Archive | April 2012

Serenity

Serenity, peace, living the good life……call it what you will, but I have had three days in a row where I have enjoyed perfect serenity – a little piece of heaven – and I didn’t have to go far to find it!  Right now, I am in the middle of several things that have made life a little hectic, so it was a welcomed gift to stumble upon these opportunities to just sit back and drink in some peaceful relaxation.  Now that I’m retired, I can live a little easier when things get hectic – no need to squeeze “hectic” in with “work”.  Still, I usually plan some relaxation time into most days.  But, in the last three days, opportunities reached out and found me – I literally stumbled on each one without any effort to seek them out.

The first opportunity was on Thursday evening.  After leaving from a visit at Mom’s, I decided to swing by Point Breeze to check out the new brick walkway at the lighthouse where the Oak Orchard River meets Lake Ontario.  I read that the walkway was finished, but hadn’t had a chance to go see it, yet.  I especially wanted to see it because Mom and I had bought several bricks for family members during the fundraising efforts.  It was a warm day, but it is always much cooler at the lake, so I assumed it would be too chilly to hang around.  I decided to just take a few minutes to check out the bricks and head home.  As it turned out, it was a beautiful evening at the Point, too.  I took a leisurely stroll along the walkway and found the bricks we purchased.  Then, I walked along the shore line gazing at the calm waters of Lake Ontario and sat on a bench overlooking Oak Orchard River.  The sky and water were so beautiful – such vivid colors and water as smooth as glass.  I sat there for what seemed like hours (actually probably about 45 minutes or so) just listening to the sounds and feeling the warm breeze.  It was amazing and so peaceful.  After a little while, I got in my car, put the top down, and drove home with the wind blowing through my hair.  Aahh – heaven!

The next opportunity was Friday evening.  I just finished doing some things in the back yard and sat for just a minute on the wicker love seat on the patio.  I was planning to call the girls in and go fix some supper.  The girls had other plans.  As soon as I sat down, Katie curled up on the love seat beside me and Amy curled up on the wicker chair across the patio from us.  Megan was taking a stroll around the yard ensuring every blade of grass was where it was supposed to be.  Since Katie and Amy joined me on the patio, I sat back, got comfortable, and seized another opportunity for some peaceful relaxation.  We sat there for close to two hours just loving the warm, quiet evening on our backyard patio.  It was such a lovely evening and the only sounds came from distant lawn mowers and a few birds chirping.  I could have stayed there a couple more hours, but the girls must have realized it was past their supper time and wanted to go inside.  It was an amazing end to a busy day.

The third opportunity came this afternoon.  It was a cold, rainy Saturday, so I really didn’t feel much like going out and running errands or anything.  I planned, pretty much, to just stay home and take care of some stuff around the house.  Then, I remembered that there was a book signing scheduled for today at the Pullman Universalist Church in town.  The book is a compilation of people and things that are legendary in Orleans County titled “Legendary Locals of Orleans County”.  I heard about the book at a luncheon I went to with Mom a couple of months ago and wanted to get a copy when it was ready for sale.  So, I decided to go to the book signing just to get a copy of the book and get back home where I could be warm and dry.  I went to the church, bought the book, and spoke briefly with the authors while they signed it for me.  I have always admired the Pullman church from the outside – it is a beautiful historic church that was built with Medina Sandstone in 1894 by George Pullman (of the Pullman railroad sleeper car fame) in memory of his parents, who resided in Albion in the 1840s.  It looks like a castle and it is the first landmark I think of when I think of downtown Albion.  But, I’ve never been inside it.  Not sure why, just never have been – at least not that I remember.  So, when I got my book signed, I decided to leave through the sanctuary to have a look around.  It is a surprisingly small sanctuary – given the exterior appearance – but really quite lovely.  To provide a musical background for the book signing and reception, there was a lady playing a harp in the sanctuary.  The music was so beautiful and the sanctuary was so lovely, that I decided to sit in a pew and take a few minutes to listen to the music and thumb through the book.  Other than an occassional person wandering through, I sat all alone with the harpist – as if I was in my own little world and she was making her heavenly sounds just for me.  I stayed there about a half an hour or so and enjoyed every minute of it.  I hated to leave and go back out into the cold drizzle.  I wish I had taken some photos of the sanctuary and harpist……..but, all I have is this photo of the outside that I took a couple of years ago.

 Moral of this story?  Pay attention!  Recognize when an opportunity to participate in something special comes up and take advantage of it.  If I had ignored the signs and gone about my business, I would have missed out of three amazing moments of joy.

Just Thinkin’

Lots going on……..lots of thoughts clunking around in my head…….lots of projects and lists and stuff to consider and plan and do!  It is April, already! Just two days ago marked FIVE MONTHS since I moved back home to Albion.  WOW – can you believe it?  On one hand, so much has been happening that I think I’ve had to have been here way longer than five months.  But, then again, I feel like I just got here, I blinked, and bam – five months have flashed by in a nanosecond.  After all, I still have stuff I haven’t settled, yet.  Where’d the time go?  Every day over the past couple of weeks, I planned on jotting down some thoughts and every day stuff starts taking up the time and I just say I’ll do it “tomorrow”.  Well, I decided this evening to just sit here and do it!  So, here you go.  Just a bunch of random thoughts I wanna clear out of my head.

First thing…….did you notice I changed the theme on my page?  I thought pink and flowers was very “Spring-like” and added a pop of color and a bit of cheer.  What do you think?

It is “project” time……April showers may bring May flowers, but spring brings on projects!  And I have several I am planning for the house that will all be completed this month!  Lots going on to make for a busy month, for sure!

There is something in Albion that I’m having a hard time getting used to — Four-Way Stops!!!  This is a very small village that has more 4-way stops than I’ve ever seen anywhere!  I find myself sitting at the stop sign waiting for an oncoming car on the cross street to pass through and realizing I could have proceeded cause they are going to stop – especially intersections that I drove through for years when I lived here before and they were just normal intersections, then, but now are different!  I also get confused when I come to a 4-way stop and the person who was first to the intersection (the one with the right of way) motions for me to go first.  But, the most difficult part is when I have to stop at every block on a particular street, but the 4-ways vs. regular stop signs isn’t consistent.  I’m driving along and stop at 2 or 3 consecutive 4-ways and know that I can proceed if there is oncoming traffic cause I am first to the intersection and they will be stopping – then, I come up on one that isn’t a 4-way and I have to deliberately think and remember that on THIS intersection I can’t go ahead and proceed cause the oncoming car doesn’t have a stop sign!  It’s like learning to drive all over again – you have to go back to the basic ways of thinking things through as you drive because it messes with what you think you’ve known and done automatically for many, many years of driving!

I have put together a list of “day trips” I am planning for later this spring and into the summer.  Most have to wait until after Memorial Day because they are seasonal and currently closed for the season.  But, I can start doing some once the projects are done and I have more time to just go have a leisurely day of driving around.  I hope to have some grand adventures to write about once I start whittling away at my list – everything from the quirky spots like the birth place and museum of Jell-O and the only remaining Kazoo factory and museum in North America (both in little towns near here), to fabulous lake destinations like Olcott Beach, to hitting up as many old country Amish shops as I can find, to the great wine trails throughout the Niagara and Finger Lakes regions, to the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, to the glass museum in Corning, and much, much more!  I have so much I want to reacquaint myself to that were old favorites and even more I want to discover for the first time.  It is going to be a great year of finding out what is wonderfully the same and what is new or different about the fabulous area I grew up in!  Bring on the warm weather and exciting adventures!

Well, that’s all I have time for, today………More thoughts to come – stay tuned!