were back because of how much they enjoyed the food. When the two tables beside me filled in with people who appeared to know each other, the man at one table asked the man at the other if he’d ever been here before. When he said, no, the first man said they come all the time and the food is always incredible! Good to know! As I watched other meals coming out to the tables, I didn’t see anything that I wouldn’t be delighted to have delivered to my table! A burger being served to a nearby table caught my eye – I definitely need to order a burger on a return visit!

Ok, so let’s back up. I was seated and my waitress came up and very passionately described the list of daily soups, appetizers, and specials…..and she did so in such detail that I felt like I could actually “see” everything she was describing…….and without reading it from a piece of paper! It all sounded sooooo good and at least one dish stood out, but I wanted to review the menu and see what else I had to choose from. The first thing I noticed on the menu was Fried Pickles – I smiled – I like Fried Pickles and haven’t seen them on a menu since I left the south! As I continued to scan the menu, I noticed it was full of comfort foods and burgers and dishes that sounded wonderful. But, I couldn’t stop thinking about one of the specials, so my mind was distracted. The specials of the night included, among other things, ribs and the standard Friday night Fish Fry with THREE preparation options – beer battered, corn flake encrusted, or broiled with a house rub. But, the special that got my mouth watering was the Beef Tenderloin – it was described as two four ounce filets sandwiched between grilled portabella mushrooms placed on top of garlic mashed potatoes and topped with shredded fried onion rings and a demi glaze! Now, I don’t really care for mushrooms and I was told that everything is made to order and can be requested anyway I want, but I let it come the way it was intended – I just removed the mushrooms. I know, what a waste, but I didn’t want to spoil the presentation because the description sounded so perfect! (and, no, I didn’t order the Fried Pickles – maybe next time – they are better with a sandwich, anyway!) It came with a salad of spring greens and some veggies on top – very nice salad! They also brought me a basket of bread and butter – several warm slices of a fabulously dense homemade bread with a crispy crust and herbs all through it. The butter was pretty special, too – one little cup with whipped regular butter and one with whipped butterscotch butter – YUMMO – a very pleasant discovery!!! And then came my dinner………I was so overwhelmed by the presentation and so anxious to taste it that I didn’t even think of taking a picture!  I really wish I had, though – it was a beautiful work of art – a sculpture made of potatoes and beef! I sat there looking at it for all of about a minute and then dove in! I have to say that “delicious” is NOT a word I would use, here! Sorry, but I have to be truthful……..the word I would use is “OMG AMAZING”! No way would “delicious” do it justice! The demi glaze was rich and perfectly seasoned. The beef was tender, juicy, and bursting with flavor – and perfectly cooked! I am a real snob when it comes to my steak – I want it medium rare and any little bit over cooked can ruin a whole meal for me – with a few exceptions. This was perfect!

It was a LOT of food, though. Two four-ounce filets and a huge mound of mashed potatoes was more than I could handle. And I really wanted to see what they offered for dessert. So, the way I decided if I wanted to finish the meal or take part of it home and save room for dessert was to ask what they had for desserts. The waitress read a list of assorted pies and cheese cakes, all of which sounded delightful, but she had me at Lemon Meringue! I asked if the pies were made in-house and was told that the desserts were made by employees, family members of employees, and other local sources – all definitely homemade! So, I ordered the Lemon Meringue pie and a box for the rest of the dinner. Now, that right there is another testament of how good the meal was:  I don’t usually take leftovers home – just don’t – I eat and enjoy what I can and leave what I can’t finish. I generally don’t want to eat it again after it has been sitting and reheated – absolutely doesn’t mean it wasn’t delicious and thoroughly enjoyable, I just don’t care for leftovers. It is rare that I take home leftovers – only when it is so good it is worth it! In the box, I put one of the filets, a little of the remaining mashed potatoes, two slices of that wonderful bread, and what was left of the butterscotch butter!

The pie came………it took my breath away! Again, I am so sorry I didn’t take a photo – it was a thing of beauty! I’m not a good judge of measurements, but I’ll venture to guess it was somewhere in the vicinity of three inches high! The lemon filling was smooth, creamy, and just the right mix of tart and sweet! The meringue was light, airy, fluffy, and ever so lightly toasted on the top – a good way to judge the perfectness of meringue is to put it in your mouth and press it between your tongue and the roof of your mouth, if it feels like little bubbles bursting, it is perfect! And this was just that and not too sweet!

So, Ho-Jacks is definitely on my list of favorite local restaurants! A little out-of-the-way, but so worth it! I give this restaurant a full FIVE stars and a big two thumbs up! I can’t wait to go again and I’m already thinking about what I might order……..hhhmmm, maybe one of those luscious looking burgers with an order of fried pickles!

Christmas 1912

Yes, you read the title correctly……Christmas 1912!  On Tuesday, I went to a monthly event called “Tea with Dee” at the Hoag Library in Albion.  The first Tuesday of each month at noon, Delia Robinson, the Gaines Town Historian, gives a talk and serves tea.  Her talks are usually focused on a historical female figure from our area and are so interesting……if you haven’t attended one of her sessions, you really should!  She is an amazing speaker and finds the most interesting and entertaining facts on the subjects of her talks.  Anyway, as usual, I digress……  This month, she didn’t talk about a person, she talked about how Christmas was 100 years ago – in 1912.  As usual, it was very interesting and entertaining, but this particular talk also brought back so many memories for me!  No……I wasn’t actually here in 1912, so don’t go there!  There were several things she mentioned, though, that were still around when I was growing up in Albion and I found myself thinking of them the rest of the day.

She researched the local newspapers from December 1912 and read us tidbits of information and advertisements from that time.  She mentioned Dugan’s Shoe Store.  I remember going to Dugan’s for my shoes.  It was an experience, not like going to a shoe store today where you pretty much help yourself and have to know what size you wear.  When I was little, it was a big deal to go in, look at the displays, and then sit down and be waited on – like you see in the movies!  The salesman would measure my feet with those big metal foot measurer thingys and bring out a selection of boxes in the perfect size for me to try on.  He would help me put them on, tie them up, and have me walk around in them to see how they felt!  I remember getting my first tap shoes there and my shiny black patent leather “Mary Jane’s” and my beloved saddle shoes!  I would bet the farm that the saddle shoes in this photo came from Dugan’s!

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She also mentioned sale ads for Landauer’s Department Store!  I remember Landauer’s, too!  I graduated with John Landauer, who sadly is no longer with us, and thinking of the store always makes me think of John.  My Great Aunt Margaret worked at Landauer’s for several years, so when we shopped there, chances were that Aunt Margaret would be our sales lady.  Landauer’s was a little pricey for us to shop there on a regular basis, so it was a real treat to go there for something special.  Mom would always take us for one or two special outfits for back to school.  It was the best place to go, if you needed a wedding, shower, or baby gift.  Mom would get her “unmentionables” there.  And, it was the only place in town where you could get official Girl Scout and Boy Scout uniforms and accessories!  Yes, it was a special adventure to shop at Landauer’s – when you bought something, they wouldn’t roll it up and put it in a bag, they would fold it beautifully and put it in a box with tissue paper!

Dee talked about Christmas ornaments from 1912 – there were no advertisements for store-bought ornaments because people made their own, but there were articles in the ladies magazines of the time with tips and ideas for making new and different decorations.  I instantly remembered the construction paper chains we made as children that Mom would hang proudly on our tree!  People now would think that is tacky, but we thought it was wonderful!!!  :)   One particular tip she read to us out of a magazine sounded like a great idea to me!  They suggested you put a small white tree (they told how to make a real tree white and sparkly, but you could use an artificial white tree, now) as the center piece for a holiday table and to decorate it with small wrapped gifts for each of the dinner guests and to attach a ribbon from the gift to the place card at each guest’s place setting around the table.  What a great idea!!!!!

She talked about the recipes of the time, as well…….some that might still go over well today…..some that didn’t sound like they’d be very popular if served in 2012!  :)

So, I got a lot out of this month’s talk and am still thinking about the wonderful memories it sparked and the ideas it put in my head for the holiday season!  And, as usual, I am looking forward to next month’s topic!  Come join us – you’ll surely enjoy it!

One Year…

This week marks one full year since I moved back home to Albion!  What a year it has been!  I’ve written quite a bit in the past year commemorating my adventures and experiences.  But, it is difficult to put into words what it has meant to me to be here and all that I’ve accomplished.  So, here is the past year in a nutshell:

  • First and foremost, I thank God every day that the opportunity came up to retire and move home when I did.  Mom has been quite ill and had a rough year and it has been a blessing to be here to help her through it and be near her – just the peace of mind that I was not 800+ miles away when she needed me and the relief of not worrying from a distance has been a blessing.
  • I’ve written about my experiences, so I won’t go into them all again in summary – if you don’t visit here often, scroll down and catch up!  :)   But, a few highlights (aside from the joy of being close to my family again) are being near the lake that I love so much, rejoining the church I grew up in and becoming an active member, exploring and re-learning about my home town and surrounding areas, reconnecting with old friends, and meeting new friends.
  • I have completed several major and minor projects on my home and have a couple more I want to accomplish before this year is over.  It is a lovely home and I am enjoying it so much – I just love putting my personal touches and a little bit of me into it – all with love and joy!

I’ve had some ups and downs, but mostly ups.  I am very blessed and life has been good to me and for me.  I can’t ask for much more than good health for me and my family and ample opportunities to relax and enjoy them, my friends, and my life.  So, for the coming year, I hope for a lot more adventures and the ability to share them with those I love.

Life is good – be sure to take time to smell the roses and enjoy the people and places you hold dear!

Autumn in WNY

There are some awesome places to view the beauty that Autumn brings to our lives…….most mountainous areas offer amazing scenery!  I personally have enjoyed the changing leaves along the Blue Ridge Parkway in NC’s Blue Ridge Mountains, in the Adirondack Mountains of NY, and in the hills of West Virginia, among other places. I hope someday to spend some time enjoying the foliage in the upper New England states – Maine, Vermont, and New Hampshire. But, I’m here to tell you that right here in Western New York is right up there among the most beautiful color shows – and I don’t have to travel to see it! In fact, the fall colors are as close as my own neighborhood – the street and area around where I live is fairly abundant with trees, so I can sit at my desk and look out across the street or sit on my back patio and enjoy Mother Nature’s majesty as much as I want! Albion and the surrounding area is rather rural, so any drive outside the Village will result in viewing farmer’s fields framed with woods ablaze with reds, oranges, yellows, greens, and browns – all intertwined like paints on an artist’s palette. And, of course, just a little over an hour away is the incredible Letchworth State Park, which I recently visited, but was too early to see the leaves in full color! Yes, the scenery that accompanies the fall colors in the mountains adds to the beauty, but the beautiful rural settings of WNY are not to be dismissed when counting the locations perfect for leaf watching every autumn.

I took these shots from my back patio:

And these shots were taken at our historic Mt. Albion Cemetery, which is a gorgeous place any time of the year, but it comes alive with spectacular color in Autumn:

Aahh – God and Mother Nature make a great team!  What amazing beauty for us to behold – and it is all right here to see every day of the season!

Ladies Outing

The ladies from my church go out to lunch on the second Tuesday of each month – the monthly Ladies Luncheon.  They go to a different place every month, sometimes local in Albion and sometimes they travel out-of-town.  Yesterday was the second time I joined them for the luncheon – I guess that, along with my decision to sign up to make two pies for an upcoming fundraising dinner at the church, makes me a Church Lady (no Dana Carvey jokes are necessary, thank you very much).

I went to the first one last month because I thought it might be a nice way to get to know some of the other women who attend the same church I do.  I know a few people, but am working on getting to know others.  We went to The Village Inn on the Ridge last month and there were about 20 of us.  It was very nice – I enjoyed the lunch and conversations with the women who sat around me.  This month we went to Oakfield, NY, a town about a 30 minute drive south from here, to a fairly new restaurant called The Caryville Inn.  It was a slightly smaller group, this time, with about 15 attending.

The Caryville Inn is a very nice little place on Main Street in Oakfield.  I don’t believe I’ve ever been to Oakfield, which I mistakenly called Oakland to one of the other ladies when we were walking into the restaurant and I mentioned that I didn’t think I’ve ever been to the town – she corrected me by saying “Oakfield.  Oakland is, of course, in…” and we both said “California” in unison and I laughed and said, “now, Oakland I’ve been to, but not Oakfield”.  We had a little chuckle over the slip up.  Anyway, as usual, I digress…….Oakfield is a quaint little town with a beautiful gazebo at the intersection of the main route coming in to town and Main St.  The Caryville Inn is a small restaurant with an attractive brick facing that really sticks out visually on the street.  Inside, there is a bar area and several tables behind a 1/2 wall.  The waitress was very friendly and entertaining – she made our experience there enjoyable.  The menu is full of sandwiches, burgers, salads, and they had a couple of homemade soup of the day options and a few specials.  Everything sounded good – I chose a burger with homemade chips and a cup of steak and potato soup.  Every plate that came to our table looked delicious and everyone was pleased with their choices.  As for me, the burger was very good – the flavor of charcoal flame broiling was very tasty, but the soup was amazing — the highlight of the meal…..that is, until some of us decided to have dessert!  The choices were cheese cake, coconut cream pie, and lemon cream tort – all three choices were selected at the table - I had the lemon cream tort, which was heavenly!

So, lunch was a hit and the restaurant was a very nice choice that I will definitely go to again.  The conversations and company was very enjoyable, as well.  I think I’m finally starting to put names with faces and feel like I know some of the ladies.

By the end of each get together, we decide on where we will go on the next month’s Ladies Luncheon.  Next month is going to be a real treat — I can not wait!!!  We’re going to the Glen Iris Inn in Letchworth State Park – about an hour and a half drive away.  Letchworth is known as the Grand Canyon of the East and is absolutely gorgeous – it has been many, many years since I’ve been there – what a treat it will be to go on an adventure there after all these years!  Here is a link to the Letchworth State Park website, if you’re interested in learning more about it.  I have heard that the Glen Iris Inn is an incredible place – I have never been and am so very excited about getting to go.  As soon as I got home from yesterday’s luncheon, I visited the Glen Iris Inn website and got even MORE excited (I already know what dessert I’ll be ordering, for sure)!  I will drive myself so that I can get there early and do some exploring and see what else I can do after lunch – make a day of it!  The foliage won’t be out in full, yet, but I’m thinking it may be starting to turn – regardless of the fall colors, it will be an amazing day of scenic viewing…….and nice lunch conversations with the ladies.

So, there you have it…….an outing, a restaurant review, anticipation of a grand adventure, and my initiation as a Church Lady……..OK, now we can bring Dana Carvey into the story:

Thoughts, Words, Friends, and More

So, it has been a while since I’ve jotted down any thoughts on here.  Certainly doesn’t mean I haven’t had any thoughts to jot down.  I have!  In fact, I tend to think of a topic or have an adventure or see something or experience something worth blogging about just about every day!  I think “I need to write about this” and even think through the spin I’ll put on it and how I’ll compose it.  But, then, I get off on something else and don’t do it.  So, it isn’t for lack of inspiration.  And, it certainly isn’t for lack of time, either!  I always have a lot going on, but there is time to write, if I just put my mind to it.  The last possible excuse would be lack of interest, but that isn’t true, either!  I really enjoy coming up with things to write about and the actual process of putting them in a blog.  So, I can’t think of a single reason why I don’t jot something down every day or at least a couple of times a week………I just don’t!  With that said, I’m going to attempt to get some recent thoughts and activities out there.

There was a time when having words with your friends meant sitting down for a chat or calling them on the telephone – having a physical face-to-face (or at least an actually spoken) conversation – or perhaps writing a letter with a pen and paper and mailing it to them in an envelope with a postage stamp on it.  Then along came technology and email and texting and Facebook – the end, it seems, of face-to-face conversations and handwritten notes.  But, now, Words With Friends has a whole NEW meaning and it has nothing to do with conversations or communicating at all.  You see, Words With Friends is a game you play online with…..you got it…..friends!  I know, this isn’t a new game – it has been around a long time, now.  But, it is new to me!  My nephew, Bryan, got me hooked on it a little over a week ago and I’ve been playing it like an addict ever since!  I love it and using the words “hooked” and “addicted” are serious understatements!  Words With Friends is a form of Scrabble.  You get letters and use them to form connecting words on a board for points with a partner.  The concept and basic rules are the same.  The differences, though, are what makes it even better than Scrabble……..and I always did enjoy a good game of Scrabble!  First, you can play with a friend who lives across town, across the state, or across the county!  You can have multiple games going with multiple friends from all over the place – like, right now, I think I have at least five active games with friends in NY, NC, RI, and FL – all at the same time!  I choose to play with actual friends I know, but you can also play with random strangers, if you want to widen your partner base.  In regular Scrabble, you don’t know if an odd combination of letters might make up a word you never heard of before – but, in Words With Friends, you can play with the letters to try odd combinations and the game will tell you if it is an actual word or not – it won’t accept it, if it isn’t a word!  Also, a game may last several hours or several days – your partner may play a word or a few words and then log off and go to work or tend to some errands and come back to it later in the day.  That can be somewhat frustrating, if you have the time and want to keep playing………but, they may also end up waiting for you to play your word while you’re off doing stuff, so it goes both ways.  That’s also the benefit of having multiple games going at once – if one game goes idle while that friend is busy, another game may gear up for a few rounds.  It is exciting to log on after being out and about and finding that it is your turn on a couple of boards!  So, that’s my new little guilty pleasure - Words With Friends!

Shopping is another activity that has taken on a new meaning for me, lately.  A few months ago, I started “church shopping”.  When I was growing up here in Albion, my family church was the First United Methodist Church.  I was baptized there and went with my family for many years.  In my mid-teens, I went to a little country church for a while and then returned to the family church as a young adult.  I didn’t want to just assume that I’d feel most comfortable returning to the church I grew up in, so I shopped around for a while.  I visited several churches in town over several weeks and experienced very different ways of worship.  When I went to North Carolina Wesleyan College, one of the required courses was Religious History.  During that course, I studied all the major religions, including all the different denominations within the Christian religion.  I found it fascinating and really enjoyed that class.  As I visited the different churches in my shopping expedition, I was reminded of what I learned about Christianity in that class.  Although all Christian religions have a similar thread, they all tend to have their own views, interpretations, and formats for worship.  I really enjoyed each and every service I attended – each for their own special features – and I participated in some very touching ceremonies.  For instance, one Sunday the church I attended held a renewal of vows for a couple who had been married for 70 years – I was overwhelmed with emotion and I didn’t even know them – it was so beautiful!  Some congregations were a little more openly friendly than others, but in every single one there were multiple people who noticed a new face and took the time to come over to greet me and thank me for visiting their church – I felt welcomed and included in every church I visited.  But, when it came down to a final decision, I decided to make the Albion First United Methodist Church my home church once again.  It is the same, but also not the same as it was all those years ago.  The church, itself, is exactly as I remember it and the services are familiar and comfortable – as far as format and standard parts that are second nature to me.  There are a few familiar faces, but for the most part, the congregation is made up of people I will need to get to know, so that is different.  A couple of my neighbors also go there, so that is nice, as well.  I also really like the pastor – he is new to the church, too – his first week was the first week I went after ending my shopping.  I have found…….or should I say RE-found……..a church home and I am settling in as an active member.  I went to the monthly ladies lunch a couple of weeks ago and am brushing up on my knitting and crocheting skills so that I can join the ladies prayer group that makes lovely prayer shawls to give out to members who are going through some tough times.  I look forward to other activities that will gear up in the fall and finding out more about how I can contribute some of my time to the church.

The Orleans County Fair started up this week – yesterday, in fact.  I always loved the fair and carnivals.  Sadly, not many towns still have carnivals, but they do still have county fairs.  I am hoping to take in some of the fun, food, and sights at the fair this week.

I went to Point Breeze this past Saturday – a lovely spot where Lake Ontario and the Oak Orchard River meet – with my nephew, his wife, and their son – my adorable 2-year-old great-nephew, Nolen!  It was such a wonder-filled day having lunch with them and watching Nolen enjoy feeding the ducks and swans, throwing rocks into the lake, exploring for pretty stones for his Mommy, and checking out the lighthouse.  It is one of my most favorite spots in the world and sharing it for the first time with a 2-year-old was an amazing adventure!

Well, I think I need to get on with my day……..I’ve spilled enough thoughts for one day and I need to check my Words With Friends boards to see if it is my turn to create words from random letters!  :)